Applying for USA spouse visa, do you know how long it takes?

I have applied 3 weeks ago for USA Spouse visa. My husband is american and we have lived together in UK for 2 years. After 3 weeks I received a letter from USA confirming that they have received the payment and they gave us my case number. The petition has still not been approved, because apprently it takes more time to approve the petition.





My husband says because they have already sent us a confirmation of the payment after 3 weeks, it's a good sign meaning that the process is gonna be quick. But I don't think that means anything, because when the petition is approved, it means that the process has begun.





What do you think? Do you have any idea how long it takes to get the green card? I am considering 1 year to 1.5 years , is that normal? Do you have experience? Any suggestions welcome!Applying for USA spouse visa, do you know how long it takes?
Your expectation of 12-18 months is probably accurate. When my husband and I were making the decision as to who would immigrate to the others country, we did all the research, including timelines. It is possible it could be done within 9 months, but as it stands right now, there are some backlogs in some areas of the bureaucracy. If you figure on 12-18 months, and allow for it to possibly be longer, then you won't get hit by any surprises as far as time it takes.


Good luck, and hope it goes fast for you!Applying for USA spouse visa, do you know how long it takes?
That is about right they have to do an extensive background check through all agencys..
I think it varies from country to country. It took about a year for friends who went that route in brazil. You're right about the receipt, they're easy to send out, processing applications is a little more tougher.
I am actually in the process of applying for my husband as well. I am a US citizen and we're about to send in the I-130 at the end of this month. I'm glad to see you got a response so quickly. I hope it goes that quick for us. I have been told that a US Citizen fixing papers for someone can take as little as 6 months to get the green card. But it can also take longer than a year depending on the situation. Good Luck with your immigration stuff. I hope it goes that fast for us.

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What does your spouse do to build you up as a person?

I know we are in control of who we are but I would like to know what does your spouse do for to help you become the best person you can be?What does your spouse do to build you up as a person?
He encourages me to persue dreams-he never lets me think they are unattainable or that they are silly. He knows my passions and interests and makes sure I am still given the chance to chase them.


But just by being who he is in my life, it makes me want to be a better individual-so I can be the best wife I can be for him, because I love him so much. What does your spouse do to build you up as a person?
He motivates me to work harder. He kicks me out of the bed when i can't wake up to go to my classes and when I can't study, he motivates me to study harder. He motivates me to be a better person by complimenting me and helping me see things from the other side of the box. I can go on and on but you don't want to hear all that. LOL!
WTF?





Build me as a person?





I never heard that one before!





Ok.... ok this is what she does.





She got a lego mindstorm and used it for my central CPU. Then She added wooden arms and legs. And finally the tooth fairy came along and wished me to be a true human.
His compliments eliminate any insecurities that may linger.
Nothing. I FULONG built myself up.


As always I'm mr. solo.
Put me down and tell me I am not a man. Never build always tears down.
I'm already the best person I can be, that's why he married me.

Can you have more than one kid with your spouse on Fable 2?

If so, How?Can you have more than one kid with your spouse on Fable 2?
You should be able to, though it may be limited by where you are in the game or the size of your house. After the Spire, your kid will grow up and you can pop them out pretty frequently since if you venture out and come back, your kid will be older pretty instantaneously. You may be limited to the number of child beds you have in the house though.Can you have more than one kid with your spouse on Fable 2?
You sure can :) I have 3 myself.. Just go through the same process you went through the first time and Bang! :)

How many days r required to stay in india to do petition for USA immigration under spouse category?

i am a usa citizen , married to a boy in india , how many days i have to stay in india so i can put my husband petition for immigration in usa embassy in new delhi ?How many days r required to stay in india to do petition for USA immigration under spouse category?
There is no waiting period to submit the petition once he become your husband. For the spouse is no waiting period for visa become available. However, the USCIS like to see prove that you guys married in a good faith. You can submit marriage certificate, pictures of wedding ceremony, spend time with family and friends in India, any correspondence that you guys might have prior the wedding, submit all the prove you might have of the married in a good fatih.





I'have heard that the process for the spouse visa who is applied from outside USA will take 9 months - 1.5 years waiting period. But once he come to USA, he might wait only for two months in USA to get his Green Card.





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You are not allowed to submit anything to the embassy. You must come back and submit everything to the proper CIS Service Center. It will take about a year before your husband can get his visa and follow you to the USA.

I am the spouse of a military member, would I have to pay for my transportation when he hets his PCS?

he is going to graduate AIT soon, and this his first PCS.I am the spouse of a military member, would I have to pay for my transportation when he hets his PCS?
No. They will pay to move you from your domicile to his first duty station as long as it is not a ';dependents restricted'; overseas tour. He should get a ';travel brief'; as part of his levy for the assignment. They will provide him all of the options that would apply in your case. He can even make a bit of money if he chooses to do a ';DITY Move';.I am the spouse of a military member, would I have to pay for my transportation when he hets his PCS?
when we moved i had to do alot of paper pushing to get it done but the military will either reinburst you or pay for your flight providing that you have the right paperwork done and you are sponsored to go live with him
if he is granted accompanied orders, then no. If he gets Unaccompanied orders and you choose to go anyway, than all expenses incurred will be out of pocket.





what will most likely happen with accompanied orders is that he will check in and then make arrangements to get you and your stuff out there. if you have very little( it can all fit in a Uhaul,) you can make money on a DITY. you will drive and then he will submit the paperwork to be reimbursed.
that depends where he is going.
Once he gets orders they should say whether you will be able to move with him. Once he has those than he will need to get with TMO to set up a move for your family assuming it is an accompanied move. If you want to move yourself than you can go through the process and get reimbursement after the move. I warn you that if you move yourselves you will not see reimbursement for several weeks (for us the estimated times was 8-9 weeks). As a E-2 you will have a weight restriction and TMO will be able to let him know what that is. My husband is a SGT and ours was 9 thousand lbs I believe. When you are in transit make sure to keep receipts for gas, hotel stays, and take mileage before you leave and when you get to his duty station. You will not be able to do anything until he gets his orders. Hope this was helpful
Tha depends on his rank, and where is going. If he is getting staitoned in CONUS they will pay for the move. Outside of CONUS they should pay for it if he is an E-5 assuming its not a combat zone.
when my husband was in tech school i went out to be with him...we paid for that..when we left tech school for his first base...they paid...they have paid for each pcs we have had...and moved our stuff or like the last move paid us to move it....as long as you are on his orders they will get you to him...but he needs to do the paperwork..and most times if its not overseas....you get paid back for your trip

What documentation do you need to buy property in Italy as a US Citzn if a spouse is unable to be present?

The Italian Notaio is saying that it is illegal in Italy to have property in just a one spouse name and that I would have to be physically present along with my husband. We thought it could be just in my husband's name. Any information would be appreciated.What documentation do you need to buy property in Italy as a US Citzn if a spouse is unable to be present?
I don't know about Italy, but if you were going to do that in the US I think you would need a Limited Power of Attorney. Does Italy have something similar that you could do? That would grant someone else to temporarily act on your or your husband's behalf.





From here I would consult with an experienced Italian real estate attorney.





Good luck.

Is there a waiver I can file before my spouse goes to the Mexican embassy to get a visa?

We have file a i-130 it was approved. They sent us to the Visa Center where we were asked to fill out a visa application and affidavit of support, both we filled out and we are now waiting for his visa interview in Juarez, Mexico. I have heard there is a waiver that can be filled out so he doesn't have to wait in Mexico for his visa to be approved, so he can apply for adjustment of status here in the USA. If he leaves that would be a financial crisis for me and my 1 yr old son.Is there a waiver I can file before my spouse goes to the Mexican embassy to get a visa?
Assumption that I am making in answering your question: Your husband entered without documentation.





If this is true, then you definitely want to consult with an attorney and NOT a notario. By leaving to United States to attend the interview you mention, he can be triggering a 3 or 10 or lifetime bar to reentry to the United States. It depends on the time he has been in the U.S. There is a waiver possibility for the 3 and 10 year bars, however, if the waiver is denied he is stuck in Mexico-- this is because you cannot apply for the waiver until the interview. A short consultation with an immigration attorney (someone who specializes in the field not a jack of all trades) may save you lots of money and years of heartache.Is there a waiver I can file before my spouse goes to the Mexican embassy to get a visa?
im sorry to say that if he came illegally into the US, that he is going to have to wait in Mexico, there currently is no waiver that allows him to wait it out here in the US. My husbands wait was 5 mos in Mexico prior to approval, i suggest you do what I did, go stay with him in Mexico until approved.
You're situation is confusing. But I think when you have your interview in Juarez to get a Visa, it doesn't take days to get it approved. In my brother's case, he filed for an I-129F (petition for Fiance), but she was in Mexico. Once it was approved a packet of info was sent to him of what she needed before her appt. She needed a doctors examination, which is done in Juarez for $150 and you get the results that same day, $100 deposited in Banamex, birth certificate, passport. Once she had all that they went the next day around 5:00 am, you don't need to set up an appt, and it was approved right away. Then they were sent to one of the ports of entry, I don't know what goes on in there, but they were out by 11 at night.





