Nothing has been settled in courts which has been ongoing, no orders have been made. Found out that ex has been completely renovating the home from insulation to new drywall and flooring. Can a spouse even do all this work without discussing this with the other spouse and co-borrower of the mortgage?After separation in Canada can the spouse residing in the home take out loans without other spouses signature?
As long as the separation is legal and the judge granted the separation...
Saturday, January 9, 2010
How do You Fix A Relationship When Your Spouse Have Cheated?
Can It Still Work? Or Should You Just Move On To Another?How do You Fix A Relationship When Your Spouse Have Cheated?
I wouldn't even bother.
I wasted two years on my now ex-fiance after he cheated on me.
SO NOT WORTH IT.
Once you break a glass and then you try to put it back together.
You're missing parts and there are still cracks and holes.
Its never the same.
Ask yourself this; can you honestly just forgive and forget? I know I didn't.
Obviously he didn't respect you enough to care about you or your feelings.
Maybe its time you let go.How do You Fix A Relationship When Your Spouse Have Cheated?
I agree with soinlove3.
It can work, but you have to be willing. The other party will usually be willing unless otherwise said, but alot of it is up to you.
If you can trust, which is not instantaneous, then yes. It's completely understandable for it to take time for that trust to be rebuilt and if you should choose to move forward that should be established ground for both of you. Don't let him rush you to get over it, but you can't drag it on for years, because even though it was wrong and the last thing you want to think of is the cheater's feelings, it's not fair... to either of you.
But! Because this is where alot of people seem to go wrong; You need to forgive. REALLY forgive. If you can't, then move on. So many people stay in relationships when they've been cheated on and use that wrong as leverage and you CAN'T do that, ie; If you do something he feels is wrong, and you come back with, ';well, you cheated on me, so...';
To make it work, you have to be able to forgive -- not forget, because that's not going to happen -- and move past it.
Trust is easily given, but once lost almost never returned.
If you have no children with him... I'd start new, I personally could not trust anyone who has cheated on me. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Good luck. If you can escape without much lost baggage... just call it a lesson learned. If you have a lot of baggage especially children, then you may want to stick it out for the sake of the children.
good luck
it depends. if you think you could rebuild the trust that you had then you should try to work things out. it's definitely not an easy thing to do but if you both want it to work out then you should rebuild the relationship even though it takes time.
NO i never trying to cheat i have an idea to manage all those thing i never let any one in bad atmosphere i am always with my spouse i never goes to address them for any harm if the communities have better adviser in front i really obey and do better
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I wouldn't even bother.
I wasted two years on my now ex-fiance after he cheated on me.
SO NOT WORTH IT.
Once you break a glass and then you try to put it back together.
You're missing parts and there are still cracks and holes.
Its never the same.
Ask yourself this; can you honestly just forgive and forget? I know I didn't.
Obviously he didn't respect you enough to care about you or your feelings.
Maybe its time you let go.How do You Fix A Relationship When Your Spouse Have Cheated?
I agree with soinlove3.
It can work, but you have to be willing. The other party will usually be willing unless otherwise said, but alot of it is up to you.
If you can trust, which is not instantaneous, then yes. It's completely understandable for it to take time for that trust to be rebuilt and if you should choose to move forward that should be established ground for both of you. Don't let him rush you to get over it, but you can't drag it on for years, because even though it was wrong and the last thing you want to think of is the cheater's feelings, it's not fair... to either of you.
But! Because this is where alot of people seem to go wrong; You need to forgive. REALLY forgive. If you can't, then move on. So many people stay in relationships when they've been cheated on and use that wrong as leverage and you CAN'T do that, ie; If you do something he feels is wrong, and you come back with, ';well, you cheated on me, so...';
To make it work, you have to be able to forgive -- not forget, because that's not going to happen -- and move past it.
Trust is easily given, but once lost almost never returned.
If you have no children with him... I'd start new, I personally could not trust anyone who has cheated on me. Once a cheater always a cheater.
Good luck. If you can escape without much lost baggage... just call it a lesson learned. If you have a lot of baggage especially children, then you may want to stick it out for the sake of the children.
good luck
it depends. if you think you could rebuild the trust that you had then you should try to work things out. it's definitely not an easy thing to do but if you both want it to work out then you should rebuild the relationship even though it takes time.
NO i never trying to cheat i have an idea to manage all those thing i never let any one in bad atmosphere i am always with my spouse i never goes to address them for any harm if the communities have better adviser in front i really obey and do better
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=At4bHklpYTk.ezmKoNSm_Ersy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090909141350AAa30h6
If you could ask the person who your spouse cheated with one question, what would it be?
Most people are curious what the other person looks like. I am curious what would you ask if you had the chance.If you could ask the person who your spouse cheated with one question, what would it be?
When my ex cheated on me. He put her on his top 8 on myspace (immature) well, he was TDY to a military training base and she was strait out of bootcamp. I emailed her on her myspace and said ';listen, I know you and my husband are doing your thing but he's refusing to sign my divorce papers now that I know about you I have filed and I would appreciate it if you would back off...I know you're a trainee there so you should be well aware that adultery is against the uniform code of military justice. When he's divorced you can have at him but until then...keep your hands off him or I will contact your commander'; she wrote me back and said she was SO sorry and that he told he he was single and blah blah blah. I believe her. She never talked to him again after that....it wasn't my point to break them up, I just wanted my divorce papers signed.
So I have no questions. No what if's or anything.If you could ask the person who your spouse cheated with one question, what would it be?
I would not want to ask that person anything. But I would want to hear from my spouse.
Usually Affairs are not even about that other woman. They are just a convenient body or listening ear or the pamperer.
The bigger issue is that their wife is not meeting their needs so the men feel like they have to go outside the marriage. This usually goes for women that go outside the marriage as well. So the person chooses to go astray usually without attempting to communicate their needs to their spouse effectively or without avail.
Another Woman would never concern me, because if I am taking care of my man like I am supposed to then no other woman would have the room to creep in.
wow this one is difficult i sat for a while pondering what question would be appropriate to ask or at this point i think appropriate would probably go out the window. You cant simply ask one question because then that question will lead to another and other and other and you simply would not be satisfied regardless what the answer was and how much sense it made. I guess in the end i would just want to know what it was that he/she saw in my spouse that they could not find in someone else. Then like i said i would probably want to ask more. And i guess in the end it would just be better to not ask at all.
My first husband cheated on me, and remained in the relationship with her throughout and after our divorce. I have met her before, a couple times when I was dropping off/picking up my kids from his apartment.
Lets just say it's very awkward, and our conversation has only amounted to a cordial 'Hello'. I don't really think I want to discuss anything with her, and I have moved on from that relationship and am now happily remarried. It was my ex's choice to go astray, and I hope he regrets it (for his children's sake), but I don't want to cause any more problems between us.
I was cheated on and my husband left me for another woman. I was 27 years of age he was 30 he left me for a 43 year old woman. I couldn't believe it. I really didn't have any questions I wanted to ask her. I wanted to tell her off and I did. I called over her house one time to talk to him and she babbled on about what a good son I had and what a great man my husband was and how lucky she was to have both of them in her life. All I could do was tell her what a fool she was. I was very upset and cried at first and then I would laugh because she was an idiot lol. He ended up cheating on her leaving her for another and did this twice to her. She was going to go back to him for the 4th time and had a heart attack at the age of 53 and passed away. I really felt bad for her. I could chalk my mistake up as being young and dumb. I met him when I was 21 and was in a huge hurry to get married thinking I was an old maid (what a joke lol). Her on the other hand was 43 she should of knew better and not only made a mistake by going out with a married guy but he left her and did the same thing to her and she went back for more abuse. He isn't good looking either lol. He is boring. No sense of humor whatsoever. Only wants to be in front of the T.V. He is a pot head. He has lived with 7 other women in 12 years. Some woman are so stupid me being one of them to marry such a man myself. Sorry so long. You cannot change a leopards spots. My ex husband lied about me. He told everyone I was crazy and that I was a terrible mother however he didn't fight for custody of our child. He told her a bunch of lies. She fell for it and got returned the favor before she died.
You know, this never occurred to me. I never blamed the other person. My husband's behavior was his; he's responsible for it. I don't care one iota about this other person's motives or intentions.
A spouse/SI can't be ';stolen'; unless they're willing to be.
what would you ask?
My man isn't cheating on me (that I know of) so I haven't given it much thought.
I think I would wonder more what I wasn't doing or how I was too busy to not notice. AND more importantly is he emotionally attached %26amp; in love with this woman.
*I thing Gracie is Right on*
My first husband cheated. I had no desire to ask her anything or to see her. Why? She did not cheat on me or break her marriage vows, he did.
Why couldn't you have showed up beforehand and married her, instead of me marrying this witch.
I have lots of possible questions but you only need one...
';Don't you have a happy family?';
That's why she's doing it to other people... to get a revenge!
Was this a one nite stand or a relationship?
';Where the fluck is your honor?';
what question?? just a fist to the face.
did you know he was married. You'd be suprised how many don't
It wont be a question, it will be a punch right to her f*ing face...
how long? or Did you know he was married
which would she prefer - a broken eye socket or nose...
whom do you like more?
Why won't you keep him now that I have no more use for him?
How does my pecker taste?
When my ex cheated on me. He put her on his top 8 on myspace (immature) well, he was TDY to a military training base and she was strait out of bootcamp. I emailed her on her myspace and said ';listen, I know you and my husband are doing your thing but he's refusing to sign my divorce papers now that I know about you I have filed and I would appreciate it if you would back off...I know you're a trainee there so you should be well aware that adultery is against the uniform code of military justice. When he's divorced you can have at him but until then...keep your hands off him or I will contact your commander'; she wrote me back and said she was SO sorry and that he told he he was single and blah blah blah. I believe her. She never talked to him again after that....it wasn't my point to break them up, I just wanted my divorce papers signed.
So I have no questions. No what if's or anything.If you could ask the person who your spouse cheated with one question, what would it be?
I would not want to ask that person anything. But I would want to hear from my spouse.
Usually Affairs are not even about that other woman. They are just a convenient body or listening ear or the pamperer.
The bigger issue is that their wife is not meeting their needs so the men feel like they have to go outside the marriage. This usually goes for women that go outside the marriage as well. So the person chooses to go astray usually without attempting to communicate their needs to their spouse effectively or without avail.
Another Woman would never concern me, because if I am taking care of my man like I am supposed to then no other woman would have the room to creep in.
wow this one is difficult i sat for a while pondering what question would be appropriate to ask or at this point i think appropriate would probably go out the window. You cant simply ask one question because then that question will lead to another and other and other and you simply would not be satisfied regardless what the answer was and how much sense it made. I guess in the end i would just want to know what it was that he/she saw in my spouse that they could not find in someone else. Then like i said i would probably want to ask more. And i guess in the end it would just be better to not ask at all.
My first husband cheated on me, and remained in the relationship with her throughout and after our divorce. I have met her before, a couple times when I was dropping off/picking up my kids from his apartment.
Lets just say it's very awkward, and our conversation has only amounted to a cordial 'Hello'. I don't really think I want to discuss anything with her, and I have moved on from that relationship and am now happily remarried. It was my ex's choice to go astray, and I hope he regrets it (for his children's sake), but I don't want to cause any more problems between us.
I was cheated on and my husband left me for another woman. I was 27 years of age he was 30 he left me for a 43 year old woman. I couldn't believe it. I really didn't have any questions I wanted to ask her. I wanted to tell her off and I did. I called over her house one time to talk to him and she babbled on about what a good son I had and what a great man my husband was and how lucky she was to have both of them in her life. All I could do was tell her what a fool she was. I was very upset and cried at first and then I would laugh because she was an idiot lol. He ended up cheating on her leaving her for another and did this twice to her. She was going to go back to him for the 4th time and had a heart attack at the age of 53 and passed away. I really felt bad for her. I could chalk my mistake up as being young and dumb. I met him when I was 21 and was in a huge hurry to get married thinking I was an old maid (what a joke lol). Her on the other hand was 43 she should of knew better and not only made a mistake by going out with a married guy but he left her and did the same thing to her and she went back for more abuse. He isn't good looking either lol. He is boring. No sense of humor whatsoever. Only wants to be in front of the T.V. He is a pot head. He has lived with 7 other women in 12 years. Some woman are so stupid me being one of them to marry such a man myself. Sorry so long. You cannot change a leopards spots. My ex husband lied about me. He told everyone I was crazy and that I was a terrible mother however he didn't fight for custody of our child. He told her a bunch of lies. She fell for it and got returned the favor before she died.
You know, this never occurred to me. I never blamed the other person. My husband's behavior was his; he's responsible for it. I don't care one iota about this other person's motives or intentions.
A spouse/SI can't be ';stolen'; unless they're willing to be.
what would you ask?
My man isn't cheating on me (that I know of) so I haven't given it much thought.
I think I would wonder more what I wasn't doing or how I was too busy to not notice. AND more importantly is he emotionally attached %26amp; in love with this woman.
*I thing Gracie is Right on*
My first husband cheated. I had no desire to ask her anything or to see her. Why? She did not cheat on me or break her marriage vows, he did.
Why couldn't you have showed up beforehand and married her, instead of me marrying this witch.
I have lots of possible questions but you only need one...
';Don't you have a happy family?';
That's why she's doing it to other people... to get a revenge!
Was this a one nite stand or a relationship?
';Where the fluck is your honor?';
what question?? just a fist to the face.
did you know he was married. You'd be suprised how many don't
It wont be a question, it will be a punch right to her f*ing face...
how long? or Did you know he was married
which would she prefer - a broken eye socket or nose...
whom do you like more?
Why won't you keep him now that I have no more use for him?
How does my pecker taste?
Does my spouse's accountant need my SSN if she lives in another state, considering we are divorcing?
While divorcing we file married filling separate. She asked me for my SSN for her tax purposes and I dont want to provide it. What options do I have?Does my spouse's accountant need my SSN if she lives in another state, considering we are divorcing?
Wow! Another pile of horse manure for advice! Only ';tma'; has it right. And here's why:
You don't have an option. You must provide it, it's required by law.
The IRS cross-checks separate returns to make sure that both are properly filed. For example, if one party itemizes their deductions, the other party MUST itemize even if that amount is $0.
If you don't provide it, your return will be rejected and the IRS will assess a penalty for failure to list the SSN. If a paid preparer signed the return, they will be hit with the same penalty as well. If you don't have your estranged spouse's SSN and cannot get it despite due dilligence efforts you must attach a signed statement to your return giving their full name and address and describing the efforts you took to get the SSN.
Hint: If you're in the process of a divorce, your attorney can request it from theirs for tax filing purposes. They will get the SSN for you, trust me.Does my spouse's accountant need my SSN if she lives in another state, considering we are divorcing?
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If you look at Form 1040 under filing status you will see that if you check off ';married filing separately'; it asks for the spouse's SSN#. If you plan on filing married filing separately, you will need your wife's SSN as well. So i would suggest that you cooperate.
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Just file your taxes ASAP. Other states have different rules meaning no state tax. If you do not want her to have it then don't. In CA each spouse must report half of their combine community income and deductions in addition to their separate income and deductions.Community income: property, slaires, wages, and real est, etc. Consult your tax preparer and accountant or call IRS for yourself they will answer question like this and find out what state they can also give you the number for the IRS in the state she lives in ask IRS. Call IRS. If you do not have anything just file.
