We were both looking to get married when we met each other. I don't look at it as finding ';the one'; - I see it more as finding someone I can see myself being with long-term; I don't think there's just one person like that in the world. There are many people out there that I'm compatible with to different degrees; when I met my husband, it seemed that he was one of such people. Our relationship felt right.Were you ready to be married when you found your spouse?
My wife and I had a lot of drama before we got married. We got together, we broke up, I dated her best friend...things were CRAZY! It wasn't until after I left for the military that I realized that I NEED her. My weaknesses are her strengths, and visa versa. She completes me. I didn't realize that until I lost her. We were over 700 miles away from each other when we got back together for good. We've been married for almost 5 years now, and we're loving every minute of it. Sure we have arguement, but what marriage doesn't. We learn from these arguements. So, I guess you can say that I matured enough to know what I wanted. I definitely wasn't ready for marriage when we were first going out or even the second time. However, she certainly is the one. I have no doubt about that.
I was 12, so no.
But after years of dating, I realized that my phobia of marriage was unfair to him and eventually got over it. I cancelled the wedding a couple times, not becuase I didn't love him, but honestly after seeing my parents marriage, I was a bit, shall we say, terrified....
Happily married 11 1/2 years now.
no i should have waited because now i have my baby girl who is 6 months old and an abusive husband who i am scared to get ride of. and the only reason we got married is cause i was pregnant and he didn't want to pay for the hospital bills so we got married, i should have left him when i had the chance. don't make the same mistakes i made and don't let a friend do it either
Not when I met him only because I was in the middle of divorcing my first husband. But we were married 2 years later and have been married for over 10 years. It didn't take me (or him) long to figure out that we were supposed to be together.
Of course not. When we first met I knew I really liked her. The time we spent together afterwords and getting to know her better is what made me realize that she was the one I wanted to marry. It's not as easy as looking at someone and saying ';Yup! that's the one!';
Not the day we began dating, but 18 months later when I did get married, I was indeed ready.
No because i was only twelve when i met my spouse. I was not sure i wanted to marry him until i was 23 and we had been dating since i was 16.
NO! lol and I was not ready the day we got married either!
Of course not, It takes time to figure that out.
Oh hell no, but I wasn't letting her go!
After one date, I knew he was the one for me. I was 26 at the time.
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