You can also find out at www.uscis.gov

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If I am an attorney, can I represent my spouse in court?

I am planning on becoming an attorney here in Florida, but I wanted to ask whether or not WHEN I BECOME LICENSED, I would be able to represent my spouse in court? I wasn't sure if there were any rules about that. If anyone has any links to more information, it's definitely appreciated! Thanks! :)If I am an attorney, can I represent my spouse in court?
In civil court, sure you can, unless there is a conflict of interest.





In criminal court you can unless you might be called as a witness yourself, or are a victim.





It's often not a good idea, but it's not illegal.





RichardIf I am an attorney, can I represent my spouse in court?
You can but it is not a good idea.
I think you have a long way to go buddy if you don't yet know what you are doing. Keep up the studying. lol

Can I co-sign or finance a house in Missouri for my parents without my spouse's consent?

We are still married and not legally separated. Do I need my spouse's consent to finance a house for my parents? I have decent credit and could qualify on my own.Can I co-sign or finance a house in Missouri for my parents without my spouse's consent?
Probably, just remember that you will be responsible for that debt when and if they cannot pay for it any longer. If you are not planning a divorce or separation right now, you better start. I know if I did this or my husband did I would be TICKED. That is entirely up to you though. good luck!!!!Can I co-sign or finance a house in Missouri for my parents without my spouse's consent?
This should be a decision that you should make. You can talk to him about it just out of respect for him, but you know the saying ';Blood is Thicker than water';. If you are the only chances that your parents have to get a place that they can call HOME, don't let anyone ruin that. unless this decision would affect you or him in any way, I don't see any harm in that. If your Parents are responsible and reliable, and you know deep down inside this is the best thing to do. GO AHEAD. This your chance to give back to them. Good Luck
Yes you can, just because you are married you don't need your spouse's permission for everything. Good luck.

When your spouse is mad at you or giving silent treatment, do they ';buddy up'; more to the kids?

My spouse is mad at me and giving the old silent treatment. I've noticed when he does this, he goes out of his way to be extra nice to the kids.When your spouse is mad at you or giving silent treatment, do they ';buddy up'; more to the kids?
When my hubby got mad, everyone in the family was affected. My kids usually hid. I became more protective of them.When your spouse is mad at you or giving silent treatment, do they ';buddy up'; more to the kids?
we dont have kids but my husband does that if anyone else is around. it seems like they do that to show ';hey i'm the nice one, she's the one who's hateful';. its like they want people to take their side.
Wow! I thought my hubby was the only one :P he is always nice to his son but when I am a bit mad at him he seems to become extra fun dad
Interesting question! And I'm guilty of it! I notice that I do it to annoy him, to make a point of ';look how much they like me! look how great they think I am!';
No, I buddy up with someone else!
yes mine does too, he even makes them snack hideous!
Mine does the same thing! I'm curious to see what other people think.

What are the alternatives when a spouse refuses to sign IRS 1040 making the other spouse ineligible for EIC?

If you're filing seperately, I thought that makes you ineligible for EIC anyhow.

When the kids out number you and your spouse isn't it so hard?

1year old sick since Monday, ear infection up all night for the past week, 5 year old having diarrhea and bad stomach pain, 8 year old upset because he's getting no attention, man we are getting so stressed. Doctor's visits out the ying yang, no sleep, sick kids, jealous kids, older kids fighting non-stop. How do you balance everything out?When the kids out number you and your spouse isn't it so hard?
I have 10yo, 5yo, 2yo, and sleep like a baby. Stress is self-created. Fighting siblings is normal, just remove the weapons form the house, and relax. Stop trying to micro-manage every household situation. My wife did the same thing until I told her to stop. The house is much quieter now that my wife and kids don't try to our shout each other.





Sometimes as parents, to preserve sanity, we have to let-go just a little. And quality, loving discipline works too.When the kids out number you and your spouse isn't it so hard?
I don't know, when my daughter is at my house she is outnumbered 4 to 1. So it's much easier on me. I could not imagine doing it with 3 though, keep up the good work :)





Just remember, sicknesses end. They will both eventually get better and things will get back to normal. Just work through this and live for the little things like sleep, LOL. You can do it, and when they are not sick any longer it will be SO much better. Live for tomorrow, tomorrow is another day.
We have 10 week old triplets. I don't think we have learned to balance it out, even though they were born 20 weeks ago.


Just last week, Savannah and Caleb were sick, and I clearly had to give them a bit more attention, Ella got sooo jealous. I found it easier just to tend to Savannah and Caleb, since Ella could never be pleased. Thank god my husband took 3 days off work to help me out. And of course it happened to be the week my mom was out of town.





Just take a deep breath once in a while. What also helps me a lot is going outside. Just for a short while. 15 minutes. the Vitamin D does wonders!
Wow. You and your partner need to go on a date once your kids get better.


Good for you for being a caring parent. You need to take the healthy, unattentioned boy on a date with you too. He'd appreciate it. Honestly, he should not suffer because his siblings are sick. He should be understanding, but he should not be punished.
just keep reminding yourself that they will not be this age forever, they will grow up, and tomorrow is another day





*hugs*





you're doing great, don't worry about it!
I only have two kids but I saw the grandma answer and I LOVED it!





Its so true!





You need a night out lady!
We don't have kids that out number us but I just wanted to say just keep up the good work, it will be over sooooon =)
one word grandma

Can you get a mortgage with boyfriend not spouse?

My bf and I are not married. We want to move and buy a house. I have excellent credit his is not so good but he's working on fixing what few issues he has left. My question is alone with my income I cant get approved for a mortgage (he makes alot more money than me) Can we both apply for a mortgage on a house even tho we are not married. Also, does anyone know around what the monthly payments would be like if we purchased a 170K dollar home and financed 80K of it?





Thanks a Bunch :DCan you get a mortgage with boyfriend not spouse?
you can buy anything with anyone. it's a matter of trusting the situation enough to do so. Compose a separate contract between both parties as to what will be done in the case of separation or dispute. Be proactive about protecting yourself. Do not let love cloud your reasoning.





as far as the payments: Search yahoo or google for mortgage calculator. Several useful sites should come up immediately.Can you get a mortgage with boyfriend not spouse?
First, you can find out what the principle and interest is on a mortgage at www.mortgage-calc.com (click on simple payment calculator) Rates are currently in the 6.25-7% range.





Just remember you'll also need home owners insurnace (for me its $700 a year) and county property taxes (mine are 2300 a year)... those two things add about $250 a month to my house payment. . . but they vary with region.





You can buy a house with someone you've never met, if you want. So yes, your BF and you can get a loan together regardless of marriage. However, if he makes significantly more, the bank may require him to be the primary-- meaning his credit score counts more. It may work better for you to do a ';no income verification /aka stated income'; loan or ';no documentation loan'; in which they use your emploiyment history and credit score and just ';ask'; what your income is. They know you are telling them an inflated figure as this is the purpose of the loan. (Self employed people use these loans too!)





Go to the bank, bring all your W2's , paycheck stubs, and 2 months of bank statements, and they'll tell you what they can offer you. if they're iffy, find a mortgage broker instead, who can shop you around for the best programs-- but typically gets 1% of the sales price for a fee.
Yes you can. There are no restrictions on ownership for marital status. You just want to be careful and specifically state in writing what you want to happen to the property if you split up. If he leaves, you are liable for the property. Ten years later, you have paid off the loan and want to sell - you will need his signature to sell it and he will be entitled to his 50% - no matter what the value of the property was when he took off. You have to decide what will happen if you want to sell and he doesn't - what happens if he dies - what rights his family has to your house after he dies...





Lots of issues - just think it through and go in with your eyes open. You can get an attorney to help you out with the agreement without spending too much money.





Last thing - $80,000 at 6% (a reasonable rate) is 479.64 per month, but then there are property taxes and insurance that will vary depending on where you live.
Payments depend on your credit, count on about 800. Your amount with depend on whoever has the lowest score.





You can buy with anyone you want. However, I honestly have to caution you against it. This situation rarely works and one or both of you usually ends up with serious financial trouble.
To simply answer your question, yes you can get a mortgage together. His credit, however, may cause you an overall reduction in allowable amount of mortgage. I'd suggest discussing that with a Mortgage Lender. You may need to go with a ';stated loan'; product to accommodate what you are looking to do.





Good luck!
I can get this rolling for you! The monthly payment would depend on your rate, which would depend on your credit score. I am online right now, shoot me an email to msmith@premierloangroup.com, and I'll see what I can do!





Marty

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Can my bank account be garnished if my spouse is sole proprietor of his business and he owes back taxes?

The taxes from your spouse's sole proprietorship are part of your joint return. A sole proprietorship is not separated from the taxpayer, which in this case is you and your spouse.





You and your spouse are equally responsible for those taxes. The IRS will recover those taxes from any assets you or your spouse have.Can my bank account be garnished if my spouse is sole proprietor of his business and he owes back taxes?
Your separate property cannot be levied upon to satisfy your spouse's separate debt. If you owe income tax on a joint return based on profits from the spouse's business, you and your assets can be levied upon. IRS can levy on bank accounts and wages without a court order. A levy on other assets may require an order rubber-stamped by a judge. In a community property state separate debts can be collected by levy on community property.Can my bank account be garnished if my spouse is sole proprietor of his business and he owes back taxes?
If you filed a joint return you are BOTH liable for the full amount of the tax debt regardless of whose bank accounts are involved.