There probably is a compelling need, but you
should make the accountant define what it is.
You can certainly imagine that it would be needed
for alimony issues, insurance issues, credit issues...
Doesn't matter - if the accountant is mum, you should
be too.
i would file injured spouse you file yours let her file hers.don't give up anything you dont have to.im twice divorced and went to the cleaners both time,s let her file her own taxes
Yes, married filing separately returns have to list the other spouse's social security number. You'll need hers for your return also.
If you ever filed a joint return, either of you could get a copy from the IRS that would show both numbers. So don't give the accountant a hard time - just give him or her the number.
Unfortunitly, if you guys are still married than yes. A friend of mine and her husband who are in the same situation (seperated and living in seperate states) And unfortunitly, if your spouse evades the IRS while you guys r still legally married, then the IRS has a right to come after your wages. However, the SS no is not required for all state taxes, you would have to contact your local tax agency to ask.
from what understand no she does not need it.
Wow! Another pile of horse manure for advice! Only ';tma'; has it right. And here's why:
You don't have an option. You must provide it, it's required by law.
The IRS cross-checks separate returns to make sure that both are properly filed. For example, if one party itemizes their deductions, the other party MUST itemize even if that amount is $0.
If you don't provide it, your return will be rejected and the IRS will assess a penalty for failure to list the SSN. If a paid preparer signed the return, they will be hit with the same penalty as well. If you don't have your estranged spouse's SSN and cannot get it despite due dilligence efforts you must attach a signed statement to your return giving their full name and address and describing the efforts you took to get the SSN.
Hint: If you're in the process of a divorce, your attorney can request it from theirs for tax filing purposes. They will get the SSN for you, trust me.Does my spouse's accountant need my SSN if she lives in another state, considering we are divorcing?
TFTP
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If you look at Form 1040 under filing status you will see that if you check off ';married filing separately'; it asks for the spouse's SSN#. If you plan on filing married filing separately, you will need your wife's SSN as well. So i would suggest that you cooperate.
http://www.irs.gov/pub/irs-pdf/f1040.pdf鈥?/a>
Just file your taxes ASAP. Other states have different rules meaning no state tax. If you do not want her to have it then don't. In CA each spouse must report half of their combine community income and deductions in addition to their separate income and deductions.Community income: property, slaires, wages, and real est, etc. Consult your tax preparer and accountant or call IRS for yourself they will answer question like this and find out what state they can also give you the number for the IRS in the state she lives in ask IRS. Call IRS. If you do not have anything just file.
There probably is a compelling need, but you
should make the accountant define what it is.
You can certainly imagine that it would be needed
for alimony issues, insurance issues, credit issues...
Doesn't matter - if the accountant is mum, you should
be too.
i would file injured spouse you file yours let her file hers.don't give up anything you dont have to.im twice divorced and went to the cleaners both time,s let her file her own taxes
Yes, married filing separately returns have to list the other spouse's social security number. You'll need hers for your return also.
If you ever filed a joint return, either of you could get a copy from the IRS that would show both numbers. So don't give the accountant a hard time - just give him or her the number.
Unfortunitly, if you guys are still married than yes. A friend of mine and her husband who are in the same situation (seperated and living in seperate states) And unfortunitly, if your spouse evades the IRS while you guys r still legally married, then the IRS has a right to come after your wages. However, the SS no is not required for all state taxes, you would have to contact your local tax agency to ask.
from what understand no she does not need it.
If a step parent passes away,and his spouse has already passed away?
,who is responsible for his remaining bills,his children ,the step children,or both.If a step parent passes away,and his spouse has already passed away?
It may depend on who are the benefactors to the will, it may be that provision has been made for this event.facial moisturizer moisturiser cream
It may depend on who are the benefactors to the will, it may be that provision has been made for this event.
Can someone who is a US citizen but receiving financial aid petition for a fiance/spouse?
i am 19 years old and a born US citizen. i'd like to know if it is possible to petition for my fiance from Guyana, even though i'm still in college and receiving financial aid. and would it make a difference if i had someone to co-sponsor with me?Can someone who is a US citizen but receiving financial aid petition for a fiance/spouse?
Without sufficient income of your own, the only way you will be successful in petitioning for him is with a joint sponsor with adequate income.Can someone who is a US citizen but receiving financial aid petition for a fiance/spouse?
If you can prove that you have met, with photos together and with family, plane tickets, telephone bills, etc., and can prove financial responsibility for the person you want to sponsor, yes you can petition. If your earnings for the last three years to not prove you are financially able to support another person you may get a co-sponsor. However, being a sponsor or co-sponsor, the obligation is great in that you take full responsibility for this other person in all ways. Housing, medical, food, clothing, shelter, etc.
Doubt if you even come close to the
requirements of Sponsoring any one...
Being a Fiance ';Does Not'; give her any
special rights or privilege's...
When is the last time you were in Guyana ?
For how long ?
Are you or have you made at least 135% above
US Poverty Line for the last three years...
after tax's.
Must be proven by W-2's.
Not sure who would Co-sponsor her for Life...
As she can not ever go on Welfare or any other
Government program for Life.
That means you are responsible for
every cent of her living here for life.
Food/Clothes/Housing/Medical/Dental etc.
If you do not meet the requirement of I-864, then you must have co-sponsor to sign I-864 for you and your fiance.
http://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/鈥?/a>
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.鈥?/a>
What matters is that you either have to have the necessary funds to support your future wife or someone who is willing to become your co-sponsor has the funds. So you just need a reliable co-sponsor.
Marine5: financial sponsorship only lasts until the legal alien becomes a citizen or if she doesn't want to, the time limit is 10 years. So it's not for a whole lifetime, just to be accurate...
Without sufficient income of your own, the only way you will be successful in petitioning for him is with a joint sponsor with adequate income.Can someone who is a US citizen but receiving financial aid petition for a fiance/spouse?
If you can prove that you have met, with photos together and with family, plane tickets, telephone bills, etc., and can prove financial responsibility for the person you want to sponsor, yes you can petition. If your earnings for the last three years to not prove you are financially able to support another person you may get a co-sponsor. However, being a sponsor or co-sponsor, the obligation is great in that you take full responsibility for this other person in all ways. Housing, medical, food, clothing, shelter, etc.
Doubt if you even come close to the
requirements of Sponsoring any one...
Being a Fiance ';Does Not'; give her any
special rights or privilege's...
When is the last time you were in Guyana ?
For how long ?
Are you or have you made at least 135% above
US Poverty Line for the last three years...
after tax's.
Must be proven by W-2's.
Not sure who would Co-sponsor her for Life...
As she can not ever go on Welfare or any other
Government program for Life.
That means you are responsible for
every cent of her living here for life.
Food/Clothes/Housing/Medical/Dental etc.
If you do not meet the requirement of I-864, then you must have co-sponsor to sign I-864 for you and your fiance.
http://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/鈥?/a>
http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.鈥?/a>
What matters is that you either have to have the necessary funds to support your future wife or someone who is willing to become your co-sponsor has the funds. So you just need a reliable co-sponsor.
Marine5: financial sponsorship only lasts until the legal alien becomes a citizen or if she doesn't want to, the time limit is 10 years. So it's not for a whole lifetime, just to be accurate...
What is a polite way of asking about cause of death to a patient's spouse?
I'm trying to find out about a patient's cause of death. What is a polite way of asking about cause of death to a patient's spouse?
Thank you!!What is a polite way of asking about cause of death to a patient's spouse?
I would say, ';This is a difficult question to ask, and if you prefer not to answer, I understand, but for professional reasons, I need to know your husband's cause of death.';
When I was in the insurance business and we asked for a check with the application, if the customer balked, we were instructed to say, ';It's customary.';
I sometimes recall that I was filling out an application for life insurance once, and I asked the applicant, ';I need your parent's cause of death.';
He replied, without hesitation, ';homicide and suicide.'; Then he wrote me a bad check for the initial premium. I didn't go back to get another check.
You can often take cuts in line at a grocery store if you simply say to the person ahead of you, ';Do you mind if I go ahead of you, because I need to pay for this.';
The ';because I need to'; willl get you through a lot of awkward situations.What is a polite way of asking about cause of death to a patient's spouse?
I would just start a nice conversation and when I got to a point where I think they are comfortable talking about it I would just ask.
Thank you!!What is a polite way of asking about cause of death to a patient's spouse?
I would say, ';This is a difficult question to ask, and if you prefer not to answer, I understand, but for professional reasons, I need to know your husband's cause of death.';
When I was in the insurance business and we asked for a check with the application, if the customer balked, we were instructed to say, ';It's customary.';
I sometimes recall that I was filling out an application for life insurance once, and I asked the applicant, ';I need your parent's cause of death.';
He replied, without hesitation, ';homicide and suicide.'; Then he wrote me a bad check for the initial premium. I didn't go back to get another check.
You can often take cuts in line at a grocery store if you simply say to the person ahead of you, ';Do you mind if I go ahead of you, because I need to pay for this.';
The ';because I need to'; willl get you through a lot of awkward situations.What is a polite way of asking about cause of death to a patient's spouse?
I would just start a nice conversation and when I got to a point where I think they are comfortable talking about it I would just ask.
My estranged spouse is slandering me and harassing me I don't know what to do?
My spouse and I have been separated for over 3 years and are currently going through a divorce. Yesterday I found out he created a MySpace page with my pictures and information slandering me. I鈥檝e contacted his command about this and his implications that he鈥檚 going to kill me but they鈥檙e not doing anything about it. I鈥檝e spoken to JAG and they contacted his command but nothing has been done. My local PD says I don鈥檛 have enough for a restraining order. I don鈥檛 know what to do or who to talk to. Can someone please help me?My estranged spouse is slandering me and harassing me I don't know what to do?
slander schmander...get over it and divroce himMy estranged spouse is slandering me and harassing me I don't know what to do?
contact an attorney
I think you should talk to an attorney and also get yourself some protection and learn how to protect yourself. Also check on the Cease and Desist order and start making your own paper trail to C.Y.A., if need be.
Hire an attorney and keep records of everything he is doing.
Talk to your lawyer about a ';Cease and Desist'; it is an order requiring harassment stop. Since it is a court order the local police and JAG will have to enforce it. Good Luck!
Go to the IG. Write his Congressman. Call the MP's on his base. Start a paper trail so if anything happens you will have documented evidence that you were being pro active and attempting to solve the problem through legal channels. Just be LOUD.
If that doesn't work, shoot him. He has threatened your life and you have no way of knowing if he means it or not. I think you have a good case for self defense. Talk to an attorney.
You should never have cheated on him. You are now reaping the rewards.
O.k. The important thing here is your safety. Find a safe place to go to. Find a friend or family member you can stay with for a while that he knows nothing about. Do not tell anyone where you are going that might tell your separated spouse where you are. Restraining orders are useless. They provide really no protection at all. How can a piece of paper stop him IF he really wants to do you harm. Police only come into play after he has committed a crime. Not before the crime is committed. So much for a restraining order. Find a women's shelter that will consider taking you in. Call a hot-line for a referral. Main thing is you must flee this dangerous person who is making death threats. Get out of Dodge and find a new life. Do it now. Best Wishes.
slander schmander...get over it and divroce himMy estranged spouse is slandering me and harassing me I don't know what to do?
contact an attorney
I think you should talk to an attorney and also get yourself some protection and learn how to protect yourself. Also check on the Cease and Desist order and start making your own paper trail to C.Y.A., if need be.
Hire an attorney and keep records of everything he is doing.
Talk to your lawyer about a ';Cease and Desist'; it is an order requiring harassment stop. Since it is a court order the local police and JAG will have to enforce it. Good Luck!
Go to the IG. Write his Congressman. Call the MP's on his base. Start a paper trail so if anything happens you will have documented evidence that you were being pro active and attempting to solve the problem through legal channels. Just be LOUD.
If that doesn't work, shoot him. He has threatened your life and you have no way of knowing if he means it or not. I think you have a good case for self defense. Talk to an attorney.
You should never have cheated on him. You are now reaping the rewards.
O.k. The important thing here is your safety. Find a safe place to go to. Find a friend or family member you can stay with for a while that he knows nothing about. Do not tell anyone where you are going that might tell your separated spouse where you are. Restraining orders are useless. They provide really no protection at all. How can a piece of paper stop him IF he really wants to do you harm. Police only come into play after he has committed a crime. Not before the crime is committed. So much for a restraining order. Find a women's shelter that will consider taking you in. Call a hot-line for a referral. Main thing is you must flee this dangerous person who is making death threats. Get out of Dodge and find a new life. Do it now. Best Wishes.
For divorcees- How did you feel when your spouse told you he/she wanted out?
Was it mutual? Did it take you by surprise? How did you react?For divorcees- How did you feel when your spouse told you he/she wanted out?
today marks the 5 years since i came home to the divorce papers. yup, October 6th, 2004... worst day of my life, that actually turned out to be the best day of my life in disguise.
we've had issues to that point, but I never thought it was the 'divorce' territory. every day in life is a learning experience, and i've learned that day, no matter how solid the marriage seems to be, it is just a fragile glass of wine. we bump it like it's unbreakable plastic mug, but one slight bump and it shatters beyond repair.
I was devastated. lost. you name it, i felt it... and my crime was being in a deep depression, where my character got blurred by the 'disorder'. never cheated, (until the day after i got the papers.. nailed my secretary right on my cherry desk), never violent, no verbal assaults, no drugs, no alcohol... i just wanted to be left alone and i was 'disconnected' with the rest of the world... and my wife at the time pulled the trigger on permanent solution, for what was a temporary and fixable (and fix, i did) situation... 3 days after i got diagnosed with the 'disorder'....
for the next 5 months after i got the papers, i was a mess. i slept.. wait, that's too 'mild' of a word... i banged anyone and everyone that had a vagina within my reach... i was not only working on the divorce, but something even bigger.... from 6 month point to the 10 month point, things got better.. and 5 years later, i'm remarried with world's hottest hottie, kids, house, and the whole 9 yards, where my ex wife is still 'bitter' (she dumped my @ss, wtf is there for her to be bitter at?) and telling stories about how i used to beat her up. (which never even came close to happening). oh, i forgot to mention, she's fat as ever and single as ever. everyday i wake up in the morning, i feel like Brett Favre last night, after he whipped the team that let him go.
i felt at the time, like the world was crumbling on top of me, and it did. but i made it out, and now i'm flying through space.For divorcees- How did you feel when your spouse told you he/she wanted out?
First wife (Married for 7 years) Told me she had been cheating on me for 6 months (While I was in the hospital after a major car accident.)
Was lost, hurt, confused and doubtful I would be able to ever let anyone get close to me again. However relationships are built on trust and I refused to give her a second chance because things could never be the same and I deserve better than second best.....
Second Wife: Told me she was leaving and moved out on our one year anniversary. Was more a marriage based on money so it was more of a surprise than hurtful. I was still pissed and hurt anyway because I trusted her.
Now married for the third time, have two wonderful little daughters and am happy that the other two didn't work out so I could be in the relationship I am currently in.
He was always threatening me that he was going to divorce me, that he had no patience for me, that there was nothing to talk about, that we didn't need counseling, that I should just leave. He even packed up some boxes %26amp; said he was moving out. I cried and cried and cried that day. Then it turns out he didn't move anywhere, just did it to scare me.
