How can you be so sure that you love your spouse?

and the marriage will be everlasting and up to what extent you are willing to give it up? thank you for the answer.How can you be so sure that you love your spouse?
its just a feeling that comes over you weather you want it to or not, its unavoidable...not that you'd wanna avoid it. everything feels right even if everything is wrong. even when things fall apart you know that just by being together it will all fall into place again. you feel completely safe when you're together. there's never a guarentee that it will be forever, you just make a promise to yourself and to him/her that you will put your all into your life together and its worth every minute. How can you be so sure that you love your spouse?
Great question! I don't think most marriages are everlasting. Peoples values and morals have changed. Women are less apt to put up with their husbands ****. We are stronger now then we ever have been. I think the only marragies that work is the ones where you are lucky enough to find your soul mate. I think loving and being IN love are totally different. I'm sure if your husband got hurt you would worry but do you still get excited when he comes home from work? After 12 years of marriage I still put on lipstick and fix my hair when I know he's about to come home, thats how you know your still IN love.
I'm just sure I love my husband -- there is no ';how'; about it. If you love someone, you know you love them, period.





I'm fairly certain we will last forever. I won't be so stupid as to say I guarantee it, or I'm 100% sure because nothing is ever a given, especially two people spending their lives together -- anything could happen. However, my husband and I do not look at divorce as an option at all -- it never comes up because we agreed it would never be an option. We respect each other.





What extent am I willing to give it up? Meaning how far could he go before I'd be willing to give up on him and our vows? A long running affair, if he murdered someone out of cold blood, beating me repeatedly, threatning mine or my children's lives, and that's about it -- anything under that category. Otherwise, I'm with him for life, better or worse.
You can't be sure of anything. Yes, I love my husband with all of my heart and yes, I can only hope that my marriage lasts forever. I will do everything that I can to make my marriage happy and everasting, but there are somethings that you can't control.
I have been in love before but I always fought to keep it going...it seemed like love was so hard. when I met my husband we just knew. Everything flowed perfectly. I could feel our love just radiating from us. I think you can see true love in certain moments. When you fight they fight different than other ';loves'; when you cuddle it feels different everything is different. I also think if it is true love you can see yourself with this person in every situation in your future life.
Nothing in life is guaranteed. I will tell you that I know I love my dh because I still feel the butterflies in my stomach when I am with him. We have been together for 8 yrs. We are best friends and we do everything together. I hope it stays like this but I would be naive to think there wouldn't be times where I just need my space.
I feel it in my heart that I love him. When I go to the store and I see something thats his taste I cant help but get it for him. When he's sick I cant help but take care of him. We are like that for eachother. We've lasted through plenty of fights. We both agree that as long as thevows are not broken we will last til death do us part. We enjoy playing Xbox together and we both love sports. We are best friends.


The point I would give it up is if he broke a promise (porn, strip clubs) that he made to me, he was a pedophile, or he had an affair.
One is never sure but one can try his best to make it work. There will be ups and downs but your love and caring for each other should be able to sustain the turmoil. Before you know your first anniversary turns into your fifth and then tenth and so on...
You will know for sure when the two of you are old and gray and still loving each other like crazy.
my husband and i argue constantly, but under all that, we always know we still want to sleep next to each other when the fight is over.
You never know what will happen to you and your spouse in the future. One day can be nice and rosy...the next dark