BTW, the IRS doesn't ';garnish'; bank accounts. Only wages can be garnished and only with a court order. The IRS doesn't need a court order to seize your bank or other financial accounts. The present your bank with a seizure order and the money is turned over by your bank.
yes whether or not you are joint owners.. once you are married what is his is yours also.. funny that way ain`t it?
Only if it's a joint account, I think.

What if sex with someone other than your spouse was not considered ';cheating';?

Would the world be a happier place? Safer?What if sex with someone other than your spouse was not considered ';cheating';?
than 50% of the divorced couples would still be togetherWhat if sex with someone other than your spouse was not considered ';cheating';?
In open relationships it isn't considered cheating. I think honesty and open communication are more important factors than having sex with someone else, and I think this makes for happier relationships for many people. People aren't afraid to admit they are attracted to other people and everyone knows where they stand.
I don't think it could really work out the way you are thinking. Some people tend to get attached to the person they are Intimate with most people just can't have a one night stand if you will. Also again the STD'S would be a lot higher. I think in the long run people would end up fighting a lot more and marriages wouldn't last. I think we would all feel good about our selves if are spouse was off with someone else doing the dirty.
The only way that sex with someone other than your spouse wouldn't be considered cheating would be if you were in an open or poly marriage. Personally, I don't see the point of that. If you want to have multiple sex partners, why get married in the first place?
Happier? hardly... im sure you wouldnt mind going off and ';F';ing someone else.... put yourself in the other persons shoes.... would you want your girl (assuming your a guy LoL), would you really want your girl screwing some random dudes?


Safer? Uhhh... no... thats just dumb.


And someones said something about jesus... your an idoit.. go be single if you wanna do that.. and another said something about STDs... agreed..


So to answer your question simply... It is considered cheating (unless you have an open relationship)
It wouldn't be a happier place for some people as:





The other woman may get more attention than the other which leads to jelousy etc.





And I don't see how it would be safer. I think the same thing will just happen but on a wider scale.





*shrugs*
maybe happier physically if your sex life sucked!


but safer? eh probably not there would probably


be a bigger spread of diseases !
Well if that were true then I guess when my Mom cheated it wouldn't have been such a big deal. But also if that were true, there would be no point in getting married.
You shouldn't want to cheat on your spouse and if you do why are you with them? go find someone you actually want to be with.
It works in Japan as long as you don't love the other person your ';cheating'; with
It wouldn't effect me, I couldn't get laid when I was young, I doubt I would now.
then everybody would be a bastard (literally) and have aids...
STD's would be even more rampant, for one.
I think monogamy is a tall order and almost impossible to live up to .... so yeah
That'll be when Jesus comes

Has your spouse ever made you feel insecure?

My wife called an Ex-boyfriend behind my back. She did it to catch up on old times. He was the one that actually emailed her and asked if they could chat a bit on the phone. She was really sorry about this and promised not to call him again.


I have not gotten over this yet but I don't bring it up anymore as if I do she gets mad and she said I should let it go. , it has been about 2 weeks. I feel a bit insecure about the whole situation.


Has anything like this ever happened to you. Has your spouse ever made you feel insecure?
I have contacted my ex too. It didnt mean anything. You need to let it go and stop bringing it up. Has your spouse ever made you feel insecure?
I can say that I think about people from my past both male and female, and consider reaching out to them to catch up, but it is just out of curiosity not any feeling of unhappiness with my husband. I trust my husband and know that if he were to feel the same way I would trust him to make those connections without feeling threatened. I know that he loves me and I love him. That is what is most important, if he didn't trust me it would hurt.
My husband still gets calls from his ex. Their two children are grown and gone. For many years and yet, she still calls. It bothers me. She will send him a text for his birthday, fathers day and all the other holidays. Greetings and wishes. It bothers me. He said it should not since nothing is going on between them. Then, I asked him how he would like it if I got the same from my ex. When I turned the tables, his tone changed on the subject real quick and sent his ex a message telling her to stop it all.
She should never have done that, you need to go to marital counseling together and the fact she gets mad is even worse. Tell her she has two options, go to joint counseling or divorce and she gets zero.
A phone call is nothing. Just wait till your spouse tell his friends wife he wants to have sex with her. Then you can complain.
my wife questions every single decision i make, yes, she tries (and occasionally) succeeds.
That has never happened to me, you should try marriage counselor.
Yeah, she did but it was harmless fun.
No he hasnt
That situation would never happen with me because my first husband had died while we were married. I don't have an ex.





However, the reason you gave for feeling insecure doesn't make sense. Talking over the phone is nothing and it's not really a ';behind your back'; situation. Was she supposed to talk to him while you were sitting there in front of her? If she had met him for lunch or something, that would be behind your back. I can see why you'd wanna monitor the situation, though.





As long as you're doing your part as a husband, there should be nothing to feel insecure or regret over. Even if she fancies this guy, if she does something foul like cheat on you, you can take comfort in knowing that you never did anything wrong and that she has a character flaw- not you. If you guys have an honest marriage, her promise to not call him anymore is probably genuine. If she was just catching up with the guy, there isn't really anymore reason to talk to him anyway. He should have caught her up during that initial phone call. If there are subsequent phone calls, then you should worry.

Can you buy a plane ticket here for spouse in thailand to come to Aus. with thai air?

I was told if buying with credit card you have to be the holder to use ticket.I want to buy ticket in australia for wife to immigrate.Can you buy a plane ticket here for spouse in thailand to come to Aus. with thai air?
You can purchase a ticket for someone who is not the credit card holder, but on airlines such as Thai Airways you need to complete a Form of Consent. Other airlines may have similar rules, but you'll need to contact them to find out. Here's what Thai Airways requires when the person traveling is not the credit card holder.


http://www.thaiair.com/booking/non_pax_t鈥?/a>Can you buy a plane ticket here for spouse in thailand to come to Aus. with thai air?
Last year I had a similar situation as your.


I had to buy a ticket from Bangkok to Italy with Thai Air and my Thai Wife was the holder of the credit card and she was not flying with me.


I phoned to Thai airways in Bangkok to check if she could use her card to buy ticket for me, but they told me that she has to fly with me too.





So I bought the ticket from this travel agency in Bangkok http://www.saveflights.com/ managed by foreigners.


I transferred the amount of the ticket on their bank account in Bangkok and after a couples of hours I got my e-ticket in my email box.


Really excellent service. This website has been used also in the past from few friends of mine. It is reliable and the prices are on the average.


They offer ticket to all destination starting from Thailand only.


This is the page you should look at http://www.saveflights.com/country/austr鈥?/a>
You can check this out but once you have the ticket it has nothing more to do with how you bought it... Just make sure your wife is allowed to immigrate and her name on the ticket is identical to her name on her passport.... and her passport is valid,


Be sure you have all this information.
yes you can, i do it all the time for my son, but as she is Thai i think you have to have a return ticket within a 3 month time frame.

What is the pisition of a common law spouse during seperation?

i need to where the partner/spouse will go!!!!!!!!!! that's alll it's my homework. so any one can answer this question please post your respond as soon as possilbe.thank youWhat is the pisition of a common law spouse during seperation?
most states don't recognize common law marriages any more. a partner would probably have no financial protection when separating. What is the pisition of a common law spouse during seperation?
what kinda homework it this???

Do you ever have fights with your spouse over your spouse's lack of safety with your child?

we have a lot of fights like this. my spouse is not good in the area of safety.Do you ever have fights with your spouse over your spouse's lack of safety with your child?
Yes I'm am always yelling at my bf because when he's changing our son he'll leave him on the edge of the bad to get a diaper and I tell him you can't do that he's a Lil wiggle worn now! My bf says omg I'm right here. Ugh makes me so mad. lolDo you ever have fights with your spouse over your spouse's lack of safety with your child?
YES! Just today I was leaving for work and the baby was going after the dog (we have 2 dogs and I don't trust the little dog around the baby). I guess it is not lack of safety, I mean I come home every night from work and my little ones are still perfectly intact, but it is not my extremity of safety. I should probably lighten up a little now that I am listening to myself think about this LOL.
A few times yep... when my son wasn't sleeping through the night, we took turns getting him b/c we both work full time, anywho, when it was my husbands turn he'd get our son, and prop him up with a bottle then lay back down. That bothered me to no end, so now we both get up, and I make sure he's not doing it anymore.
We didn't argue really. It was just me telling him how it was going to be period.( Poor hubby) But as an instance - he left our baby


(under two) in the bathtub alone while he went to answer the phone. So as somebody had to be in charge, lol, I took the job.
Oh my goodness!!!! Yes, my baby dad is so irresponsible he will put the baby on his lap in the car, then he wonders why i won't let him take him, because i love and care about my baby fool!
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When you have a bad day, what does your spouse do for you?

Say something bad happened like YOUR SEVENTH ACCOUNT GOT SUSPENDED and you were sad.