A week later, I packed up my own things %26amp; left while he was at work. He called all the time but I never answered.
Leaving my first husband was awful. I adored the man and we were very, very young - but he was abusive, so I had no choice. I went to work as usual, then during the day while he was out doing drugs with his friends, I went back to the house, packed my things and disappeared. I don't think I stopped crying for a year.
well i just woke up one day and knew i couldn't take not being able to trust him anymore.And I didn't deserve to be talked to as if I was some cheap whore he hired for the night. So I told him I was going to visit my mom in a different state and when I got there I said peace ******!!!!
my ex would always tell me to get the F ** out of his house I would tell him not to worry and that one day he would come home from work and i would be gone and that is what i did i waited until he was at work and i packed up and left. he was abusive
It was the day I realised now I can live ...I can do what I was meant to do and I will be what for years, he said I could never be ..... It was a good day......................
It all depends on what that couple is going through right at that moment. So everyone is different.
SWEET MILDRED IS MY LEADER...CRAWL INTO HER PLAYPEN SECRET CIRCLE WITH ME
I couldn't work for 9 months. I was so wrecked!
today marks the 5 years since i came home to the divorce papers. yup, October 6th, 2004... worst day of my life, that actually turned out to be the best day of my life in disguise.
we've had issues to that point, but I never thought it was the 'divorce' territory. every day in life is a learning experience, and i've learned that day, no matter how solid the marriage seems to be, it is just a fragile glass of wine. we bump it like it's unbreakable plastic mug, but one slight bump and it shatters beyond repair.
I was devastated. lost. you name it, i felt it... and my crime was being in a deep depression, where my character got blurred by the 'disorder'. never cheated, (until the day after i got the papers.. nailed my secretary right on my cherry desk), never violent, no verbal assaults, no drugs, no alcohol... i just wanted to be left alone and i was 'disconnected' with the rest of the world... and my wife at the time pulled the trigger on permanent solution, for what was a temporary and fixable (and fix, i did) situation... 3 days after i got diagnosed with the 'disorder'....
for the next 5 months after i got the papers, i was a mess. i slept.. wait, that's too 'mild' of a word... i banged anyone and everyone that had a vagina within my reach... i was not only working on the divorce, but something even bigger.... from 6 month point to the 10 month point, things got better.. and 5 years later, i'm remarried with world's hottest hottie, kids, house, and the whole 9 yards, where my ex wife is still 'bitter' (she dumped my @ss, wtf is there for her to be bitter at?) and telling stories about how i used to beat her up. (which never even came close to happening). oh, i forgot to mention, she's fat as ever and single as ever. everyday i wake up in the morning, i feel like Brett Favre last night, after he whipped the team that let him go.
i felt at the time, like the world was crumbling on top of me, and it did. but i made it out, and now i'm flying through space.For divorcees- How did you feel when your spouse told you he/she wanted out?
First wife (Married for 7 years) Told me she had been cheating on me for 6 months (While I was in the hospital after a major car accident.)
Was lost, hurt, confused and doubtful I would be able to ever let anyone get close to me again. However relationships are built on trust and I refused to give her a second chance because things could never be the same and I deserve better than second best.....
Second Wife: Told me she was leaving and moved out on our one year anniversary. Was more a marriage based on money so it was more of a surprise than hurtful. I was still pissed and hurt anyway because I trusted her.
Now married for the third time, have two wonderful little daughters and am happy that the other two didn't work out so I could be in the relationship I am currently in.
He was always threatening me that he was going to divorce me, that he had no patience for me, that there was nothing to talk about, that we didn't need counseling, that I should just leave. He even packed up some boxes %26amp; said he was moving out. I cried and cried and cried that day. Then it turns out he didn't move anywhere, just did it to scare me.
A week later, I packed up my own things %26amp; left while he was at work. He called all the time but I never answered.
Leaving my first husband was awful. I adored the man and we were very, very young - but he was abusive, so I had no choice. I went to work as usual, then during the day while he was out doing drugs with his friends, I went back to the house, packed my things and disappeared. I don't think I stopped crying for a year.
well i just woke up one day and knew i couldn't take not being able to trust him anymore.And I didn't deserve to be talked to as if I was some cheap whore he hired for the night. So I told him I was going to visit my mom in a different state and when I got there I said peace ******!!!!
my ex would always tell me to get the F ** out of his house I would tell him not to worry and that one day he would come home from work and i would be gone and that is what i did i waited until he was at work and i packed up and left. he was abusive
It was the day I realised now I can live ...I can do what I was meant to do and I will be what for years, he said I could never be ..... It was a good day......................
It all depends on what that couple is going through right at that moment. So everyone is different.
SWEET MILDRED IS MY LEADER...CRAWL INTO HER PLAYPEN SECRET CIRCLE WITH ME
I couldn't work for 9 months. I was so wrecked!
Is the spouse automaticly the recipient of assets rather than children in the event of death.?
yes unless otherwise stipulated in a will but if the children are underage then the spouse would have control of the assets until the children turned 18.Is the spouse automaticly the recipient of assets rather than children in the event of death.?
If the deceased was without a Will, then the court will decide how the assets are allocated. It is likely that a sole spouse will receive everything, but it is not guaranteed, especially if any of the children dispute the judgement. It is a lot safer to get a will drawn up - it is a lot easier and cheaper than most people think, and can save a lot of hassle and heartache at what is already a difficult time.Is the spouse automaticly the recipient of assets rather than children in the event of death.?
only wife you have ever had yes. if a second or third then she gets 1 child's portion in most cases if you die intestate
If the deceased was without a Will, then the court will decide how the assets are allocated. It is likely that a sole spouse will receive everything, but it is not guaranteed, especially if any of the children dispute the judgement. It is a lot safer to get a will drawn up - it is a lot easier and cheaper than most people think, and can save a lot of hassle and heartache at what is already a difficult time.Is the spouse automaticly the recipient of assets rather than children in the event of death.?
only wife you have ever had yes. if a second or third then she gets 1 child's portion in most cases if you die intestate
Would you ask for a divorce if your spouse cheated on you?
Or would you forgive and stay with them?Would you ask for a divorce if your spouse cheated on you?
It would depend on so many things. How long have you been married? Are there children? Was this the first time your spouse cheated? What was the nature of the cheating (emotional affair, one night stand, etc.)? Was he willing to work at/ get counseling with you to repair the marriage? Are you someone who can truly forgive?
However, one thing is for sure. I wouldn't be polite about it!Would you ask for a divorce if your spouse cheated on you?
Just file for divorce they always cheat again,once a cheater always a cheater because think about it why did they do it in the first place if they really really loved you.
I would forgive him (eventually) but still file for divorce. If my spouse disrespected me enough to have sex with another person, then he probably showed equal regard for my health and didn't use a condom. No man is worth an incurable sexually transmitted disease (think hiv/aids, herpes, genital warts, hpv)! Take care!
The problem is not the affair. The problem is what happened before the affair. The relationship was broken. The person fell out of love. The person decided to look for something else. It is these events that indicate the end of a marriage. If these happen, and they're not somehow fixed, there's no point to forgiving and staying. The relationship is dead.
Are you scared? Judging from your last posts you would be the reason he cheats.
Im not trying to be cruel Im simply trying to open your eyes to reality.
My spouse wouldn't cheat on me...because he gets everything he wants...twice a month...myself on the other hand would cheat because twice a month just isn't good enough for me. And if it ended in divorce he would know exactly why. I have been very vocal expressing my needs in this relationship...its his choice he doesn't want to compromise.
There would be no asking. The marriage would be over after that. I believe that once you enter that kind of commitment, cheating is the ultimate faux-pas. I am not one to usually go all biblical on people but, the ten commandments says thou shall not commit adultery. If the person wanted to leave, they should had the guts to say so.
My husband and I have always said that cheating is the deal breaker. I cant imagine how i could look him in the face knowing he did that to me. That is definitely the one thing i would walk away from him immediately for.
One doesn't HAVE to ask for a divorce all one has to do is FILE for divorce. There is no permission needed.
i'm not asking i'll probably just keep as im doing, [hes in the mideast and im in our home] he's a swine and doesn't deserve me, he deserves the pig he was with
i wouldnt ';ask'; for a divorce...i would simply demand it.
No I would not ask him for anything; I would simply file for divorce and move on with my life....
I will file for divorce
I would kill him and end up in jail the rest of my life.
once a cheater - always a cheater. - just my thoughts
It would depend on so many things. How long have you been married? Are there children? Was this the first time your spouse cheated? What was the nature of the cheating (emotional affair, one night stand, etc.)? Was he willing to work at/ get counseling with you to repair the marriage? Are you someone who can truly forgive?
However, one thing is for sure. I wouldn't be polite about it!Would you ask for a divorce if your spouse cheated on you?
Just file for divorce they always cheat again,once a cheater always a cheater because think about it why did they do it in the first place if they really really loved you.
I would forgive him (eventually) but still file for divorce. If my spouse disrespected me enough to have sex with another person, then he probably showed equal regard for my health and didn't use a condom. No man is worth an incurable sexually transmitted disease (think hiv/aids, herpes, genital warts, hpv)! Take care!
The problem is not the affair. The problem is what happened before the affair. The relationship was broken. The person fell out of love. The person decided to look for something else. It is these events that indicate the end of a marriage. If these happen, and they're not somehow fixed, there's no point to forgiving and staying. The relationship is dead.
Are you scared? Judging from your last posts you would be the reason he cheats.
Im not trying to be cruel Im simply trying to open your eyes to reality.
My spouse wouldn't cheat on me...because he gets everything he wants...twice a month...myself on the other hand would cheat because twice a month just isn't good enough for me. And if it ended in divorce he would know exactly why. I have been very vocal expressing my needs in this relationship...its his choice he doesn't want to compromise.
There would be no asking. The marriage would be over after that. I believe that once you enter that kind of commitment, cheating is the ultimate faux-pas. I am not one to usually go all biblical on people but, the ten commandments says thou shall not commit adultery. If the person wanted to leave, they should had the guts to say so.
My husband and I have always said that cheating is the deal breaker. I cant imagine how i could look him in the face knowing he did that to me. That is definitely the one thing i would walk away from him immediately for.
One doesn't HAVE to ask for a divorce all one has to do is FILE for divorce. There is no permission needed.
i'm not asking i'll probably just keep as im doing, [hes in the mideast and im in our home] he's a swine and doesn't deserve me, he deserves the pig he was with
i wouldnt ';ask'; for a divorce...i would simply demand it.
No I would not ask him for anything; I would simply file for divorce and move on with my life....
I will file for divorce
I would kill him and end up in jail the rest of my life.
once a cheater - always a cheater. - just my thoughts
How do men really feel about their pregnant spouse when they fight?
They probably want to leave. We completely lose our minds when we are pregnant!How do men really feel about their pregnant spouse when they fight?
Not all men fight with pregnant spouses. My husband treats me like a princess in general, but goes over board in being loving and attentive when I am expecting.How do men really feel about their pregnant spouse when they fight?
Ask a man who fights with his pregnant spouse.
I will never fight with pregnant spouse...crazy people fights in such conditions..
It depends.
More often we feel that pregnant wives are hormonal out of control whack jobs and we cannot wait for the delivery to get back to some level of normal.
Mine is pregnant and we exchange words when we disagree on something but I feel she is going through alot of changes and I just leave things alone in hopes that I can keep things as less stressful as possible for her as she is already going through enough right now and fighting would put her and possibly the baby in an uncomfortable situation.
Not all men fight with pregnant spouses. My husband treats me like a princess in general, but goes over board in being loving and attentive when I am expecting.How do men really feel about their pregnant spouse when they fight?
Ask a man who fights with his pregnant spouse.
I will never fight with pregnant spouse...crazy people fights in such conditions..
It depends.
More often we feel that pregnant wives are hormonal out of control whack jobs and we cannot wait for the delivery to get back to some level of normal.
Mine is pregnant and we exchange words when we disagree on something but I feel she is going through alot of changes and I just leave things alone in hopes that I can keep things as less stressful as possible for her as she is already going through enough right now and fighting would put her and possibly the baby in an uncomfortable situation.
Married persons: Did you know immediately that your spouse was the one?
Were you attracted to them right away or did it take getting to know them that attracted you?Married persons: Did you know immediately that your spouse was the one?
Nope. I had to be told a couple months after we met that we were genuinely in love. I was 19 at the time, so I had to be told quite a bit. 20 years later, turns out I was told correctly!Married persons: Did you know immediately that your spouse was the one?
Absolutely! We clicked right away. We didn't kiss on our first date, but I sure wanted to. We found out a lot about each other on our first date. I processed the information and knew that all signals on my end were ';go';. I was only hoping he was as interested. As it turns out, we were both very attracted to one another and eager for another date.
We met through a free on-line dating website. I saw two paragraphs he'd written and my first thought was, ';This is the one!'; I had a few other posts that I was interested enough to respond to, but none that I had that reaction to. Right after I said that about him, I realized how foolish it was to think that after just seeing a paragraph so I decided to wait until I got to know him and met him. The first time I met him in person, I actually thought he didn't look like my type at all and I was sure I would never have a romantic relationship with him. We became friends for three years, and then my feelings for him started changing. Now, it's been over twelve years since I first met him, and we are married, and I have no regrets at all.
i was attracted to her right away but i wasn't sure she was the one. 14 years later, still not sure... but the weirdest thing is that during those 14 years I never once met anyone that I thought maybe i should be with instead. well, except for this one chinese girl who went by the name of ';linda'; and lived in shanghai. but that's a story for another day.
Yes, I was physically attracted to him on sight. Then we started talking and I loved his humor! We started dating and he keep telling me, ';I like you way too much';. After hearing this for a couple weeks I asked him what that meant. He turned off to the side of the road, turned off the car, looked at me, lifted up my chin and told me he loved me. Might seem cheesy to some but it was heartmelting to me!
14 yrs later....still happily in love!
I looked at him across the table from me and thought ';I could look at this man across the table from me every day';. I was very attracted to him and I think he was to me as well. The longer I know him, the more handsome and attractive he is to me. He's hot!!
I knew there was an instant attraction but I didn't know if he was the one I was going to marry. That was a few months later. We got to know each other and fit together well. We both knew within a few months but waited 5 years to get married when we were 26. Married 12 years now.
I first met my wife in high school, and I had feelings for her then although we never dated.
then a couple of years later we had a chance meeting and the chemistry was instant, and then we both knew and married 3 months later. We are now going on 8 years.
No. I had liked him as a person and at the time we had many things in common. That was years ago before we got married.
After years of living together, he decided he wanted us to get married or split up. Since I didn't have a place to go, I got married.
I was attracted to him immediately! He was VERY good looking. He made me feel very sexy right from the start. I KNEW there was something there, but I wasnt sure if HE knew. Turns out that he liked me right away, an now we are married :)
Well we met for sex. So there was lust right away, but I also don't have sex with someone whom I do not find attractive. So yea, I was attracted to him when we met and I still find him attractive 11yrs later.
when he walked through the door i told all my girl-friends to back off he was mine, been together ever since that nite, that was 17 yrs ago and we have been married almost 16 yrs and I STILL LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL
Immediately. Our first date was 6 hours- within the first hour we were both smitten and haven't been apart since. Our love only continues to grow.
No, but within going out two or three times I did. I was attracted initially to her. I didn't know she was the one until I saw her in a few situations.
Not married but did have that instant ';know'; with a guy once. I know that he was my ';one'; but it didn't work out. Timing is everything.
Right up until our separation 7 years later.
I kind of knew right away, at the time. and 14 years later she is still the one.
It took that pregnancy test turning blue to make him attractive enough to marry. That was almost 23 years ago and it has been he!! ever since. I don't get it myself!
I knew and was attracted right away and we've been married for 21 years (almost 22). I'm still attracted.
Yes. I knew instantly. I met my husband when i was 14. We've been together since then. I'm 23 now. It was love at first sight even though that sounds really corny.
fist time that attracted me and now married 11 years
No, but my wife did -- the bunnyboiler.
Yes :o(
My heart told me yes but unfortunately it was lying.
i couldnt stand him but there was something about him that intrigued me...now i can say im no longer smitten..just marking time...lol...he's okay tho
Nope. I had to be told a couple months after we met that we were genuinely in love. I was 19 at the time, so I had to be told quite a bit. 20 years later, turns out I was told correctly!Married persons: Did you know immediately that your spouse was the one?
Absolutely! We clicked right away. We didn't kiss on our first date, but I sure wanted to. We found out a lot about each other on our first date. I processed the information and knew that all signals on my end were ';go';. I was only hoping he was as interested. As it turns out, we were both very attracted to one another and eager for another date.
We met through a free on-line dating website. I saw two paragraphs he'd written and my first thought was, ';This is the one!'; I had a few other posts that I was interested enough to respond to, but none that I had that reaction to. Right after I said that about him, I realized how foolish it was to think that after just seeing a paragraph so I decided to wait until I got to know him and met him. The first time I met him in person, I actually thought he didn't look like my type at all and I was sure I would never have a romantic relationship with him. We became friends for three years, and then my feelings for him started changing. Now, it's been over twelve years since I first met him, and we are married, and I have no regrets at all.
i was attracted to her right away but i wasn't sure she was the one. 14 years later, still not sure... but the weirdest thing is that during those 14 years I never once met anyone that I thought maybe i should be with instead. well, except for this one chinese girl who went by the name of ';linda'; and lived in shanghai. but that's a story for another day.
Yes, I was physically attracted to him on sight. Then we started talking and I loved his humor! We started dating and he keep telling me, ';I like you way too much';. After hearing this for a couple weeks I asked him what that meant. He turned off to the side of the road, turned off the car, looked at me, lifted up my chin and told me he loved me. Might seem cheesy to some but it was heartmelting to me!
14 yrs later....still happily in love!
I looked at him across the table from me and thought ';I could look at this man across the table from me every day';. I was very attracted to him and I think he was to me as well. The longer I know him, the more handsome and attractive he is to me. He's hot!!
I knew there was an instant attraction but I didn't know if he was the one I was going to marry. That was a few months later. We got to know each other and fit together well. We both knew within a few months but waited 5 years to get married when we were 26. Married 12 years now.
I first met my wife in high school, and I had feelings for her then although we never dated.
then a couple of years later we had a chance meeting and the chemistry was instant, and then we both knew and married 3 months later. We are now going on 8 years.
No. I had liked him as a person and at the time we had many things in common. That was years ago before we got married.
After years of living together, he decided he wanted us to get married or split up. Since I didn't have a place to go, I got married.
I was attracted to him immediately! He was VERY good looking. He made me feel very sexy right from the start. I KNEW there was something there, but I wasnt sure if HE knew. Turns out that he liked me right away, an now we are married :)
Well we met for sex. So there was lust right away, but I also don't have sex with someone whom I do not find attractive. So yea, I was attracted to him when we met and I still find him attractive 11yrs later.
when he walked through the door i told all my girl-friends to back off he was mine, been together ever since that nite, that was 17 yrs ago and we have been married almost 16 yrs and I STILL LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL
Immediately. Our first date was 6 hours- within the first hour we were both smitten and haven't been apart since. Our love only continues to grow.
No, but within going out two or three times I did. I was attracted initially to her. I didn't know she was the one until I saw her in a few situations.
Not married but did have that instant ';know'; with a guy once. I know that he was my ';one'; but it didn't work out. Timing is everything.
Right up until our separation 7 years later.
I kind of knew right away, at the time. and 14 years later she is still the one.
It took that pregnancy test turning blue to make him attractive enough to marry. That was almost 23 years ago and it has been he!! ever since. I don't get it myself!
I knew and was attracted right away and we've been married for 21 years (almost 22). I'm still attracted.
Yes. I knew instantly. I met my husband when i was 14. We've been together since then. I'm 23 now. It was love at first sight even though that sounds really corny.
fist time that attracted me and now married 11 years
No, but my wife did -- the bunnyboiler.
Yes :o(
My heart told me yes but unfortunately it was lying.
i couldnt stand him but there was something about him that intrigued me...now i can say im no longer smitten..just marking time...lol...he's okay tho
How to deal with a supersensitive spouse who always think you are always try to get him?
Ask him just what his problem is! Ask him WHY he's thinking the way he's thinking about you, %26amp; what gives him the idea even. Ask HIM IF he's the one who's always trying to get over on you, %26amp; that that's where he gets his stupid idea in the first place! He's got to have a reason to be thinking these things...Ask him why...Good luck...:)How to deal with a supersensitive spouse who always think you are always try to get him?
I use pharmaceuticals but then I use pharmaceuticals for just about everything.
You might try slipping some xanax into his beers and getting him to loosen up a little bit.
Me, I would divorce the freak and give him a good reason to think that I'm ';out to get him'; but then again that's just the kind of wonderful wife that I am.How to deal with a supersensitive spouse who always think you are always try to get him?
OMG sensitive people SUCK!! I cannot deal with them. Period!!
They think everything is about them and the whole world is against them.
You cant tell them something for their own benefit...they get angry and put out the ';how dare you'; attitude.
No, I could not deal with a sensitive spouse. UGH, hell NO.
Try being more sensitive to her needs then maybe she will relax and not take everything so serious.
What does that mean? I have found that if I'm with a partner that gives me reason to be concerned and I'm having trust issues, I'm super sensitive.
You divorce him. And live happily ever after.
wow, you need to make him see a psychiatrist
I use pharmaceuticals but then I use pharmaceuticals for just about everything.
You might try slipping some xanax into his beers and getting him to loosen up a little bit.
Me, I would divorce the freak and give him a good reason to think that I'm ';out to get him'; but then again that's just the kind of wonderful wife that I am.How to deal with a supersensitive spouse who always think you are always try to get him?
OMG sensitive people SUCK!! I cannot deal with them. Period!!
They think everything is about them and the whole world is against them.
You cant tell them something for their own benefit...they get angry and put out the ';how dare you'; attitude.
No, I could not deal with a sensitive spouse. UGH, hell NO.
Try being more sensitive to her needs then maybe she will relax and not take everything so serious.
What does that mean? I have found that if I'm with a partner that gives me reason to be concerned and I'm having trust issues, I'm super sensitive.
You divorce him. And live happily ever after.
wow, you need to make him see a psychiatrist
Can a realtor investor use their spouse with on realtor license as end buyer to negotiate a short sale ?
the difference/rules between a realtor investor negotiating with bank and then using the spouse as end buyer. Can a realtor investor use their spouse with on realtor license as end buyer to negotiate a short sale ?
Sounds close to mortgage fraud to me. Better get a lawyer to advise you first.Can a realtor investor use their spouse with on realtor license as end buyer to negotiate a short sale ?
absolutely. the licensee must disclose their relationship to the end buyer but there is nothing that would keep the investor from buying a short sale using their spouse to help negotiate. now if the realtor is the current owner then you're into ';equity stripping'; which is illegal. a better option in that scenario is simply to work our a loan modification agreement with the bank (and the spouse can help talk to the bank).
A licensed person is required by law to disclose their relationship in a transaction. Period!
It is not at arms length and must be disclosed
Sounds close to mortgage fraud to me. Better get a lawyer to advise you first.Can a realtor investor use their spouse with on realtor license as end buyer to negotiate a short sale ?
absolutely. the licensee must disclose their relationship to the end buyer but there is nothing that would keep the investor from buying a short sale using their spouse to help negotiate. now if the realtor is the current owner then you're into ';equity stripping'; which is illegal. a better option in that scenario is simply to work our a loan modification agreement with the bank (and the spouse can help talk to the bank).
A licensed person is required by law to disclose their relationship in a transaction. Period!
It is not at arms length and must be disclosed
Can the judge just throw my uncontested divorce case out just because my spouse won't sign?
and we have a child together, He has moved out of the house and took all of his property, but he will not agree to sign divorce papers (for selfish reasons) The clerk told me that the parenting class in not required for our county. All the paper work is in order, and he was served his papers by a sheriff deputy. What do you think the judge will do. I pray that someone in Georgia that has been in a simular situation can aswer this question.Can the judge just throw my uncontested divorce case out just because my spouse won't sign?
I'm not sure about GA, but in AL once the papers are served your husband would have 30 days to respond. If he doesn't respond you can ask the judge to make a ruling (which they will almost always do) in your husbands absence. The only time they wouldn't do this is if your husband is in a coma or over seas or in the military or some other really extenuating circumstance justifies his lack of response. Usually the judge will then simply grant you whatever you petitioned for.Can the judge just throw my uncontested divorce case out just because my spouse won't sign?
By definition, uncontested means that both parties are in agreement. If you can't get one of the parties to sign, that would make it obvious they're not in agreement, hence it is no longer uncontested. You can still get a divorce, even without the other spouse's cooperation, but it will take longer. You really should talk to a lawyer.
he doesn't have to sign for you to get it, if he got served and he ignores it he would be the one losing everything, automtically you get divorce and even custody, that happened to my husband she didn't even bother showing up and she even lost her kids custody not visitation right no nothing and she has to pay child support.
he will be given a certain number of days to respond if he fails to they will set a court date for you. you will get your divorce they usually don't throw out cases just because a spouse won't sign.facial moisturizer moisturiser cream
I'm not sure about GA, but in AL once the papers are served your husband would have 30 days to respond. If he doesn't respond you can ask the judge to make a ruling (which they will almost always do) in your husbands absence. The only time they wouldn't do this is if your husband is in a coma or over seas or in the military or some other really extenuating circumstance justifies his lack of response. Usually the judge will then simply grant you whatever you petitioned for.Can the judge just throw my uncontested divorce case out just because my spouse won't sign?
By definition, uncontested means that both parties are in agreement. If you can't get one of the parties to sign, that would make it obvious they're not in agreement, hence it is no longer uncontested. You can still get a divorce, even without the other spouse's cooperation, but it will take longer. You really should talk to a lawyer.
he doesn't have to sign for you to get it, if he got served and he ignores it he would be the one losing everything, automtically you get divorce and even custody, that happened to my husband she didn't even bother showing up and she even lost her kids custody not visitation right no nothing and she has to pay child support.
he will be given a certain number of days to respond if he fails to they will set a court date for you. you will get your divorce they usually don't throw out cases just because a spouse won't sign.
How has your relationship with your spouse changed since having a child together?
well he was not my spouse bt my bf and he left way before the baby was born :(How has your relationship with your spouse changed since having a child together?
Not so much has it changed but some things that went unnoticed were really noticed after our first daughter was born.
When we first got together it was us all the time and then abouta year into it his family came first,which I never complained about because we didnt have a daughter to take care of at the time...then it was him with his friends all the time...again not that big of a deal.Until our first daughter was born...then it all hit me like a ton of bricks that unless stuff changed a bit this wasn't going to work because I was a single parent with the father of my child living with me...and at times it seemed like I was taking care of a grown man like my own child. We did split up once but got back together a month later.We now have 2 daughters and another daughter due on Sept. 29th and things couldn't be better...he is now a family man and has been for some time and we always come before everyone else now...I think every relationship gets a little rough in the beginning after bringing a new baby into the world and realizing that its about the baby now and no longer about you and your needs first. But as the months go by it gets a lot better...its just some people don't stay together to find it out...and some just weren't meant to be like they thought they were.How has your relationship with your spouse changed since having a child together?
Well, as my baby is only 1 week old, and today is my husbands first day back at work- I have been sitting here alone thinking about this.
Its great, cos he is a great Dad and Hubby, but I worry a lot about us losing the playful, flirty, joyous side to our relationship that we would have done with the time that is now spent taking constant care of the bubby. I talked to him about it and said a few times I want to make sure we make the effort to still cuddle on the lounge for a little while each evening and cuddle and kiss at least once or twice a day. I think these things require effort when you are so busy. I really worry about our lovely bond fizzling out. And also he loves our bubby so much (as do I) that I worry he won't have enough love left over to give me what he used to... I cried a bit about it the other day. I hope I am wrong and we'll be fine. I love him so much so I tell him how much I appreciate him and what a great guy he is. I show him I love him all the time- I hope thats enough. I'm sure we'll be OK, I know he loves me a lot and maybe some of his affection will re-focus back to me once he is more used to the baby.
it has changed HORRIBLY!! and i don't know why! it sucks so bad! ever since we brought our son home 5 months ago we haven't had a day with out arguing. and it gets worse everyday! we actually are talking divorce and we've only been married a year! i don't know why we are like this now! we NEVER argued before and while i was pregnant and we were together for 3 years before we got married and best friends for 5. its like we just all of a sudden fell out of love, its so weird...
my husband deployed in december, our son was born in may, he came home for 18 day r%26amp;r in june, and he's not due home till march, but in those 18 days he was home and in the way he talks about our son, i notice a HUGE change just in him. for the better! he's an amazing father and seeing him with our son just made me fall in love with him all over again. we get along better, we talk things through better, we argue less, and he always appreciated me before but he appreciates the crap out of me even more now.
ahhh this makes me all giddy for the day he comes home :D
The focus has gone off just us two to our baby. Less time for hugs and kisses for each other, especially compared to how much attention I got from him while pregnant!!
For both of us the baby is now our first priority. We have to make sure her needs are met before we look after ourselves.
But everytime we look and play with her my husband says that he cant believe we made such a beautiful baby.
It has brought us closer in that we now have someone that is part of both of us.
We try to make time for each other though. Luckily we stay with the in-laws which is great. No cooking or cleaning for me to do!! And we go out a few times a week without baby. Sometimes just for a short drive or we've even managed to go to the movies :)
It helps that we have great support.
Relationship sexually...with a 7 week baby I would rather sleep!!
He's no longer the most important thing in my life, my baby girl is my TOP priority now. Also, the whole sex thing has gone VERY downhill, although it has only been 5 weeks since I gave birth, after seeing what he saw and doing what I did, I don't think either of us will be 'in the mood' for a VERY loooong time hehe
We have more things to discuss and have become better at handling our problems. We live apart due to our jobs but I am very diligent in keeping him updated on our son's development and sending pictures daily. Our love is stronger and he finds more ways to please me.
There's a better partnership and friendship now. :)
Yes for the better, we are much closer now.
Not so much has it changed but some things that went unnoticed were really noticed after our first daughter was born.