What would your spouse do for you?When you have a bad day, what does your spouse do for you?
I'm on #6 now my lovely ball. I would rub you if I were your spouse....I'm just sayin....When you have a bad day, what does your spouse do for you?
If I was having a bad day and feeling down, my spouse would shriek at me and accuse me of being ';sick'; with clinical depression and I have a ';problem,'; so she would put me down and tell me I should go to the doctor.





Then usually she would storm out of the house and slam the door and drive away and leave me with the kids because nobody should expect her to have to put up with a husband when he's not happy and cheerful all the time.





I had no right to be such a burden on her.





We're getting divorced now, so I feel much better now that I got rid of her.





Oh! Oh! Let me tell you what she did when I fell down at the ice skating rink and got knocked unconscious. You'll love this ..... nah, some other time.
he would probably act like he gave a sh*t. but i would know he was faking. so for me i guess the Q would be what would i do for myself..





hmmm, i would double up on my Bacardi consumption. maybe get hammered, come here to Y!A and go off on a few, fall a sleep, wake up 4 hours later, return to Y!A to delete all of my answers i gave while intoxicated.





go back to bed, wake up the next morning and pretty much start the whole cycle over again whether i had a bad day or not.
Honestly just seeing my girlfriends face after a bad day makes me feel better, I've loved her since I first met her and she still makes me feel like the happiest man in the world.





She does hug me a little tighter when I'm angry or annoyed and brings me a cold bottle of strapopramen (prague beer).
She would probably bust out the world's smallest violin and play ';My Heart Bleeds for You';.





I'm a sucker for sad songs, I guess. : )








How the hell do you keep getting suspended? You'll never reach level 2 this way! : )
he would pat me on the back and say...





';Hon, look at the bright side...if this keeps up, you'll be on the same level playing field as Valerie...';





Now is THAT'S a goal to shoot for, or WHAT! lol......
Well, he'd probably cross dress in a combo Circus Seal/Camel outfit and prance/slide across the the living room floor whilst singing 'Don't cry for me Argentina!!!!';





He's odd like that...
She smiles, melts me every time.


I like to pamper her in every way possible when she has a bad day.





Sux about your account, some people just love to hate I guess.
Generally, make it worse by asking questions about it and talking about it.
One time one year she brought me a beer.


I had this overwhelming sense of dread that she had something terrible to tell me.
Bake me brownies.(:


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Not much! Talks about himself! Your seventh account??? LMAO!
Beg for a Hammerin'








like she actually needs it more than me!








Maybe even take back all the crap she bought at the store that day!
Full body massages - oh yeah!!





Sorry to hear about account #7!
Showers me with silence. The perfect remedy, indeed.
Lets me tell him all about it, then helps me forget about it.
You know precisely what she would do. I don't need another violation notice.
The same things he'd do for me on a good day. I'm married to a man who treats me really well all the time.
She would give me sympathy sex!
Divorce me?
Not too much.


But sometimes my friend Jack Daniels will cheer me up!


xoxoxo
WOuld not complain if I drank the last of the beer
I don't lay my problems on anyone - so the answer is nothing -
tell me how tough her day was and that I shouldnt complain....

Can I withdraw from college after the deadline-military spouse?

the deadline to withdraw with a grade of w has passed. so if i withdraw now i will get a wf, which means Failed. if my husband is military and is stationed in another state can i still withdraw on the grounds of that without penalty? the fact that i have to move to another state because he is stationed there?Can I withdraw from college after the deadline-military spouse?
If I were you, I would finish the class in your state. I very much understand your situation since I am a military spouse also but I do not think they would accept your explanation. You can give it a try but for me, they did not accept it so I finished the whole semester at my former college. You can try to request a simple W, which would not affect your GPA. I wish you good luck!Can I withdraw from college after the deadline-military spouse?
That will depend on your school and their policy. I don't know whether they'll let you withdraw without penalty or not. I think it would depend most on whether he was stationed there before or if he just got moved there. If he was stationed there before, why'd you even bother starting classes or why didn't you withdraw during the time period? If he just got moved, that's a different story and I think they should let you withdraw without penalty.

Filipina us military spouse need a visa to go to Germany?

I am a Filipina US military spouse,my husband id station in Germany.I went to the German embassy lastweek for interview to get a tourist visa but the interview told me i dont need a visa to get in Germany,all i need is just my passport and dependant ID.How true is this?anybody treid it?Filipina us military spouse need a visa to go to Germany?
These are intergovernmental accords between governs for exchange of military personnel. Most likely your status falls under NATO treaty jurisdiction.





You may be not allowed to work outside USA competence.Filipina us military spouse need a visa to go to Germany?
They are correct you're married to a US citizen who is stationed in Germany and all they need is a passport so the same goes for you.I've know people who have done this with non-born US wives.

Iam a military spouse looking for a stay at home job?

As we (miliary spouses) know being reliable is not always a given there are field manuvers, CQ nights, Out of state traing and then of course deployments.... I have 2 boys one in school one not yet, one car and a hole in my pocket. I just want to provide for my family the way he does everyday. I need a ligeit job no scams!!Iam a military spouse looking for a stay at home job?
My daughter-in-law ( army wife) took on a job of doing rebates on line. When she was doing it she was making up to $600-700 a week for maybe only a 12-16 hrs.Iam a military spouse looking for a stay at home job?
depending on where you are stationed and how social you are you can do things like avon or pampered cheff there is also as others have mentioned daycare if you have good patients it requires a strategic background check and you must keep your home in top shape and you have to recored everything about a child that you watch many do that me i prefer the old fashoned way of working though im not good with kids
ebay!


sell stuff on ebay that you can pick up in yardsales, or make unique crafts and sell them.
i'm a single mother in the U. S. Navy. i have some suggestions for you. First, i think you should do daycare at home. if you love kids and want to make extra money. it's always a military family looking for daycare. Or you can try the medical field for example medical coding and billing or a medical transcriptionist, you would have to get certified, but at least you can stay home and take care of your kids.. as far as going online looking for something else good luck because a lot of them are scams.
Day Care is the number one thing I would recommend to you.


I know so many people that would die for a good and less expensive day care provider. The base providers are okay but a home provider would be so much better.


Also, have you thought of selling Avon, Pampered Chef, Mary Kay, etc? I see a few of those advertised on base.


What about a part-time job at the base exchange?


What about medical billing or survey takers?





GOOD LUCK!!

How to transfer property deed in texas when one spouse dies ?

my dad and mom owned a property in texas but my mom died


and now my dad wants to transfer the deed to my brother.


what should he do? my mom and dad are both listed on the


property deed so my mom can no longer sign.How to transfer property deed in texas when one spouse dies ?
See an Attorney before it is done improperly.How to transfer property deed in texas when one spouse dies ?
No one should ever transfer title (esp. to one's home; esp. in a state like Texas) without speaking to a lawyer first. It could cost him a bundle if he does the wrong thing.
It depneds on how your mon and dad held title. Your mom's estate MAY have to go throught probate.





See and Attorney.
Easiest way is probate. Though if that doesnt work, all the possible heirs need to sign off their inheired interest. THis can get tricky esp if there are other kids to a previous marriage or out of wedlock. Best thing is go to a local title company or realestate attny. How the mothers half interest (if homestead or held jointly) is divided can be tricky. If this is not your mothers homestead and she wasnt on the deed before hand, you will have no issues. More info is needed to give a clear answer

What would you think if you saw your spouse drive by you on the other side of town?

when they are supposed to be at work? What would you say to them when they got home or wait to see if they say something first?What would you think if you saw your spouse drive by you on the other side of town?
I would tell her to pick up a pizza over there on that side of town.





Because....








...if I did NOT trust her I would NOT be married to her.What would you think if you saw your spouse drive by you on the other side of town?
Unless you have reason to doubt him from past actions or have some reason to be currently suspicious then I wouldn't bring it up,just the fact that he wasn't where he was supposed to be doesnt mean much I dont think,a lot can happen when you leave the house,maybe he was buying you a christmas gift across town or decided to go to another gas station across town because there a few cents cheaper a gallon.



Let him bury himself and catch him in the lie. Ask about his day and what he did. Try and get him to commit to what he was doing at that time. If you catch him in that lie...don't tell him how you know. Lie lie lie. Tell him that he's full of sh** and that you know for a fact that wasn't where he was. Ask him, Who is she! ? I saw you with her I know you are seeing someone!! Tell him not only did you see him but someone else saw him someplace else too. He won't know where or what you saw. He might fess up to more than you know. Good luck...and hopefully he will tell you the truth and he was only on an errand for something.
This isn't a trick question right? I mean, your husband is not a policeman on patrol or something? Is there honestly nothing in his job that would entail him driving somewhere? Is it the time of your anniversary or birthday? But, supposing he's an office worker who handles his entire job at his desk, I'd just ask him how work was, what he did, etc. If he never mentioned it, I'd tell him I'd seen him and gauge his reaction, then take it from there.
I'll wait for a day, hoping she tell me what she was doing there, if she didn't will confront her next day after asking her how as her day, was it busy day,did she has to leave her work place for a reason.


according to her answer, my reaction will be...z
Sounds like someone has some trust issues, no? Could it be they were running an office related errand? Maybe they were on lunch? If you suspect your husband is being shady, he probably is. Why don't you put a tracking device under his car or tap his cell? ha! ha!
I would call him and say Hi and tell him he had just driven past me. If I didn't have a cell I would say I had seen him when he got home. I have no reason to believe that he would be doing anything wrong.
The last time I passed my husband on the other side of town he was pissed because he was buying me a gift certificate for my birthday and thought I knew what he was doing.
I would call him and say Hi Honey...just wanted to call and say hi. I called the office and you weren't there...where are you. If he lied about where he was then I would definitely question why he had to lie.
Probably ask her ';how was work?'; as she works on the other side of town.
Hey I saw you driving today. I was............ what brought you to that neck of the woods
Linni too funny,good advice though
I think you have answered this already, Let him go....
You should have followed him
I'd be like WTF? And do a double take as I swerve to avoid getting in a wreck

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Does your spouse fulfill all of your needs?