When we first got together it was us all the time and then abouta year into it his family came first,which I never complained about because we didnt have a daughter to take care of at the time...then it was him with his friends all the time...again not that big of a deal.Until our first daughter was born...then it all hit me like a ton of bricks that unless stuff changed a bit this wasn't going to work because I was a single parent with the father of my child living with me...and at times it seemed like I was taking care of a grown man like my own child. We did split up once but got back together a month later.We now have 2 daughters and another daughter due on Sept. 29th and things couldn't be better...he is now a family man and has been for some time and we always come before everyone else now...I think every relationship gets a little rough in the beginning after bringing a new baby into the world and realizing that its about the baby now and no longer about you and your needs first. But as the months go by it gets a lot better...its just some people don't stay together to find it out...and some just weren't meant to be like they thought they were.How has your relationship with your spouse changed since having a child together?
Well, as my baby is only 1 week old, and today is my husbands first day back at work- I have been sitting here alone thinking about this.
Its great, cos he is a great Dad and Hubby, but I worry a lot about us losing the playful, flirty, joyous side to our relationship that we would have done with the time that is now spent taking constant care of the bubby. I talked to him about it and said a few times I want to make sure we make the effort to still cuddle on the lounge for a little while each evening and cuddle and kiss at least once or twice a day. I think these things require effort when you are so busy. I really worry about our lovely bond fizzling out. And also he loves our bubby so much (as do I) that I worry he won't have enough love left over to give me what he used to... I cried a bit about it the other day. I hope I am wrong and we'll be fine. I love him so much so I tell him how much I appreciate him and what a great guy he is. I show him I love him all the time- I hope thats enough. I'm sure we'll be OK, I know he loves me a lot and maybe some of his affection will re-focus back to me once he is more used to the baby.
it has changed HORRIBLY!! and i don't know why! it sucks so bad! ever since we brought our son home 5 months ago we haven't had a day with out arguing. and it gets worse everyday! we actually are talking divorce and we've only been married a year! i don't know why we are like this now! we NEVER argued before and while i was pregnant and we were together for 3 years before we got married and best friends for 5. its like we just all of a sudden fell out of love, its so weird...
my husband deployed in december, our son was born in may, he came home for 18 day r%26amp;r in june, and he's not due home till march, but in those 18 days he was home and in the way he talks about our son, i notice a HUGE change just in him. for the better! he's an amazing father and seeing him with our son just made me fall in love with him all over again. we get along better, we talk things through better, we argue less, and he always appreciated me before but he appreciates the crap out of me even more now.
ahhh this makes me all giddy for the day he comes home :D
The focus has gone off just us two to our baby. Less time for hugs and kisses for each other, especially compared to how much attention I got from him while pregnant!!
For both of us the baby is now our first priority. We have to make sure her needs are met before we look after ourselves.
But everytime we look and play with her my husband says that he cant believe we made such a beautiful baby.
It has brought us closer in that we now have someone that is part of both of us.
We try to make time for each other though. Luckily we stay with the in-laws which is great. No cooking or cleaning for me to do!! And we go out a few times a week without baby. Sometimes just for a short drive or we've even managed to go to the movies :)
It helps that we have great support.
Relationship sexually...with a 7 week baby I would rather sleep!!
He's no longer the most important thing in my life, my baby girl is my TOP priority now. Also, the whole sex thing has gone VERY downhill, although it has only been 5 weeks since I gave birth, after seeing what he saw and doing what I did, I don't think either of us will be 'in the mood' for a VERY loooong time hehe
We have more things to discuss and have become better at handling our problems. We live apart due to our jobs but I am very diligent in keeping him updated on our son's development and sending pictures daily. Our love is stronger and he finds more ways to please me.
There's a better partnership and friendship now. :)
Yes for the better, we are much closer now.
How can I tell if my spouse has Spy ware on my PC?
We are divorcing If I can get away alive. I think he has NPD personality disorder and controls everything! I recently quite giving him my pay stubs but he still knows what I made. I think he has bug on the PC but I dont know what to look for. anyone know?How can I tell if my spouse has Spy ware on my PC?
These are some choices:
1) AVG 8 AntiVirus. Easiest interface to use, very fast scanning and doesn't lag your computer at all. Only has a 76% detection rate, but catches the most harmful of viruses. If you're a normal home user, you're not in too much danger of higher level viruses and this is the AV for you:
http://www.filehippo.com/download_avg_an鈥?/a>
PS:for this one, use the download lastest version on the top right of the page
2) Avast! 4 AntiVirus. Smaller, sleeker skin, average scanning speed, but reports alot of safe files as viruses, so you might need to watch out for that. 78% detection rate, but alot more complicated than most other free AVs. Use this if you are handy with a computer and you know what needs to be scanned:
http://www.avast.com/eng/avast_4_home.ht鈥?/a>
3) Avira AntiVirus. Simple layout, which even the most basic of users can navigate. Incredibly fast scanning, with a 90% detection rate. Not as easy on the eyes as other AVs, and you need to know what you're doing to get the more advanced features, but it is definite a candidate:
http://www.free-av.com/en/download/index鈥?/a>
Personally I use AVG, but only because I go for the easier interface. If you are paranoid about viruses then the only real option is Avira. But if you just want normal protection, then any of the three will do it for you.
For any spyware problems, get SpyBot - Search and Destroy:
http://www.safer-networking.org/en/mirro鈥?/a>
And for protecting your computer for malware or tracking cookies, use Ad-Aware 2008 Free Edition:
http://lavasoft.com/products/ad_aware_fr鈥?/a>
All of them are free, as powerful as paid programs, like McAfee and Norton (which only has an 18% detection rate!), and don't use up as many resources.
Just boot into Safe Mode (Press F8 when turning on the computer) and run full scans
I personally use AVG, it has great detection and the menu is easy to navigate.Hope this helpsHow can I tell if my spouse has Spy ware on my PC?
Unless unusual things start happening on the PC such as certain files get corrupted or deleted and it goes slower then usual you can't really tell, best get Spybot Search and Destroy from http://www.safer-networking.org/index2.h鈥?/a> to scan the PC that should help target any spyware or viruses that the computer may have. Spybot is VERY useful when you want to protect your PC, it is the best Anti-Virus (that is free) software that I have used.
Download one of the following anti-spywares:
Spybot Search %26amp; Destroy
Lavsoft Ad-Aware
And scan your computer.
They are both free and pretty good. =)
Try Malwarebytes Anti-Malware.
Spybot
These are some choices:
1) AVG 8 AntiVirus. Easiest interface to use, very fast scanning and doesn't lag your computer at all. Only has a 76% detection rate, but catches the most harmful of viruses. If you're a normal home user, you're not in too much danger of higher level viruses and this is the AV for you:
http://www.filehippo.com/download_avg_an鈥?/a>
PS:for this one, use the download lastest version on the top right of the page
2) Avast! 4 AntiVirus. Smaller, sleeker skin, average scanning speed, but reports alot of safe files as viruses, so you might need to watch out for that. 78% detection rate, but alot more complicated than most other free AVs. Use this if you are handy with a computer and you know what needs to be scanned:
http://www.avast.com/eng/avast_4_home.ht鈥?/a>
3) Avira AntiVirus. Simple layout, which even the most basic of users can navigate. Incredibly fast scanning, with a 90% detection rate. Not as easy on the eyes as other AVs, and you need to know what you're doing to get the more advanced features, but it is definite a candidate:
http://www.free-av.com/en/download/index鈥?/a>
Personally I use AVG, but only because I go for the easier interface. If you are paranoid about viruses then the only real option is Avira. But if you just want normal protection, then any of the three will do it for you.
For any spyware problems, get SpyBot - Search and Destroy:
http://www.safer-networking.org/en/mirro鈥?/a>
And for protecting your computer for malware or tracking cookies, use Ad-Aware 2008 Free Edition:
http://lavasoft.com/products/ad_aware_fr鈥?/a>
All of them are free, as powerful as paid programs, like McAfee and Norton (which only has an 18% detection rate!), and don't use up as many resources.
Just boot into Safe Mode (Press F8 when turning on the computer) and run full scans
I personally use AVG, it has great detection and the menu is easy to navigate.Hope this helpsHow can I tell if my spouse has Spy ware on my PC?
Unless unusual things start happening on the PC such as certain files get corrupted or deleted and it goes slower then usual you can't really tell, best get Spybot Search and Destroy from http://www.safer-networking.org/index2.h鈥?/a> to scan the PC that should help target any spyware or viruses that the computer may have. Spybot is VERY useful when you want to protect your PC, it is the best Anti-Virus (that is free) software that I have used.
Download one of the following anti-spywares:
Spybot Search %26amp; Destroy
Lavsoft Ad-Aware
And scan your computer.
They are both free and pretty good. =)
Try Malwarebytes Anti-Malware.
Spybot
What's it mean if your spouse feels his/her own body during lovemaking as opposed to yours?
Just speculating!What's it mean if your spouse feels his/her own body during lovemaking as opposed to yours?
are you kidding me? I'm all over myself!!!
what? I'm hot leave me alone!!!What's it mean if your spouse feels his/her own body during lovemaking as opposed to yours?
I guess one could say that such an individual is practicing self-love, something that I understand Donald Trump practices regularly himself in one form or another.
I am not sure there is one specific meaning behind such behavior. However, I would guess they are tying to turn you on and it turns them on as well.
I feel on my own boobs alot during sexytime, but its no secret that I think they are awesome.
What does it mean by feel his or her own body? It's up to the man or woman doing the lovemaking.
He is stimulating himself.
Narcissism.
she loves her body more than yours,, some people love that when the other one touches them selves,,
i dunno...she feels better than you!
Maybe your not doing what your supposed to be doing.
it simply means that their skin is much softer than yours !
lol thats kinky they must love their body a lot lmao!
There is more fat to grab ..I would think
I do that-and it turns him on more.
I don't know, maybe they're trying to turn you on. Or they're in love with themselves?
Pay attention and learn, do what he / she's teaching
are you kidding me? I'm all over myself!!!
what? I'm hot leave me alone!!!What's it mean if your spouse feels his/her own body during lovemaking as opposed to yours?
I guess one could say that such an individual is practicing self-love, something that I understand Donald Trump practices regularly himself in one form or another.
I am not sure there is one specific meaning behind such behavior. However, I would guess they are tying to turn you on and it turns them on as well.
I feel on my own boobs alot during sexytime, but its no secret that I think they are awesome.
What does it mean by feel his or her own body? It's up to the man or woman doing the lovemaking.
He is stimulating himself.
Narcissism.
she loves her body more than yours,, some people love that when the other one touches them selves,,
i dunno...she feels better than you!
Maybe your not doing what your supposed to be doing.
it simply means that their skin is much softer than yours !
lol thats kinky they must love their body a lot lmao!
There is more fat to grab ..I would think
I do that-and it turns him on more.
I don't know, maybe they're trying to turn you on. Or they're in love with themselves?
Pay attention and learn, do what he / she's teaching
How do I know if my spouse's IPhone is a 3G model? I need to know this for sure!?
Can you tell me how I would be able to identify this by describing a difference in its appearance?How do I know if my spouse's IPhone is a 3G model? I need to know this for sure!?
The older iphones are flat on the bottom. The 3g's are curved. Lay the phone on a table. If you can rock it, then it's a 3G
Also, look at the top of the phone. If there's a regular looking headphone jack, it's a 3G. The older phones only worked with headphones made for the iphone (with a different shaped port)
You can find more info here:
http://reviews.cnet.com/smartphones/appl鈥?/a>How do I know if my spouse's IPhone is a 3G model? I need to know this for sure!?
The back of the 2G phone was chrome -- the new ones are not.
The older iphones are flat on the bottom. The 3g's are curved. Lay the phone on a table. If you can rock it, then it's a 3G
Also, look at the top of the phone. If there's a regular looking headphone jack, it's a 3G. The older phones only worked with headphones made for the iphone (with a different shaped port)
You can find more info here:
http://reviews.cnet.com/smartphones/appl鈥?/a>How do I know if my spouse's IPhone is a 3G model? I need to know this for sure!?
The back of the 2G phone was chrome -- the new ones are not.
Do you believe others (fortune tellers) when they tell you that you & your spouse are not meant to be?
Do you believe others (fortune tellers) when they tell you that you %26amp; your spouse are not meant to be?Do you believe others (fortune tellers) when they tell you that you %26amp; your spouse are not meant to be?
No ethical fortune teller will tell you something flat out bad news like that. Not without showing you how to guide your choices from that point. If there IS a danger that shows up, it's phrased carefully. Not the bomb that apparently you were dropped.
No, in that case I would not beleive what the other person had said. It was either a person with very little training under their belt or someone who's outright lying.Do you believe others (fortune tellers) when they tell you that you %26amp; your spouse are not meant to be?
Well, I have never been told such a thing myself, but, if I were I don't think I'd pay attention. I practice a type of magic that, in its most traditional form, believes all things are predestined and that any act of magic or prayer exists to alter that; so in fact, if you are to practice any kind of magic, you care nothing for what is ';meant'; to be.
As for if I would BELIEVE the fortune teller, that would depend on a few things too. If it weren't someone I knew well, and if he or she immediately followed the statement with ';but I can perform a spell that will change that, for $$$$'; then I would reject it right out; it's probably just a scam.
If someone I considered a good fortune teller like my standby (link below) said it, then I might believe it but as said before, I'd not consider it a thing to worry about.
Some people fall in love, but don't actually find their soul mate so marry someone below that without realising. IT could be possible that it's true that they're not ';meant to be'; in the sense that the soulmate was not found
if you're really asking this on yahoo answers then no, you arent meant to be.
No ethical fortune teller will tell you something flat out bad news like that. Not without showing you how to guide your choices from that point. If there IS a danger that shows up, it's phrased carefully. Not the bomb that apparently you were dropped.
No, in that case I would not beleive what the other person had said. It was either a person with very little training under their belt or someone who's outright lying.Do you believe others (fortune tellers) when they tell you that you %26amp; your spouse are not meant to be?
Well, I have never been told such a thing myself, but, if I were I don't think I'd pay attention. I practice a type of magic that, in its most traditional form, believes all things are predestined and that any act of magic or prayer exists to alter that; so in fact, if you are to practice any kind of magic, you care nothing for what is ';meant'; to be.
As for if I would BELIEVE the fortune teller, that would depend on a few things too. If it weren't someone I knew well, and if he or she immediately followed the statement with ';but I can perform a spell that will change that, for $$$$'; then I would reject it right out; it's probably just a scam.
If someone I considered a good fortune teller like my standby (link below) said it, then I might believe it but as said before, I'd not consider it a thing to worry about.
Some people fall in love, but don't actually find their soul mate so marry someone below that without realising. IT could be possible that it's true that they're not ';meant to be'; in the sense that the soulmate was not found
if you're really asking this on yahoo answers then no, you arent meant to be.
What's the sweetest thing your spouse has ever said to you?
?What's the sweetest thing your spouse has ever said to you?
She wasn't my wife at the time but she said if I could dream it up she would do it sexually.Any time,any place any way. I ask her to marry me about 2 minutes later! We were married over 20 years.What's the sweetest thing your spouse has ever said to you?
My husband told me not long ago that if it wasn't for me then he doesn't know where he would be. He had grown up without a mother and dad. His dad died before he was a year old and his mom never wanted him. Other people raised her children because she was too busy with her own life. He had told me that his mom had been a w**** and a tramp.
There are countless sweet things my husband has said to me. A recent message he sent me was:
i love you my love and i am really excited for us to extend our little family. jay is going to make a great big brother you and jay are everything to me i love you more each day i don't know what i would do without you and i never want to find out xoxo kisses
:)
Ive had lots of sweet things said and words are just words if he doesnt show he means it..
Eh, mine's not the romantic type either. He even asked me to marry him over the phone. Wish I had some cute story. LOL
that for the first time in his life he feels like he has a family and doesnt feel alone in this big world anymore.. (he doesnt know any of his family except for mom). It melted my heart :)
I'm HIV negative!
Do you want cheesecake or carrot cake? lol He's not romantic.
ROFL...when he said: ';here, let me do that...';facial moisturizer moisturiser cream
She wasn't my wife at the time but she said if I could dream it up she would do it sexually.Any time,any place any way. I ask her to marry me about 2 minutes later! We were married over 20 years.What's the sweetest thing your spouse has ever said to you?
My husband told me not long ago that if it wasn't for me then he doesn't know where he would be. He had grown up without a mother and dad. His dad died before he was a year old and his mom never wanted him. Other people raised her children because she was too busy with her own life. He had told me that his mom had been a w**** and a tramp.
There are countless sweet things my husband has said to me. A recent message he sent me was:
i love you my love and i am really excited for us to extend our little family. jay is going to make a great big brother you and jay are everything to me i love you more each day i don't know what i would do without you and i never want to find out xoxo kisses
:)
Ive had lots of sweet things said and words are just words if he doesnt show he means it..
Eh, mine's not the romantic type either. He even asked me to marry him over the phone. Wish I had some cute story. LOL
that for the first time in his life he feels like he has a family and doesnt feel alone in this big world anymore.. (he doesnt know any of his family except for mom). It melted my heart :)
I'm HIV negative!
Do you want cheesecake or carrot cake? lol He's not romantic.
ROFL...when he said: ';here, let me do that...';
Best spyphone product to catch cheating spouse?
Hi, can anyone tell me which spyphone product is the best? I've been doing some research and its too tough to decide which one to buy, especially for a non techie like me.. I suspect my spouse is cheating, but want to find out first. Any help or info would be greatly appreciated.Best spyphone product to catch cheating spouse?
To answer your question, you really need to know the following:
1) can you get access to the target phone?
2) what type of operating system does the phone have? Symbian (many of the new Nokias, Windows Mobile (looks like Windows XP, but on a mobile, Blackberry, or other)
3) Budget? More than $100?
If you can answer ';yes'; to the first question, and then if the target phone is either a Symbian, Windows Mobile, or BlackBerry phone, and your budget is more than $100, I would recommend Flexispy Software. They are the leading company in the spy phone space, and their software allows you to do things such as 1) log incoming/outgoing sms, log incoming/outgoing calls, track location, live call intercept, and read incoming/outgoing emails. I've done a lot of research into all the spy phone products, and nothing comes close. Best spyphone product to catch cheating spouse?
They have all kinds of products at the Spy Supply. But I will warn you, it can be more than you are ready for. I was talking to the shop owner in Dallas, and he said once a woman bought a bug to try to catch her husband, and not only caught him cheating with two girls, but that her son was a drug dealer, and her daughter was an escort girl. It was too much for this poor lady. It made her life a real hell just to find out if she had a cheater.
Some would say they would want to know all the same, but at the same time, it can be very disappointing, and ruin your whole reason for going to work and doing all you do.
Many cities have a ';spy shop'; anymore that seel this stuff, and what you're doing is so common that they'll have several products to suggest. You don't have to have anything complicated - very likely all you're looking for is a basic unit that activates whenever the phone is off-hook. Maybe you care about date/time of the calls, maybe not.
Be prepared for a lot of heartache. I started spying on wife, when I found out she was spending a lot of time with an old ex-boyfriend. The problem is that you will only hear or read parts of a story, and have to fill in the blanks for yourself. Our imagination is usually worse than reality. It was the worst time of my life. Your energy might be better spent trying to figure out what is wrong with your marriage that would cause him to cheat, and try to fix that if you still love him.
Hire a private investigator. That's one of the most thorough ways. The best thing is P.I.'s are really easy to get a hold of. =) That way you don't have to worry about snooping. Someone else will do it for you.
If you suspect something is up, you are most likely correct. You have two options: Have an open relationship with your husband so you both can date outside of the marriage, or leave him.
not sure but if you don't trust your hubby 100% right now then i have to ask why? what did he do behavoiral changes or something?
If you suspect your spouse of cheating on you, you'll want to read this
I agree with brother Otter.
ask him
I don't know but if you find one, let me know : )
ok, so you want us to help you ruin your life? You should google, : ';how to be a good wife';.. that should help out your problem . : D
To answer your question, you really need to know the following:
1) can you get access to the target phone?
2) what type of operating system does the phone have? Symbian (many of the new Nokias, Windows Mobile (looks like Windows XP, but on a mobile, Blackberry, or other)
3) Budget? More than $100?
If you can answer ';yes'; to the first question, and then if the target phone is either a Symbian, Windows Mobile, or BlackBerry phone, and your budget is more than $100, I would recommend Flexispy Software. They are the leading company in the spy phone space, and their software allows you to do things such as 1) log incoming/outgoing sms, log incoming/outgoing calls, track location, live call intercept, and read incoming/outgoing emails. I've done a lot of research into all the spy phone products, and nothing comes close. Best spyphone product to catch cheating spouse?
They have all kinds of products at the Spy Supply. But I will warn you, it can be more than you are ready for. I was talking to the shop owner in Dallas, and he said once a woman bought a bug to try to catch her husband, and not only caught him cheating with two girls, but that her son was a drug dealer, and her daughter was an escort girl. It was too much for this poor lady. It made her life a real hell just to find out if she had a cheater.
Some would say they would want to know all the same, but at the same time, it can be very disappointing, and ruin your whole reason for going to work and doing all you do.
Many cities have a ';spy shop'; anymore that seel this stuff, and what you're doing is so common that they'll have several products to suggest. You don't have to have anything complicated - very likely all you're looking for is a basic unit that activates whenever the phone is off-hook. Maybe you care about date/time of the calls, maybe not.
Be prepared for a lot of heartache. I started spying on wife, when I found out she was spending a lot of time with an old ex-boyfriend. The problem is that you will only hear or read parts of a story, and have to fill in the blanks for yourself. Our imagination is usually worse than reality. It was the worst time of my life. Your energy might be better spent trying to figure out what is wrong with your marriage that would cause him to cheat, and try to fix that if you still love him.
Hire a private investigator. That's one of the most thorough ways. The best thing is P.I.'s are really easy to get a hold of. =) That way you don't have to worry about snooping. Someone else will do it for you.
If you suspect something is up, you are most likely correct. You have two options: Have an open relationship with your husband so you both can date outside of the marriage, or leave him.
not sure but if you don't trust your hubby 100% right now then i have to ask why? what did he do behavoiral changes or something?
If you suspect your spouse of cheating on you, you'll want to read this
I agree with brother Otter.
ask him
I don't know but if you find one, let me know : )
ok, so you want us to help you ruin your life? You should google, : ';how to be a good wife';.. that should help out your problem . : D
What can you do to an ex-spouse that has falsley claimed dependant children despite court order?
Take the divorce decree with you to the tax office and file for the kids. Do it NOW before he gets the refund. With the both of you filing for the kids, there will be an investigation. have the tax person file the decree WITH your taxes to make the process quicker.What can you do to an ex-spouse that has falsley claimed dependant children despite court order?
Personally you can do nothing. It is up to the laws of the land to catch up to him. You can report it to the IRS, but try not to sound like a vindictive ex wife while doing it. They may need copies of the court order for their file so be prepared to supply them with a notarized copy.What can you do to an ex-spouse that has falsley claimed dependant children despite court order?
You do what I did.
My ex one year told me he was going to claim the two kids and wanted their ss #...I told him no.....the deduction was mine and since he payed so little in child support I needed that return to either use on them or throw into the home we owned jointly..besides since there was nothing in the separation order on that, and I was supplying the bulk of their support, the deduction was mine. I even called the IRS and an agent told me if I was supplying over 50% of their support ( more like 80%) the deduction was mine. I relayed that to the ex with the name of the agent %26amp; the phone no. so he could confirm it for himself.
He ignored me, checked his old paperwork %26amp; found their ss numbers, and claimed the deduction, so did I....both of us got our returns with the deduction.
Then, the fun started.
We both got letters a few weeks later telling us only one could have the deduction....so I called the IRS again...they told me they would look into it and if need be, do an audit....they did ask who had physical custody of the children and what his support payments were per week....then said they would get back to me via letter if an audit was necessary.
I wasn't audited...he was. He ended up having to return a few thousand dollars.
Oh well.....
Contact the IRS. Let them know that you have reason to believe your ex husband claimed your children, despite it stating in the divorce agreement that you are the one to claim them. Find out from them what you should do when you file. They will take it from there ;)
Good luck.
are we talking tax's?
if so, you claim them anyways if you are in your legal right. You wait until after he files and then you call the tax people and make a report that he is defrauding the IRS.
Claim them too and provide a copy of your divorce decree as documentation!
Go ahead an claim them and then when there is an audit he will be in trouble.
report them to the IRS
Personally you can do nothing. It is up to the laws of the land to catch up to him. You can report it to the IRS, but try not to sound like a vindictive ex wife while doing it. They may need copies of the court order for their file so be prepared to supply them with a notarized copy.What can you do to an ex-spouse that has falsley claimed dependant children despite court order?
You do what I did.
My ex one year told me he was going to claim the two kids and wanted their ss #...I told him no.....the deduction was mine and since he payed so little in child support I needed that return to either use on them or throw into the home we owned jointly..besides since there was nothing in the separation order on that, and I was supplying the bulk of their support, the deduction was mine. I even called the IRS and an agent told me if I was supplying over 50% of their support ( more like 80%) the deduction was mine. I relayed that to the ex with the name of the agent %26amp; the phone no. so he could confirm it for himself.
He ignored me, checked his old paperwork %26amp; found their ss numbers, and claimed the deduction, so did I....both of us got our returns with the deduction.
Then, the fun started.
We both got letters a few weeks later telling us only one could have the deduction....so I called the IRS again...they told me they would look into it and if need be, do an audit....they did ask who had physical custody of the children and what his support payments were per week....then said they would get back to me via letter if an audit was necessary.
I wasn't audited...he was. He ended up having to return a few thousand dollars.
Oh well.....
Contact the IRS. Let them know that you have reason to believe your ex husband claimed your children, despite it stating in the divorce agreement that you are the one to claim them. Find out from them what you should do when you file. They will take it from there ;)
Good luck.
are we talking tax's?
if so, you claim them anyways if you are in your legal right. You wait until after he files and then you call the tax people and make a report that he is defrauding the IRS.
Claim them too and provide a copy of your divorce decree as documentation!
Go ahead an claim them and then when there is an audit he will be in trouble.
report them to the IRS
How did you meet your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse?
I met my boyfriend through a prank call I made to him.How did you meet your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse?
I met my current boyfriend at school. I had seen him before once with his girlfriend; she was so skinny and cute and had huge pretty eyes. He was carrying her around after school and i could see his long curls bouncing around, and i stared at them for a while, which is kind of creepy, but they were just so cute to look at(him and his girlfriend i mean). Other than that, i never payed attention to him. Quite some time later, i didn't even remember about him, there was a firedrill right when my seventh period started. They took us outside, and i was with some friends that i really didn't know all that well, since i didn't have stable friends in that class. About twenty minutes afterwards, these two guys pop up next to us all like, ';What's up?! Hey guys!'; All the girls i was with were really shy, so i'm like, ';Oh heeey.'; And they're like, ';Hey I'm Erik, and i'm Mike.'; So i don't know what came to my head, and i'm all, ';I'm Celina, and this is..blah blah'; And i started making up all these random names for the girls i was with because i had no clue if they would be okay with me introducing them LMAO stupid. So after a while, i figured out they were like the two hyperest guys ever! They would get lost in their stories, and i'd just laugh. All the girls left after a while, except for one, cause they were freaked out lol. I swear, that is the first time i heard the word *** so many times in one sentence! They were those kind of guys! So little by little..more and more people came with us. At the end, there was like 5 and everyone around us seemed to be watching us haha. So the firedrill ended, and he was like, ';Will you be mine please?'; And i started laughing and was like ';Yes, i'm yours.'; And he was so happy and he asked for one last hug, and i just heard everyone go ';AWWWWW!'; For the next few weeks, him and his friends would stare at me like i was some celebrity or something HAHAH! He'd get super nervous around me, eventhough he's really not that type of person. I was not interested in him whatsoever, but he would always talk to me when he saw me and stuff, and i'd run away! lol. I kept hearing stuff about him, that he did a lot of weed and drank and was a manwhore. Everyday i'd see him in lunch playing with his yugio cards or giving people piggy back rides. He was the type of guy that's a geek..plays video games all day..loves anime..does weed..parties..gets along with everyone..is always happy..skates..and idk..he was just so different from anyone i'd ever met, but i still was not attracted to him. The guy i was talking to at the time said he was bad business and sh!t. He'd still drool over me till school ended, and the last day before he graduated as a junior(he hacked the school grades thing to pass and got a teacher to give him all the hundreds of hours that he owed) he even looked for me and told me how great he felt to of had the chance to meet me and stuff. Everyone kept telling me how different he was with me. It was just so weird how he fell for me in a matter of seconds. We eventually, somehow, no clue how it happened, became best friends. He always begged me to be with him, and i did date him once, but broke up with him. Now after so much sh!t and troubles that we've been through, we're together again(not even two months yet hehe) and i'm finally falling for him. He easily quit all his bad habits just to get me to be with him. He was my first boyfriend and he'd been with so many girls. He was my first kiss and everything, but he just made me feel so comfortable about it. It would just take forever to explain everything we went through. I''m sure you haven't read any of this, but i love telling the story. hehe(:How did you meet your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse?
Is funny how me and the love of my life met :] we both have an iPhone I downloaded this application is call adrenaline pool we got to play eachother on a game we started talking each day since the first time we talked we knew we were meant to b 2gether and it has we been together for 8 months I live on washington and him England I know sum ppl say long thing doesn't work but We prove ppl wrong
We met in College and dated for 4 months. We really liked each other but I ended up returning home to take care of my Grandfather and broke things off with him and moved back to the west coast. Four years ago. I just moved back a year ago and was goofing off on facebook and saw him under people you may know. I msged him, we met later that day and have been back together since. We laugh about it now but he says if I have to move back to the west coast he's going with this time lol.
LOL nice way to find love... honestly, mine was way traditional. I got to know him through my best friend and then WE became friends and then a couple (its been 2 years now.. broke up for a while in the middle though) :D
Blind Date. We have been marrie 34 yrs.