Do they fulfill everything that you need in a partner? Or are there areas that they could do better at?Does your spouse fulfill all of your needs?
My wife does fulfill everything I need in a partner, but of course there are areas she could do better at. The two concepts are not mutually exclusive; I do not require my wife to be perfect. She definitely exceeds the minimum requirements, though, lol.Does your spouse fulfill all of your needs?
Someone can never fill all your needs. You need to find them outside the relationship through friendships, work, or community involvement.





You compliment a relationship you don't complete it. This will help for things to stay balanced and healthy in a relationship. So long as there are healthy boundaries and you are not lacking romance or friendship within your relationship. If those things are lacking then your relationship is in trouble.
Well there is 1 area my husband is lacking in. My husband does not fulfill my need to feel secure in my marriage.





It's not his fault he doesn't fulfill it; he has a mental illness and he isn't accountable for the things he says that are hurtful like that; however it still makes me feel insecure in the relationship.
No one person could EVER be EVERYTHING to another human being.





We both bring different unique gifts to the marriage table. A lot are similar, and a lot aren't.





Sex, money, companionship day-to-day, yes, we fulfiil these to each other but not total happiness.





That has to come from within.
If you would have asked that question to me during my other three marriages I would have stated a resounding NO. But, I am very lucky, or have lowed my standard, because I have the perfect spouse and she gives me more than I could ever wish for.
everything about my hubby is perfect.





There is nothing I could change, he is just what I have always wanted in a guy, the sex, the conversation, the teamwork, the helping out around the house, the support for what ever I want to do. It is perfect.
My husband it the best thing I could have ever asked or hoped for. The funny thing is he is the one who would like to have sex 4 times a day I'm not. So in that way when I want to do it he's totally fine with it and will do anything to make me happy. Or like this morning... ';You wanna have a quicky?'; WOW! Other than that yes he tells I'm beautiful all the time, helps me when I need him.
Yes, he fulfills all of my marital relationship needs. I have friends outside of work that fulfill my other needs.





Andrew!!! Lowered your standards! LMAO you are in SO much trouble. You're just dying to be put in a skirt tonight, aren't you?
Nope and he probably never will either, but, that is what I get for trying to run away from my problems at 17 years old. I wish that I hadn't gotten married until I was thirty and I keep telling my 19 year old daughter the same thing.
No person is responsible for fulfilling another person's every need.





My spouse meets a lot of them, most of the time, some of them all of the time, and a few of them, never. He's not perfect, nor do I expect him to be.





That's why we have friends...
yes my partner and i do... Everything we fulfill he is my protector, my best friend and my lover.. and i know i fulfill everything in him as well
There's a difference between needs and wants, but yes we both try to treat eachother well and give eachother what we want,





Seth.
my husband is the best and i couldnt ask for more. I dont find the need to look around or anything. He satisfies me in every way.
No one is capable of being e/thing to another. Teamwork is fantastic. However I've never been a big believer in miracles......Or fairy tales....
Most, but conversation is sometimes lacking - I'm more of a brainiac and he isn't...but, that's one area where friends come in handy!
my Fiance full fills my needs of course he can do better but my needs are met and he tries his best all of the time so I can't fault him that much there
Nope. Emotional - some


Sexual - none
Few areas that could use more ';umph'; in, but I'm not looking anywhere else :)
i agree with the first answer,





i love him but he could be a little more romantic.
Mine doesn't. How about yours, does he meet with your expectations?
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Has your spouse ever said or done something that made you?

Stop and think maybe they're not the person you fell in love with anymore?Has your spouse ever said or done something that made you?
She told me she lied to me about herself so that I would marry her. Here I thought we had lots in common but she was only pretending that this was the case.





Now we have kids, and nothing in common.Has your spouse ever said or done something that made you?
Yes, that has happened a few times. That doesn't mean that he isn't the person I fell in love with, it meant that there were aspects of him that I wasn't aware of and found offensive. At one point I almost left him because of the way he was treating me, when he realized what he was doing and what he was losing, he changed. That came out in couple's counseling.
If you are an over-sensitive and pessimistic person who feels tht your marriage is stagnating, then,almost every word your spouse says will make you feel as above. But if you truly love your spouse,then no amount of harsh words exchanged will make you feel tht he/she is a different person than whom you fell in love with.
I think all married couples have had that moment in their relationship where one or the other stated something that made them sit up and say, what in the heck did you just say, I can not believe that came out of your mouth. It happens, I would hope that your relationship is strong enough to tell that person your feelings and not to let those words slip out of your mouth again. Good luck.
Yes she has. But She was drunk and angry when she said it, so I kinda passed it off as just angry drunk talk. however I still do think about it. The circumstances being what they were at the time I guess it was waranted. I just hope what she said is not true. Because if it is, then our marriage right now is nothing but a lie. I find it VERY hard to beleive it to be true after all the good things she's done and said to me since.
No, hes always the same person, says things that make me mad but never made me think its not the 1 i loved,





but i did have a horrible ex, who before we got together was a great friend who looked after me and cared 4 me, unfortunatly he was an abusive control freak.





xxxxx
Yes. Ten months ago, she got fired from a job she'd held for nearly 15 years, because she did something bad that I never would have expected her to do. She is on the road to recovery now, but it was a huge shock when I found out.
Yep, husband, in a text, 'sorry it's over, but you'll always have a place in my heart' Loser.
Everyone I think we change and grow as life goes on the whole point is that it is together but sometimes this is not possible.
My first husband, definitely.





My second husband, not at all.
My ex husband said many things that I think made me fall out of love with him, but my current husband is wonderful.
Everyone I think.
nope... she is EXACTLY the woman i fell in love with... :D
yes hes just not the same person anymore i dont know where we went wrong been together 7 years!

Do you love your family more than your spouse?

I hear my enemy say all the time ';No one's going to love you like your parents';. Yeah, and family can bring you down quicker than strangers.





Do you love your parents and family more than your spouse?Do you love your family more than your spouse?
You can only have one lot of natural parents,


But you can have an endless amount of spouses.Do you love your family more than your spouse?
This question is for Jessica: Why would you answer this question if you don't have a spouse? smh





To answer your question: No I do NOT love my family more than my spouse. My wife chose to be with me despite the many f*cked up sh*t I've said and done. My family has dropped me and ONLY reason they love me is because they ';have'; to. You know the expression blood is thicker than water right? Well, for family members who do right or wrong, that family will always be there in some way shape or form. You'll ALWAYS be a brother, son, daughter, sister..etc But to a spouse, you are everything if they love you despite all your faults. And when you marry, you become one entity and your spouse becomes an addition to your family just as you become an addition to his/hers. No one can love you more than your own spouse VOLUNTARILY. My spouse has been the rock I have leaned on and the one who leans on me. I am blessed and I hope that you are too. I also hoped to have answered your question in detail. Good luck.
No. My spouse and kids are the most important people in my life. If I had to choose I would always choose them first. My husband will be there for me when nobody else will and I'll do the same for him. Like other posts said you are obligated to love your family but your spouse chooses to be with you thru thick and thin. I love my extended family but I love my immediate family more.
No, I don't love my parents and family more than spouse, including our 3 young children.





Yes, that voice you hear is your ENEMY, I'm guessing by your choice of words that your ';enemy'; is also the Father of All Lies. Just keep that in mind.





Your parents ';have to'; love you, your spouse chooses to on minute by minute basis.





Blessings
Here's what I can tell you, my husband's family did what they could to come between us, well, I mean more to him than they do, and he's cut them out of his life. My kids and my husband mean more to me than anyone else. Family, not the husband/wife kind, but the mother, father, siblings type, can be very destructive to a marriage and should not be allowed to meddle. There a reason for the saying, ';it's time to cut the apron strings';. Also, it does say in the Bible, ';the two shall become one'; it also says, ';forsaking all others';. ';a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This can be found in Mathews 19:5-6.





Spouse and kids comes first. And there are women out there, who will love their husband/wife freely and openly without strings. There are women out there who won't judge their husbands. I have a quick story, then I have to run.





My husband and I met in June of 2002. We didn't start dating until Sept. 2002. After a few more months, we decided to get married. Well, I asked him one day what it was that made him open up and talk to me that day in Sept, when he hadn't done that the other previous months when he'd come into my office. His answer....he told me that when he came in that morning and looked into my eyes, he said he knew he could tell me anything and I would not judge him. Well, we've been married 5 years this August. And I still don't judge. So, that's the best I can tell you. You just have to find the right person. And that's hard....Good luck.
I left my family to create my own. I love my family deeply, but my wife is the one who I am obligated to and I take that obligation very seriously and freely.