I met my current boyfriend at school. I had seen him before once with his girlfriend; she was so skinny and cute and had huge pretty eyes. He was carrying her around after school and i could see his long curls bouncing around, and i stared at them for a while, which is kind of creepy, but they were just so cute to look at(him and his girlfriend i mean). Other than that, i never payed attention to him. Quite some time later, i didn't even remember about him, there was a firedrill right when my seventh period started. They took us outside, and i was with some friends that i really didn't know all that well, since i didn't have stable friends in that class. About twenty minutes afterwards, these two guys pop up next to us all like, ';What's up?! Hey guys!'; All the girls i was with were really shy, so i'm like, ';Oh heeey.'; And they're like, ';Hey I'm Erik, and i'm Mike.'; So i don't know what came to my head, and i'm all, ';I'm Celina, and this is..blah blah'; And i started making up all these random names for the girls i was with because i had no clue if they would be okay with me introducing them LMAO stupid. So after a while, i figured out they were like the two hyperest guys ever! They would get lost in their stories, and i'd just laugh. All the girls left after a while, except for one, cause they were freaked out lol. I swear, that is the first time i heard the word *** so many times in one sentence! They were those kind of guys! So little by little..more and more people came with us. At the end, there was like 5 and everyone around us seemed to be watching us haha. So the firedrill ended, and he was like, ';Will you be mine please?'; And i started laughing and was like ';Yes, i'm yours.'; And he was so happy and he asked for one last hug, and i just heard everyone go ';AWWWWW!'; For the next few weeks, him and his friends would stare at me like i was some celebrity or something HAHAH! He'd get super nervous around me, eventhough he's really not that type of person. I was not interested in him whatsoever, but he would always talk to me when he saw me and stuff, and i'd run away! lol. I kept hearing stuff about him, that he did a lot of weed and drank and was a manwhore. Everyday i'd see him in lunch playing with his yugio cards or giving people piggy back rides. He was the type of guy that's a geek..plays video games all day..loves anime..does weed..parties..gets along with everyone..is always happy..skates..and idk..he was just so different from anyone i'd ever met, but i still was not attracted to him. The guy i was talking to at the time said he was bad business and sh!t. He'd still drool over me till school ended, and the last day before he graduated as a junior(he hacked the school grades thing to pass and got a teacher to give him all the hundreds of hours that he owed) he even looked for me and told me how great he felt to of had the chance to meet me and stuff. Everyone kept telling me how different he was with me. It was just so weird how he fell for me in a matter of seconds. We eventually, somehow, no clue how it happened, became best friends. He always begged me to be with him, and i did date him once, but broke up with him. Now after so much sh!t and troubles that we've been through, we're together again(not even two months yet hehe) and i'm finally falling for him. He easily quit all his bad habits just to get me to be with him. He was my first boyfriend and he'd been with so many girls. He was my first kiss and everything, but he just made me feel so comfortable about it. It would just take forever to explain everything we went through. I''m sure you haven't read any of this, but i love telling the story. hehe(:How did you meet your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse?
Is funny how me and the love of my life met :] we both have an iPhone I downloaded this application is call adrenaline pool we got to play eachother on a game we started talking each day since the first time we talked we knew we were meant to b 2gether and it has we been together for 8 months I live on washington and him England I know sum ppl say long thing doesn't work but We prove ppl wrong
We met in College and dated for 4 months. We really liked each other but I ended up returning home to take care of my Grandfather and broke things off with him and moved back to the west coast. Four years ago. I just moved back a year ago and was goofing off on facebook and saw him under people you may know. I msged him, we met later that day and have been back together since. We laugh about it now but he says if I have to move back to the west coast he's going with this time lol.
LOL nice way to find love... honestly, mine was way traditional. I got to know him through my best friend and then WE became friends and then a couple (its been 2 years now.. broke up for a while in the middle though) :D
Blind Date. We have been marrie 34 yrs.
Has anyone ever accidentally gassed around their spouse?
Of course everybody does. My dad used to do that purposely around my mother and she was disgusted.
How would you feel if your spouse accidentally gassed during your presence?Has anyone ever accidentally gassed around their spouse?
I don't accidentally or otherwise. My husband on the other hand has gotten really nasty since we got married. We went 5 1/2 years without him doing anything around me but as soon as the wedding was over he started. Sometimes I think he should have given me a gas mask instead of a ring! Yeah it's disgusting but I have to say that I can't help but laugh when I give him ';that'; look and he gets a sheepish grin on his face and says ';damn barking spiders!';Has anyone ever accidentally gassed around their spouse?
Take Beano before, and there'll Beano gas. :) Just teasing. My boyfriend gasses around me all the time. I have to remind myself that everyone has gas and that even I do it too. He doesn't judge me when I do, therefor, I shouldn't judge him. Sometimes if they're really ';ripe';, I'll playfully tell him ';I'm jealous, I wish mine could be that good.'; :)
I can understand when it happens by accident. When done on purpose by either person it's just gross, maybe if you were raised in a trailer park it might be funny to do it on purpose. People that do it on purpose are just showing their lack of manners, lack of good taste and plain ignorance.
It's a natural thing. What's the big deal? However if you have gas problems that smell terrible then the right things to do is not do it intentionally, leave the presence of your spouse to be considerate.
Yea, I've done it.
My hubby saw me give birth. Im pretty sure, ';gassing'; in front of him isn't going to bother him much.
Yes. He does it in front of me.
Who cares?
Haha most people do it on purpose. I have yet to do that, but hopefully if I do I can blame it on the tv or something. lol
accidently?? there is nothing funnier than a well timed fart, especially in the comfort of your own home and around your partner. it's the fart game, everyone can play!
I do it on purpose all the time! lol
Why would he care if he ';accidentally'; did it. He's a guy....puhlease....
Yea we have passed gas around each other lots of times.
No big deal.
We just laugh it off lol.
There is no accidental with my husband or I. When we have to fart, or burp we just do it. No hiding. No shame.
yes, but I try not to be distastefull about it.
I fart and belch, My husband rarely only. It's his choice.
i try not to. lol
How would you feel if your spouse accidentally gassed during your presence?Has anyone ever accidentally gassed around their spouse?
I don't accidentally or otherwise. My husband on the other hand has gotten really nasty since we got married. We went 5 1/2 years without him doing anything around me but as soon as the wedding was over he started. Sometimes I think he should have given me a gas mask instead of a ring! Yeah it's disgusting but I have to say that I can't help but laugh when I give him ';that'; look and he gets a sheepish grin on his face and says ';damn barking spiders!';Has anyone ever accidentally gassed around their spouse?
Take Beano before, and there'll Beano gas. :) Just teasing. My boyfriend gasses around me all the time. I have to remind myself that everyone has gas and that even I do it too. He doesn't judge me when I do, therefor, I shouldn't judge him. Sometimes if they're really ';ripe';, I'll playfully tell him ';I'm jealous, I wish mine could be that good.'; :)
I can understand when it happens by accident. When done on purpose by either person it's just gross, maybe if you were raised in a trailer park it might be funny to do it on purpose. People that do it on purpose are just showing their lack of manners, lack of good taste and plain ignorance.
It's a natural thing. What's the big deal? However if you have gas problems that smell terrible then the right things to do is not do it intentionally, leave the presence of your spouse to be considerate.
Yea, I've done it.
My hubby saw me give birth. Im pretty sure, ';gassing'; in front of him isn't going to bother him much.
Yes. He does it in front of me.
Who cares?
Haha most people do it on purpose. I have yet to do that, but hopefully if I do I can blame it on the tv or something. lol
accidently?? there is nothing funnier than a well timed fart, especially in the comfort of your own home and around your partner. it's the fart game, everyone can play!
I do it on purpose all the time! lol
Why would he care if he ';accidentally'; did it. He's a guy....puhlease....
Yea we have passed gas around each other lots of times.
No big deal.
We just laugh it off lol.
There is no accidental with my husband or I. When we have to fart, or burp we just do it. No hiding. No shame.
yes, but I try not to be distastefull about it.
I fart and belch, My husband rarely only. It's his choice.
i try not to. lol
I am a greencard holder in the USA. I want to know how long it will take to apply for my spouse in Pakistan?
I am a greencard holder(permanent resident, not citizen) in the USA. I want to know how long it will take to apply for my spouse in Pakistan. Also, under what case type do i apply? Please respond as soon as possible.I am a greencard holder in the USA. I want to know how long it will take to apply for my spouse in Pakistan?
Between 5 and 6 years.
You apply for a spouse. It will be processed as Priority F2A. Currently applications filed the week of July 1, 2004 are being granted visas.
http://travel.state.gov/visa/frvi/bullet鈥?/a>I am a greencard holder in the USA. I want to know how long it will take to apply for my spouse in Pakistan?
This case would fall under the F2A category, the current wait time for India is around five years.
Between 5 and 6 years.
You apply for a spouse. It will be processed as Priority F2A. Currently applications filed the week of July 1, 2004 are being granted visas.
http://travel.state.gov/visa/frvi/bullet鈥?/a>I am a greencard holder in the USA. I want to know how long it will take to apply for my spouse in Pakistan?
This case would fall under the F2A category, the current wait time for India is around five years.
How does the tax stimulus plan work for married couples filing jointly when one spouse earned less than $3000?
Just like filing your income tax, it doesn't matter that only one spouse had income.
A married couple with no children, with taxable income of at least $3,000 in 2007 would qualify for the full $1,200 rebate under the terms of the Tax Rebate plan agreed to by the President and Congressional Democrats.
Nothing has passed Congress yet, so it is subject to change.How does the tax stimulus plan work for married couples filing jointly when one spouse earned less than $3000?
No possibe way to know as it has NOT been passed into law yet. Any other answer that you get is PURE guesswork.facial moisturizer moisturiser cream
A married couple with no children, with taxable income of at least $3,000 in 2007 would qualify for the full $1,200 rebate under the terms of the Tax Rebate plan agreed to by the President and Congressional Democrats.
Nothing has passed Congress yet, so it is subject to change.How does the tax stimulus plan work for married couples filing jointly when one spouse earned less than $3000?
No possibe way to know as it has NOT been passed into law yet. Any other answer that you get is PURE guesswork.
Is it possible for a former military spouse to catch a MAC flight to Australia?
I have a military ID card and full benefitsIs it possible for a former military spouse to catch a MAC flight to Australia?
MAC is now know as Space A. No you cannot. The only time spouses are allowed to fly Space A w/o their sponsor is if they are stationed OCONUS themselves or the AD member is deployed for longer than 120 days. Retirees' spouses must have the former AD member with them to fly. Widows/widowers are not allowed to fly Space A either.Is it possible for a former military spouse to catch a MAC flight to Australia?
I think that MAC flights are only available for military families that are on route to a new duty station or limited visitations.
Yes, you should be able to get a MAC flight as long as you have a DOD card.
MAC is now know as Space A. No you cannot. The only time spouses are allowed to fly Space A w/o their sponsor is if they are stationed OCONUS themselves or the AD member is deployed for longer than 120 days. Retirees' spouses must have the former AD member with them to fly. Widows/widowers are not allowed to fly Space A either.Is it possible for a former military spouse to catch a MAC flight to Australia?
I think that MAC flights are only available for military families that are on route to a new duty station or limited visitations.
Yes, you should be able to get a MAC flight as long as you have a DOD card.
Is it a positive sign when a spouse who is very much out of shape stops being defensive & admits to a problem?
And starts looking for advice to get back on the fitness bandwagon? I think my life partner is making a breakthrough here. She used to always yell at me when I'd mention this stuff.Is it a positive sign when a spouse who is very much out of shape stops being defensive %26amp; admits to a problem?
Eddie, she has known for a long time she is out of shape. Easier said than done. Take baby steps and be supportive. Gotta go get on my elliptical so I can look like Valerie Bertinelli!Is it a positive sign when a spouse who is very much out of shape stops being defensive %26amp; admits to a problem?
You're lucky she only yelled. It's not like women don't have enough pressure already from society. I know you like to joke about the issue, but all joking aside, you have to be supportive and leave the joking for Y!A. She must've been hot once upon a time or I'm sure you wouldn't have pursued marriage and all that...if you're supportive then most likely you can get her back to that and you won't have to have sex with granny in her moo-moo anymore.
Sh*t that means I gotta get my exercise bike off of the couch. Oh my God the guilt of not doing it is driving me insane. But, Eddie, as far as your wife goes, everyone reaches a point where they realize youth is no longer on their side and they need to work harder at looking good. I hope she makes you proud eventually, not to mention makes her own self proud.
Ouch!! I think you are my husband in disguise.
I just restarted this week to get my fat thighs and butt back in shape.
Its so hard to keep my size 4 shape when your not giving me any sex.
Whoopps.. I mean..when he isn't giving me any sex!
After all its the best way too loose weight.
That is a good thing! Don't push her though! Let her take the initiative and then you follow by helping her out! it's easier for some of us than other! Good luck to you both! Maybe you'll stop calling her an old broken down horse!! Hows that jockey doing? Learn to ride any better? LOL!! (joking)
Yes, that's a positive sign. It won't happen overnight, but it's a step in the right direction. There is hope yet.
Probaly getting to her. Maybe someone else outside of your relationship said something? All in all sounds like its a positive move :)
Good for you but mostly good for her. You must help her stay motivated.
yes. at least he accepts the facts.
you should go to the gym together and work out , it will help her good,
Eddie, she has known for a long time she is out of shape. Easier said than done. Take baby steps and be supportive. Gotta go get on my elliptical so I can look like Valerie Bertinelli!Is it a positive sign when a spouse who is very much out of shape stops being defensive %26amp; admits to a problem?
You're lucky she only yelled. It's not like women don't have enough pressure already from society. I know you like to joke about the issue, but all joking aside, you have to be supportive and leave the joking for Y!A. She must've been hot once upon a time or I'm sure you wouldn't have pursued marriage and all that...if you're supportive then most likely you can get her back to that and you won't have to have sex with granny in her moo-moo anymore.
Sh*t that means I gotta get my exercise bike off of the couch. Oh my God the guilt of not doing it is driving me insane. But, Eddie, as far as your wife goes, everyone reaches a point where they realize youth is no longer on their side and they need to work harder at looking good. I hope she makes you proud eventually, not to mention makes her own self proud.
Ouch!! I think you are my husband in disguise.
I just restarted this week to get my fat thighs and butt back in shape.
Its so hard to keep my size 4 shape when your not giving me any sex.
Whoopps.. I mean..when he isn't giving me any sex!
After all its the best way too loose weight.
That is a good thing! Don't push her though! Let her take the initiative and then you follow by helping her out! it's easier for some of us than other! Good luck to you both! Maybe you'll stop calling her an old broken down horse!! Hows that jockey doing? Learn to ride any better? LOL!! (joking)
Yes, that's a positive sign. It won't happen overnight, but it's a step in the right direction. There is hope yet.
Probaly getting to her. Maybe someone else outside of your relationship said something? All in all sounds like its a positive move :)
Good for you but mostly good for her. You must help her stay motivated.
yes. at least he accepts the facts.
you should go to the gym together and work out , it will help her good,
What causes a person to be extremely uncomfortable with physical, emotional, & sexual intimacy toward spouse?
He's always been this way, from day one. I know he loves me, though.
He has denied cheating, being gay, or being abused.
It's been suggested to me that he might have been abused and blocked it out.
I don't know how much longer I can live this way. It makes for quite a lonely marriage!What causes a person to be extremely uncomfortable with physical, emotional, %26amp; sexual intimacy toward spouse?
I'm old fashioned. I disagree that he truly loves you even though he says he does. ';With my body I thee worship.';used to be a part of the religious wedding ceremony and I believe it is a wise vow. No marriage between a man and a woman can long survive without physical intimacy. That is the real purpose of marriage to beget children and it can not be done without intimacy.
Hope this helps even though it is not a complete answer to your question.As I said, I'm old fashioned.What causes a person to be extremely uncomfortable with physical, emotional, %26amp; sexual intimacy toward spouse?
Now is the time to see a counselor. Even if he won't go with you, go alone. You may be assigned some eye-opening reading materials, or the discussions you have with the counselor may help you to be better at communication with your husband.