When I made a vow to forsake all others, that included ALL those who would intrude in my marriage.
I love my spouse and son the same (but in different ways). My family is second to that. I love them, but I would choose my husband and son over them in a heart beat. That is the family I made.
I love my husband just a little more. We are newlyweds in our 40's and since it took us this long to find true love, he is my greatest love.
I love them all the same in terms of importance--that's all that matters.
I don't have a spouse!
Yes I love my family more than any thing in the world
yes.. its cuz ive known them longer n they know me better.. they can tel from the tone of my voice if im upset..

British citizen living in India with Indian spouse can apply for PIO card? How?

What documents should he or she produce , where and how long would it take?British citizen living in India with Indian spouse can apply for PIO card? How?
Sorry, I really don't know the anser to it. I myself need to know. So if you get any response, please email me at mitaray@hotmail.com


ThanksBritish citizen living in India with Indian spouse can apply for PIO card? How?
Only PIO can apply for card.

How long does a person have to be away from a home before a spouse can claim abandonment?

specifically in virginiaHow long does a person have to be away from a home before a spouse can claim abandonment?
If they still help pay some bills abandonment may be a bit far fetched!!How long does a person have to be away from a home before a spouse can claim abandonment?
Check the web link below. It looks to be pretty thorough on divorce laws for Virginia.
Good question, I have no idea. Interested in seeing the answer. Amazing that these issues exist, why people just run off is beyond me. What ever happened to social responsibility?





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You don't claim abandonment, and you don't ask for a at fault divorce anymore. At any time, whether he is there or not, you can file for a divorce.
Why would you want to file under abandonment. It's a lot easier to file no fault. And you get to keep everything.
1 year, unless he is active duty military.
Might want to ask an attorney in Virginia.
Google ';divorce laws in VA'; or ';abandonment laws in VA';, and go from there.
IDK

Anyone get married young and have your spouse flip out around 30?

My wife seems to be a completely different person doing things she never used to do, talking about living for herself now. Is this an early midlife crisis. She refuses any counseling and now is saying shes done.Anyone get married young and have your spouse flip out around 30?
Age old tragedy :





Woman marries a man thinking he will change .... he doesnt


Man marries a woman thinking she will not change....She doesAnyone get married young and have your spouse flip out around 30?
My husband and I met at 20, married at 26. At 30 I didn't flip out. The older you get the more mature you seem to be. At 30, specifically mid 30's I realized that I was more self confident. I no longer cared about some of the things I thought were important or seems to consume my thoughts. I was not as jealous. I was not as controlling. I blew things off easier. Good for her. She should live for herself instead of putting other people first. If she is happy with herself then all people around her will be much happier in her presence. Now if she is saying she wants to live by herself and leave you then counseling may be in order.
We are a funny lot us women eh!





Perhaps she feels you have changed too, why else would she say she's done? Women don't just flip for no reason, the same as men don't. All this it is supposed to be that women work in 7 year cycles in regards to their maturing. I know that at 40 I am so different to what I was at 33, and at 26 was different too.


You need to ask what's changed in both your lives to see the root of the problem, but failing that there is not much you can do sorry.
Yes, this sounds normal. Only remember that her behaviour has nothing to do with you. If she's feeling something, she owns it to you to discuss whatever it is and together, you can see how to make the relationship better. We shouldn't just want out simply because things are not what we expected them to be. Marriage takes work, and I mean REAL work and it's not quite a fairytail like we've been made to believe, it's a mixture of good and bad days, happiness and sadness, joy, misery, love, anger, etc.





Do the very best you can do to save your marriage and to work things through with her, but she has to meet you half way.





There's always light at the end of the tunnel no matter how this will end.





Wish you all the best.





http://www.sheknows.com/articles/805044.鈥?/a> (8 things no one tells you about marriage) should make a humorous reading.
doing things like drugs ? drinking ? clubbing ?


or just normal stuff like sports ? going out to see friends more often ? etc ..





women go through this phase when they feel that nothing good they did seems to be appreciated and that she prioritized people around her and out herself in last place and discovered that these people were not worth it .. i would do the same if i were her





maybe you're not good in showing ur appreciation in what she does ? took her for granted and stopped doing sweet things u used to do ? or maybe you broke her heart ?
my wife was doing the same thing she refused counseling she said we were to young to get married i ended up finding out she was sharing her feelings with a younger guy maybe she thought if she got somebody young she would feel young herself(good luck)
women have several crisis time. the first one is around 30, then around 40 then around menopause. so yes, she has middle life crisis and yes, mostly women dump whoever they have been with at that age and find someone way much better. well, i did
women have several crisis time. the first one is around 30, then around 40 then around menopause. so yes, she has middle life crisis and yes, mostly women dump whoever they have been with at that age and find someone way much better. well

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How long did it take for your spouse to finally cheat on you?

10


20


30 years?How long did it take for your spouse to finally cheat on you?
Hilarious....are these serious questions,,How long did it take for your spouse to finally cheat on you?
my husband and I have only been married for 2 months, so we can't really say, although he has been faithful so far and so have I. I doubt we will ever cheat. I believe this because my parents have been married for 37 years and neither has cheated. My grandparents were married for 52 years the year my grandma died and they never cheated. My aunt and uncle have been married for almost 40 years and they have never cheated on eachother. It is a matter of being willing to communicate with eachother and really listen to what the other has to say. You have to tell eachother what your needs are and do what needs to be done to meet your spouses needs. If a woman feels like her needs are being met (you don't deprive her of sex, you let her know that you think she is wonderful, you really listen to what she says, you show her affection like kissing huging cuddling, and whatever else she needs to feel like a whole person) then she won't cheat. People cheat because they are getting something from thier lover that they feel they are not getting from thier spouse. If she is getting everything he needs from you, why would he ever go looking elsewhere. You and your wife should read His Needs Her Needs, it pretty much spells it out for you, but don't forget to talk about what the book says with eachother too.
Most people probably don't even know when they cheating first started. They just know when they first found out about it.
Number 1, 24 years.


Number 2 never will.
My first husband, the lying, cheating bastard, only took 2 years.
I know it took your wife 3 minutes, she waited until the sex with you was over.
He hasn't yet. I honestly I don't think he will either. I would one hell of a woman scorned. He got all of that out of his system before we got married.
I never had any direct proof he was cheating %26amp; I was only married for 3 years.
he cheated almost 6 years to the day we met. He didn't even get me a card this year thats how I knew.
2 years
By the end of the evening when I returned my tux and went for a second drink. Can anyone beat that?
LOL, my husband will never cheat on me unless he wanted to down grade.


:)
19 years, 11 months and 7 days
8 years
never
mine never did and never would. I have a great man.
just do it and get it over with.
he hasnt yet...he's not that kind...im just sorry i cant say the same abt me...haha
My first marriage...





4 WEEKS!!!





I moved out the next day!!

Can you be held responsible for a spouse鈥檚 student loan?

My husband got his student loan years before we met. Now when speaking to the student loan company about repayment they are requiring MY financial information. I thought all debts outside of a marriage stayed with that person. Am I required by law to now pay this student loan just because I am married?Can you be held responsible for a spouse鈥檚 student loan?
The short answer is ';no.'; They can not require you personally to pay the debt. However, they can deduct the amount owed from any Federal Tax Refund, and some state refunds, depending on your state. Also, again depending on the state, they could put a lien on any real property you own. So indirectly, yes, you may have to pay for it. I wouldn't give them your financial information if the debt is not yours. Most defaulted student loans are sold off to collection companies who represent themselves as the government. BE CAREFULCan you be held responsible for a spouse鈥檚 student loan?
I don't think so because it was a debt aquired prior to the marriage,not during. It may depend on the state your in-the laws are different from state to state. They may also be asking to try and figure how much his paymants should be. They will combine your and his income to figur his debt-to-income ratio.
My wife is concerned about this as well (since she mentions it occasionally), but I'm not sure what the legal basis is of this except that while they may not sue you directly, they can sue your husband's estate (all he owns) which would take away from somethings that you may jointly own (like your house). That's how they get you.
YES, it's just like when you live with someone for years, then split up, any property acquired during that time has to be divided by a judge or natural agreement, and your required to get a real divorce, even though you never went through the motion of marriage, this in Texas, states very.
It depends on what you are doing. But in general, no you are not responsible. Even if he got the loan while you were married (they would consider you income for eligibility) you would still not be responsible. I would find out what they want your info for and request a copy of ';Rights and Responsibilities';. It will explain everything form making payments to deferments.
not if you were not married before the loan. It depends on who signed it basicly

What simple/small thing(s) could your spouse to do that would improve your relationship?

I know a lot of women who say that they would feel so much happier, and thus reciprocate, if their man would just make an effort to do small things (like tell her she鈥檚 beautiful, cook dinner, do the dishes etc. once in a while).





Men, if you know these small things would go a long way to help improve your relationship, what keeps you from doing them (assuming that you are not)?





Of course I鈥檓 interested in hearing the flip side too.What simple/small thing(s) could your spouse to do that would improve your relationship?
I do everything I possibly can to get my wife in the mood and with her low sex drive there are times that EVERYTHING doesn't work.





What little thing could my wife do every once in a while? Fake it and let me have sex! Who knows she might get into it once we get going?What simple/small thing(s) could your spouse to do that would improve your relationship?
We don't realize how important those things are to you.


0 confidence (lack of trust) it would make a difference in how you love us back.





You don't reciprocate to us by doing simple/little things for us - that doesn't make us happy the way it makes you happy. That's not to say /never/ do those things, but typically that it's not #1 nor #2/3/4/5 to us.
Do unto others....





Marriage is a two way street. I can only talk hypotheticals since there is no direct circumstance. Many times marriages are faulty just because people fall into a rut of behavior. We are creatures of habit, and we sometimes fall into them without knowing it.





First step would be to talk about it, but acknowledge that you could do the same (like tell him how hot he is, join him in a hobby or sport event, do some chores you would normally expect him to do). Combine the conversation with your actions in following up on it and ask him to do the same. (note: never expect a certain outcome or you will most likely be setting yourself up for failure)





Remember also that there is no such thing as a ';perfect marriage'; for we as humans are imperfect.
He's already doing 99.9% of things that make our relationship good. I wouldn't mind it if he went dancing with me every once in a while - it wouldn't result in some dramatic improvement, it would just be a nice touch - however, he hates dancing, and I respect that. I can always find a friend or two to go to the dance class with.
I go online such as yahoo answers to see what others have done that I haven't done yet..I personally love to do small things because I know the small things add up.. Here I go


I do make the bed, wash dishes, n so on... I leave little notes in her makeup bag saying ';i love you';. I stick them by the toilet paper so she'll see them there. I call her at work and as quickly as possible tell her '; i just called to say that thinking of you makes my heart skip. I love you and I'm happy to have you, I hope you are having a great day at work';. I have gotten better in the kitchen so I will make breakfast, lunch, and dinner. If she wants to talk about work I listen not talk. I give her back rubs when she asks. I talk about what bothers me not complain. And I kiss her for more than 10 seconds every day, and I tell her at night that I love her very much. And in the morning, I tell her she's my ray of sunshine. ( also to our daughter). I do what most men think is stupid, dumb, boring, and lame. I listen to her not my ego
I'm living with the same problem. My husband USE to help do it all, right down to making the bed together each day. He slowly stopped helping. Raising 5 children and working 40 hours a week on top of all the cleaning, paying bills and going to the grocery has worn on me.


I don't have any good advice for you because every thing I've tried hasn't worked.


I'm just down to doing it all and I don't complain and I offer myself to him anytime he asks. He's spoiled and he takes pride in that.
It would so much improve our relationship if he would stop smoking. My husband has meaty, kissable yummy lips and I've refrained from kissing him cause he smells like a ashtray all the time. He also isn't organized which drives me insane and away.
What I think helps is doing little unexpected things from time to time for eachother...IE: Making your Husbands favorite meal, Sitting a Gift Certificate for a Pedicure in your Wife's car, just little thoughtful selfless things--they go a LONG way! :)
I would be much happier if my husband would get up on the weekends instead of sleeping so late, and if he would learn to communicate with me better and not be so stubborn sometimes.


The little things he has no problem with.
';spy'; on her to see what she really wants deep down and surprise her with it. make her feel loved. make her feel like she is the best and you wouldn't replace her for anything.
My husband can come back from africa because he's been there helping the Africans for a while.
Do the things he used to do..leave little loves notes, cook dinner, help clean up, small sweet gifts (little stuffed animals..etc)
I do cook and tell her nice things.


It does not go both ways.





Now for me it would be oral sex.


That would make me very happy.
Maybe men would if the woman would just shut the hell up long enough to let the man.
The dishes :)
If she would cook, that would be great.
He is fine the way he is.
Be up after 9 p.m. She has no stamina. I don't think we've made love after 9 or even watched a movie together more than a handful of times in the past decade or so.
I think I am pretty good at doing little things for my boyfriend. I write him letters every now and again when I'm thinking of him, I buy him his favorite magazine if I happen to be out and think of it, I call him after work sometimes and tell him to get ready because I'm taking him out for dinner. He surprises me with a book he thinks I'll like, or a nice text message randomly throughout the day. We went through a period in our relationship where we both got too comfortable and thus started to drift apart, but we both wanted to stay together so we consciously decided to put more of an effort in.
Because they get sex anyways so why bother doing extra.


And then if they can't stand the bitching, they stay at work longer.





On a deeper level, a man feels he is being attacked or put down when a woman asked for more (as if he isn't doing enough) and that's pretty discouraging. Over the long run, he feels unappreciated and can become resentful.





Men have a priority list going on in their minds that include all the things they need to/ wish to do. The favors woman ask just don't rank very high, or they do only for a short time and then they are forgotten.


Woman have more social skill and can better organize within their minds the needs of others. Men have not evolved this way and tend to be more selfish or focus on the tangible reality of their world. Men live in the moment moreso then woman who spend alot of time worrying and planning within their minds.





( don' get me wrong, a girl can totally be self-centered and selfish ~ but a real --%26gt;woman%26lt;-- is another story.)

How does a non-military spouse get service on a military spouse who resides in England?

What is your question? It makes no sense.





Do you mean '; how a non military spouse would get INFORMATION on a military spouse';?





I checked out your other Question - which was more clear....





Just contact your own lawyer. They will do all the leg work on getting your spouse served the divorce papers. Just let them know where he is stationed.How does a non-military spouse get service on a military spouse who resides in England?
If the court is serving him a subpoena to appear in a stateside court, then the request has to be coordinated through his branch's Staff Judge Advocate. If it is merely a court order for payment of child support, that document is sent to the Defense Accounting and Finance Service (DFAS) which handles the pay records for his branch. How does a non-military spouse get service on a military spouse who resides in England?
so pretty much this is my understanding..correct me if i am wrong. Either the husband/wife is trying to get something from the active duty military member.


If that is the case you will have to correct your sentence so people understand what your saying and can offer you better advice. your question is very confusing...
say what?!!!!
What is it regarding... more details please
Please re word your question.. What are you looking for?

How to get past / forgive a cheating spouse.?

Can you really forgive, if you never for get?How to get past / forgive a cheating spouse.?
The trick is to learn the skill to LIVE THE PRESENT. It's a difficult exercise but if the guilty spouse is really making the effort then just for few minutes erase the bad memories and suspicion and actually enjoy the present as it is the only moment that is actually yours and you have control over. Once you have done this once, it gets easier to do again and again. Occasionally people do change and do show remorse and do their best to make up for their mistakes and don't do them again.How to get past / forgive a cheating spouse.?
Yes you can forgive, you will never forget. It will always be in the back of your mind. If you make the decision to stay you half to be willing to put it behind you and work on rebuilding you relationship. You can;t throw that in your spouses face all the time. Neither one if you can heal like that.





It is really hard to trust someone after they have betrayed you, so you have to be willing to lay down your pride. It is hard but it can be done.
Wow that is a tough situation. I can tell you from experience you may forgive but never forget. Allot of it depends on the situation. Time makes the hurt lessen but the one thing that is hardest to do is leave it in the past. It's so hard to rebuild that trust. You feel guilty at times because you won't let yourself trust. Something will happen to drudge up the past. But as time goes and your able to rebuild your trust it will eventually get shelved away.
You can forgive and forget. Its not hard at all if you have enough self esteem.I know I am the best he ever had.I know he loves me. So there is no worry in my head. No worries,no bad thoughts. I live everyday like its a new day,and everyday I can see in his eyes and his flirtatious ways that he loves being around me. We have been together for 28 years.
you really can't....try and forgive when he goes out alone, and comes home late. You will have a few questions for him and be very angry, if not very much filled with rage.





Ask yourself how you're going to feel when he is talking to another woman or checking out women in your presence.
Bear in mind that God has forgiven you your sins and that of your spouse, so why can't you? if you forgive the others offense/s, the hurt will heal even if you never forget.
Yeah, i'm sorry but I really wouldn't ever be able to do that. But I wouldn't lose faith in a chance at a non-cheating spouse.
I don't think I could ever look past that kind of betrayal. If someone did that to me, I would fall out of love with them instantly.
I don't think that is something I could ge over. Once the trust has been broken its sometimes impossible to mend.
I don't think you could ever forgive or forget. You will always wonder if they will do it again.
Nope - once the trust is shattered, you will always wonder.

I win the DV Lottery but my Spouse and son are in my country?

I win the DV Lottery for USA. I am married with 2 years son but my wife and son are in my country. I came USA 4 months ago, now i have Green Card, SS number. How do i bring my wife and son here? Is there way call them here before i get Citizenship?I win the DV Lottery but my Spouse and son are in my country?
Did you not include them on the forms when you applied for the DV lottery.They should be able to come as soon as their paperwork is completedI win the DV Lottery but my Spouse and son are in my country?
You should have done so when you were doing the DV lottery paperwork.They could have come into the US at the interview stage.I'd suggest calling the US embassy in you country to see if you can still do this or call the 1800 number for USCIS.

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When you entered the lottery did you not declare them on the forms ...so they could come as the same time

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How is you been feeling about your spouse since the diverce began?

i felt betrayed, disrespected, and hurt when i began my divorce but now i feel relief, and know i made the right choice.How is you been feeling about your spouse since the diverce began?
Betrayed, and that he was a COWARD. He began being really mean and abusive to me and our kids the last 6 mos, I made the decision to leave him, fearing for my life, and then after filing for the divorce I found out he was cheating on me. He wanted me to be the one to file and leave so he could always say I broke up our family to the kids, and not him, because I left him. Very sad.How is you been feeling about your spouse since the diverce began?
Was a little bit of a roller coaster. From crippling self pity locked in a room for days later to recapturing all that time during the marriage that I was deprived of fresh and not so fresh puttykitty. Funny thing was, after we got divorced and lived our separate lives; we got back together at her pursuit for another year or so before calling it quits for good (THANK G-D!) It lead to me finding some amazing women who satisfied me in different ways and the last of which I married. Don't avoid the ride, just buckle in and enjoy, even the sour parts; they eventually lead to the good parts if you set your mind to it.
I don't like unnecessary contact. I just want to get on with my life!





Edit- I still feel betrayed, heart-broken, and hurt... though I'm trying not to focus on that. I was just getting over being in Iraq for 16 months and getting settled in before being told I'm handsome, smart, loving, fun, funny, and perfect, but she doesn't love me the way a spouse should, and wants a divorce. Ouch.





My story is a dime a dozen though... I risk my neck to provide, and get cleaned out and ditched. Hoping I can find a nice responsible woman someday who would never do anything like that...
I feel betrayed, hurt, my heart breaks every time I see him and I feel strong.


It's his loss. If he wants to throw away 5 years of marriage without even looking at himself and making an effort, that's on him. I did everything I could.
relieved
What the eff, John.
sad

Is it ethical to seek evidence from a spouse when ';indepently'; investigating behaviour for court reports?

Spousal privilege must not violated, otherwise, the evidence is inadmissible. Spouses has the privilege that nothing can be extracted from them without the consent from each other according the the Rules of Evidence.Is it ethical to seek evidence from a spouse when ';indepently'; investigating behaviour for court reports?
Question doesn't make sense. If a spouse has evidence, why is the other spouse doing the investigation? It's a conflict of interest.





If you're talking about seeking an opinion from a spouse regarding a case, then one opinion is about as worthwhile as another.Is it ethical to seek evidence from a spouse when ';indepently'; investigating behaviour for court reports?
Whatcha talkin' about? You are too vague to get a sensible answer out of me.

How did you feel when you and your spouse made the decision to get life insurance?

My husband and I are only 26. He went today( without consulting me) and took out a HUGE policy on himself. I do not know how to feel about that. It feels like WOW! I don't even want to think about that.How did you feel when you and your spouse made the decision to get life insurance?
He didn't do anything wrong. In fact, it was an extremely responsible and caring thing that he did. Basically, he wanted to make sure that you would be fine if anything were to happen to him.





My husband and I just bought policies for each of us. Now is the best time to do it. When you are young, healthy, etc., it is much easier and cheaper to get life insurance. The longer you wait, the harder it is to get and the more expensive it is.





So, my answer is: feel thankful that you have such a caring husband. Now, if he had taken out a HUGE policy on YOU, I would get worried.How did you feel when you and your spouse made the decision to get life insurance?
so he care too much abt u.


lalalaaaaaaaa
my insurance is my god only
i was the same way, one does not want to think about such things, but as we grow older, we realize it is the best thing to do..if one of you passed, and had bills to pay and one income would not do it, the insurance will help you very much. and if you are raising a family of any size [one or more kids] the insurance will be needed alot...........
you should kick that mother fu(ker square in the nuts and say, dont you ever die on me. If you do Ill kill your mother
Not thinking about it does not make it go away. My uncle and aunt felt the same way until she went to their business and found him slumped over in his office at 30 years old. She was 28 with four children and widowed. Please get over your fear of discussing these matters and take care of business.
Smart man doing it so young so he pays a low premium. Besides if he did the right kind it works as a savings account over time too. Now if he took the policy out on you, you should worry. LOL. Only kidding.


Seriously it sounds like the bigger problem is that he did it with out talking to you. Sit him down and explain that this bothers you and you want to hear his side and why he did it. It sounds like he wants to be sure his wife is taken care of if something should happen. Remember that. Maybe he didn't think you would understand the different types of policies and such or maybe you don't take care of any of your finances? Study up on life insurance and the different types, you should be able to find a lot of information on the Web.


And if it bothers you that maybe he is thinking of death, I promise you don't. But the unthinkable does happen. Young people do die so he is being smart.

Is one entitled to an anullment if their spouse lost interest in sex after they married?

I know impotency entitles you but if a spouse is capable but doesn't want to on any kind of regular basis, is that grounds for a anullment? How expensive is it? Will that information stay on record embarassing the spouse? Also, do they have to admit the lack of sexual interest?Is one entitled to an anullment if their spouse lost interest in sex after they married?
No lack of interest in sex does not entitle you to an annulment of marriage on its own.





--But if you have been married for a short time period you may be able to have the marriage annulled because of mistake, fraud or some other irreconcilable difference.





Good luck with that.Is one entitled to an anullment if their spouse lost interest in sex after they married?
Depends on how long you have been married. If 5 years, not a legal annulment but perhaps a church annulment. If one month, then yes. If the marriage was never consummated then you are entitled to an annulment.
I don't think there is a way to prove that your spouse ';doesn't want to.';

How long will it take to sponsor my spouse in canada for immigration?

hi





im a 19 year old girl in college.........dont have a job





i want to sponsor my bf(wer gonna get married)....hes 21 from turkey and is here on a student visa





do i need a lot of money in my bank account?








aprroximately how long will it take for him to get hes PR card?How long will it take to sponsor my spouse in canada for immigration?
im a 19 year old girl in college.........dont have a job





YOU must support him after you are married. You must have income or a job. if you do not have any income then you will NOT be eligible to sponsor him.





As to how long - assuming he will stay in Canada with you - the process usually takes between 1 and 2 years. (inside application)





Once he graduates college, he can apply for a post-graduate work permit to get some work experience if he is not yet landed.





I suggest that you contact the below yahoo group - they know everything about spousal sponsorship to Canada.

Can a spouse recieve child support even though the children are not his legally or biologically?

My brother is in the marines, he is going through a divorce. When he met his wife she already had 2 children. Five years into the marriage he signed the children birth certificate. Now in the divorce the wife wants child support. He never legally adopted the children. Why is he being asked to take a DNA test when there is no possibility of the kids being his. The wife is requesting child support under the terms of alleging that he adopted the children. Shouldn't my brother attorney be asking for adoption papers instead of DNA testing? help...Can a spouse recieve child support even though the children are not his legally or biologically?
Sounds indeed strange call this to the attention of your brother.Can a spouse recieve child support even though the children are not his legally or biologically?
Did you know that marriage is a package deal when you make the choice to marry someone with children. The marriage certificate is all that is needed. How old is your brother? He has to be at least 18 to be in the service. He made some grown up decisions now let him be a grown and work it thrown. I hope he knows how lucky he is to a sister who cares enough to let him grow up.
It likely deal in the interpretation of the law. A DNA test may be the easier argument to make.





Tell him to go to Dads House in Yahoo Groups. Upon joining, he will receive a link for downloading a 200 page educational manual that can teach you what you need to know in dealing with the divorce an evaluating the attorney.





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Yes, but maybe he is avoiding other issues. If they take DNA test, done deal, no support what's so ever. If they ask for adoption papers, then there is more of a process. So, DNA is clear cut proof, done deal. The lawyer knows what he's doing, trust him.

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When to access a safety deposit box in New York City, NY upon death of spouse?

When to access a safety deposit box in New York City, NY.





If a couple are married and share a safety deposit box, and one spouse passes away. What happens to the safety deposit box?





Does the surviving spouse have continuous free access to it? Should the surviving spouse immediately empty it if they may need access to the contents in the short term?





Any guidance would be appreciated.





Any cite to applicable statutes or NYS gov鈥檛 websites would be even better. (I could not find any)





Thank you.When to access a safety deposit box in New York City, NY upon death of spouse?
boston...is not correct....


if the other person is on the safe deposit box...they have FREE unrestricted access to it...it is there property equally. Have her pull out any docs she may need now for the funeral prep...otherwise....it is hers.


She needs to take a copy of the death certificate to the bank and get his name off...in addition, she needs to put a beneficiary on it so if something happens to her, they can have access.


IRS is not notified...this is her property.





good luckWhen to access a safety deposit box in New York City, NY upon death of spouse?
Upon notification of death, the bank will notify the IRS and the IRS will order a seal of the safety deposit box until it can be opened and examined in the presence of an IRS agent. Any co-owners of the box will be denied access until the IRS inspection is complete.





For this reason you should NEVER place the only copy of critical documents that may be needed upon death such as wills, trusts, property deeds, insurance policies, etc. in a safety deposit box.
';It's not safe.';