It will eventually be necessary for your husband to participate in counseling to resolve this and to ';work on it';.
Your own anxieties and gnawing questions can be addressed initially, though.
In answering your question, it is very possible that some experience in your husband's childhood has caused him shame or fear. It is very possible to have been ';abused'; or emotionally misguided without his realizing or calling it by that name.
if you were touched as a child this can happen. Hopefully, this didn't happen to you. Wishing you the best!
He has denied cheating, being gay, or being abused.
It's been suggested to me that he might have been abused and blocked it out.
I don't know how much longer I can live this way. It makes for quite a lonely marriage!What causes a person to be extremely uncomfortable with physical, emotional, %26amp; sexual intimacy toward spouse?
I'm old fashioned. I disagree that he truly loves you even though he says he does. ';With my body I thee worship.';used to be a part of the religious wedding ceremony and I believe it is a wise vow. No marriage between a man and a woman can long survive without physical intimacy. That is the real purpose of marriage to beget children and it can not be done without intimacy.
Hope this helps even though it is not a complete answer to your question.As I said, I'm old fashioned.What causes a person to be extremely uncomfortable with physical, emotional, %26amp; sexual intimacy toward spouse?
Now is the time to see a counselor. Even if he won't go with you, go alone. You may be assigned some eye-opening reading materials, or the discussions you have with the counselor may help you to be better at communication with your husband.
It will eventually be necessary for your husband to participate in counseling to resolve this and to ';work on it';.
Your own anxieties and gnawing questions can be addressed initially, though.
In answering your question, it is very possible that some experience in your husband's childhood has caused him shame or fear. It is very possible to have been ';abused'; or emotionally misguided without his realizing or calling it by that name.
if you were touched as a child this can happen. Hopefully, this didn't happen to you. Wishing you the best!
How would I list a relative when it is my niece or nephew's spouse?
I am on Facebook and trying list my relatives. I am wondering how I would list my niece and newphew's spouses? Now I have them as niece by marrage for my nephew's wife, etc. Any other ideas?How would I list a relative when it is my niece or nephew's spouse?
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What is better, to have an unfaithful spouse but helps you in your life?
than to a spouse who do nothing but spend your income unnecessarily and spends the whole time texting, computer, tv, even neglects the only kid in the family. Don't even do the laundry even with a washing machine.What is better, to have an unfaithful spouse but helps you in your life?
tough question. i would go for the secondWhat is better, to have an unfaithful spouse but helps you in your life?
A person of dignity and self-respect would not stand for either of those options.
This is where it becomes a catch-22 for ';strict'; Catholic pinoys because they as faithful husbands/wives are never ever supposed to abandon their spouses no matter what scum they turn out to be.
If effect, the Catholic doctrine gives the loser spouse a license to commit adultery or be otherwise be a severe liability to the relationship AT WILL--knowing full well that their spouse CANNOT EVER leave them regardless of what horrid acts they repetitively commit; acts that destroy relationships and scar entire families for life.
Think about it.
Better that you dump the cp, the pc, tv and the wife into the washing machine. :D
choice is between a useful cheat or a faithful loafer. i think i'd rather leave home never to be seen again.
I'm missing something here. What does this have to do with the Philippines?
Neither of the above given options would I choose one.
I wouldn't need any man in my life even for a husband if the son of a gun is good for nothing and lazy.
Infidelity cannot replace the money earned for at the end it becomes a fruitless argument between the two parties.
I am very much self-sufficient when it come to money earnings therefore, I don't need any of that crap from anyone.
im going to be realistic so i chose unfaithful but helps me.. no one live and survive for just love you need to put something in your stomach. you need to use your brain and be smart. kahit lokohin ka ng lokohin nyan sa bandang huli sayo parin yan babagsak. subukan mong iwan yan ewan ko kung di ka nyan habulin lalo na pag may anak kayo... you need to think how to survive esp when you have kids aba eh palamunin mo at buhayin at apg aralin. ang asawa madaling palitan pero ang mga anak hindi
If she is unfaithful once she will do it again. Her word is useless.
Sooner or later you will become baggage.
Come out from amongst them.
I would rather a spouse that doesn't cheat and help out with everything...is that the position u are in now...kinda hard but I would choose faithfulness ...and probably tell the lazy spouse to contribute more...
chancey, get used to it.
I'll buy a gun!
tough question. i would go for the secondWhat is better, to have an unfaithful spouse but helps you in your life?
A person of dignity and self-respect would not stand for either of those options.
This is where it becomes a catch-22 for ';strict'; Catholic pinoys because they as faithful husbands/wives are never ever supposed to abandon their spouses no matter what scum they turn out to be.
If effect, the Catholic doctrine gives the loser spouse a license to commit adultery or be otherwise be a severe liability to the relationship AT WILL--knowing full well that their spouse CANNOT EVER leave them regardless of what horrid acts they repetitively commit; acts that destroy relationships and scar entire families for life.
Think about it.
Better that you dump the cp, the pc, tv and the wife into the washing machine. :D
choice is between a useful cheat or a faithful loafer. i think i'd rather leave home never to be seen again.
I'm missing something here. What does this have to do with the Philippines?
Neither of the above given options would I choose one.
I wouldn't need any man in my life even for a husband if the son of a gun is good for nothing and lazy.
Infidelity cannot replace the money earned for at the end it becomes a fruitless argument between the two parties.
I am very much self-sufficient when it come to money earnings therefore, I don't need any of that crap from anyone.
im going to be realistic so i chose unfaithful but helps me.. no one live and survive for just love you need to put something in your stomach. you need to use your brain and be smart. kahit lokohin ka ng lokohin nyan sa bandang huli sayo parin yan babagsak. subukan mong iwan yan ewan ko kung di ka nyan habulin lalo na pag may anak kayo... you need to think how to survive esp when you have kids aba eh palamunin mo at buhayin at apg aralin. ang asawa madaling palitan pero ang mga anak hindi
If she is unfaithful once she will do it again. Her word is useless.
Sooner or later you will become baggage.
Come out from amongst them.
I would rather a spouse that doesn't cheat and help out with everything...is that the position u are in now...kinda hard but I would choose faithfulness ...and probably tell the lazy spouse to contribute more...
chancey, get used to it.
I'll buy a gun!
What should you do when your spouse is negative about everything?
My wife complains all the time about everything and is depressed all the time. She is emotionally draining, but I love her and don't want to get a divorce. What should I do?What should you do when your spouse is negative about everything?
Do something ';positive';:
Kill them.What should you do when your spouse is negative about everything?
Shoot her, put her out of her misery or seek counseling for either both of you or her.
Insist that she get a complete physical check up. Then insist on counseling. People generally go mentally in the emotional direction they steer themselves. Sounds like your wife has gotten into a negative rut and needs someone to veer her towards happy again.
Listen to what she is telling you and workout how you two can solve problems together. There are tiny complaints that your wife complains but that was just at that point and lots of women do that but there are other complaints that are long term and incline not to go away unless something is to be done about it. If she does not express, then it is not healthy either.
Sometimes, she just want to express what she thinks.
I think you can use this.
The 'Doc as he calls himself in this website (blog rather) claims he can give sincere advice. the link is given below. He calls himself the relationship doctor. You can also email him your queries I guess.
I think its worth a look-see. Won't do no harm.
Cheers!!
http://relationship-doctor.blogspot.com
wow, this sounds like me! I am a wife who does complain and is depressed sometimes. I do have to say one thing. Trust. A woman needs to know u have her back and is there for her. In any way needed, whether it be emotionally, yes i did say that. that is so hard for men to do. Plus when a woman is a stay at home mom it is hard and stressful. there could so many things that u don't know. my husband just walks away from me when i need him to just say '; it's ok, what do u need me to do?'; Talk to your wife and make sure she is handling all she has to do okay. Try to help her and let her know you are there for her no matter what. It's small things that will make her feel better. I know it may be hard, it's hard for my husband but he tries hard and it does make a big difference in day to day life. Don't divorce her, counseling would help, we go on occassion. when we feel the need. it only takes us about 1 session to see how good we have it in life and there is no good reason to complain. Meds are no good. If she is really depressed she should excersise. it helps me. She does sound a lot like me so i hopefully i can help u understand so u can take small steps on making her feel better. A lot of the times it's just little things that make a huge difference in how someone feels. Good luck
sounds like she is depressed or worried, its commendable to make your marriage want to work. a woman needs you to be on her side instead of pulling away from her..
Have her see a doctor professional, they might put her on depression medication.
Getting a divorce is better than getting murdered in your sleep. Think about that one !!!
My personal advice is that all people, men and women are going to gripe and complain. It鈥檚 just human nature to not get along with one another. I鈥檝e been through all that before, trust me. When a woman gripes and somplains she is just showing that she is the dominant person and that she knows that youj are going to notice her. My advice is that you just don鈥檛 need to worry about any of it, I鈥檓 telling you man to man. Just don鈥檛 get tired of it all and end things that you know is really a blessing, just hang in there. You both will be fine鈥?just don鈥檛 worry
Pray for her and tell her how you feel about what she does. Tell her you want to see a change. And how much you love her inspite of.
Seek counseling. It would benefit both of you.
does she complain about everything..literally?o r just specific things...like..u coming home late at night. or u not taking the garbage out etc etc.
My husband is the same way. He has been that way for 9 years now. after a while you become emotionally drained as well. He is negative about other people walking by on the streets as well as when we are driving in the car, at social functions, which is something he does not like and always has to quietly put down others in the room, only to me though. It has begun to affect our kids who are under the age of 11. I have always loved him too and have tried to be the positive one in the relationship, but now after 9 years currently I feel I have lost so much respect for him because of this. His negativity ahs affected many aspects of our lives and I have too have become frustrated, except I feel that there has to be boundaries and at some point you can't go on living miserable and something has got to change. He went and started taking meds, the kind they give for depression, but it has only been 2 and a half months. I can't tell if theya re helping any, but I do not the the respect I have lost for him is affecting the way I feel for him. Part of me still loves him, but the other part is ready to stop babying him and find a positive person! What would it be like to be with a happy person!???? Well, sorry I could not be more help, but, your not alone.
lol well wen im moaning aobut something my bf will turn it around and always look on the positive side of it so maybe when shes moaning about something say well theres always a positive side to everythin and give her the positive side to it? does she know shes depressed as she can go the doctors about depression
Sounds like she needs to seek the help of a medical professional. She might not need ';psyche'; medicine. They make a lot of drugs that help stabilize your mood.
She sounds like a good candidate for medical marijuana(depending on which state you live in).
Suggest couples counseling. That way you're not placing the blame on her, you're just stating you think the two of you have things that need to be worked out. Find someone with a medical degree who can write scripts, so she can get help for the depression. She needs to know that she doesn't HAVE to feel this way! Be encouraging and supportive, but be FIRM that this needs to happen.
If you don't think she is clinically depressed or bipolar, maybe get to the bottom of whatever is really bothering her. If she wasn't always like this, something happened to make her feel this way. Find out what it is. And for pete's sake don't placate her. Her whining is only good if there's someone to hear it; put your foot down and tell her to knock it off already and seek therapy if all else fails.facial moisturizer moisturiser cream
Do something ';positive';:
Kill them.What should you do when your spouse is negative about everything?
Shoot her, put her out of her misery or seek counseling for either both of you or her.
Insist that she get a complete physical check up. Then insist on counseling. People generally go mentally in the emotional direction they steer themselves. Sounds like your wife has gotten into a negative rut and needs someone to veer her towards happy again.
Listen to what she is telling you and workout how you two can solve problems together. There are tiny complaints that your wife complains but that was just at that point and lots of women do that but there are other complaints that are long term and incline not to go away unless something is to be done about it. If she does not express, then it is not healthy either.
Sometimes, she just want to express what she thinks.
I think you can use this.
The 'Doc as he calls himself in this website (blog rather) claims he can give sincere advice. the link is given below. He calls himself the relationship doctor. You can also email him your queries I guess.
I think its worth a look-see. Won't do no harm.
Cheers!!
http://relationship-doctor.blogspot.com
wow, this sounds like me! I am a wife who does complain and is depressed sometimes. I do have to say one thing. Trust. A woman needs to know u have her back and is there for her. In any way needed, whether it be emotionally, yes i did say that. that is so hard for men to do. Plus when a woman is a stay at home mom it is hard and stressful. there could so many things that u don't know. my husband just walks away from me when i need him to just say '; it's ok, what do u need me to do?'; Talk to your wife and make sure she is handling all she has to do okay. Try to help her and let her know you are there for her no matter what. It's small things that will make her feel better. I know it may be hard, it's hard for my husband but he tries hard and it does make a big difference in day to day life. Don't divorce her, counseling would help, we go on occassion. when we feel the need. it only takes us about 1 session to see how good we have it in life and there is no good reason to complain. Meds are no good. If she is really depressed she should excersise. it helps me. She does sound a lot like me so i hopefully i can help u understand so u can take small steps on making her feel better. A lot of the times it's just little things that make a huge difference in how someone feels. Good luck
sounds like she is depressed or worried, its commendable to make your marriage want to work. a woman needs you to be on her side instead of pulling away from her..
Have her see a doctor professional, they might put her on depression medication.
Getting a divorce is better than getting murdered in your sleep. Think about that one !!!
My personal advice is that all people, men and women are going to gripe and complain. It鈥檚 just human nature to not get along with one another. I鈥檝e been through all that before, trust me. When a woman gripes and somplains she is just showing that she is the dominant person and that she knows that youj are going to notice her. My advice is that you just don鈥檛 need to worry about any of it, I鈥檓 telling you man to man. Just don鈥檛 get tired of it all and end things that you know is really a blessing, just hang in there. You both will be fine鈥?just don鈥檛 worry
Pray for her and tell her how you feel about what she does. Tell her you want to see a change. And how much you love her inspite of.
Seek counseling. It would benefit both of you.
does she complain about everything..literally?o r just specific things...like..u coming home late at night. or u not taking the garbage out etc etc.
My husband is the same way. He has been that way for 9 years now. after a while you become emotionally drained as well. He is negative about other people walking by on the streets as well as when we are driving in the car, at social functions, which is something he does not like and always has to quietly put down others in the room, only to me though. It has begun to affect our kids who are under the age of 11. I have always loved him too and have tried to be the positive one in the relationship, but now after 9 years currently I feel I have lost so much respect for him because of this. His negativity ahs affected many aspects of our lives and I have too have become frustrated, except I feel that there has to be boundaries and at some point you can't go on living miserable and something has got to change. He went and started taking meds, the kind they give for depression, but it has only been 2 and a half months. I can't tell if theya re helping any, but I do not the the respect I have lost for him is affecting the way I feel for him. Part of me still loves him, but the other part is ready to stop babying him and find a positive person! What would it be like to be with a happy person!???? Well, sorry I could not be more help, but, your not alone.
lol well wen im moaning aobut something my bf will turn it around and always look on the positive side of it so maybe when shes moaning about something say well theres always a positive side to everythin and give her the positive side to it? does she know shes depressed as she can go the doctors about depression
Sounds like she needs to seek the help of a medical professional. She might not need ';psyche'; medicine. They make a lot of drugs that help stabilize your mood.
She sounds like a good candidate for medical marijuana(depending on which state you live in).
Suggest couples counseling. That way you're not placing the blame on her, you're just stating you think the two of you have things that need to be worked out. Find someone with a medical degree who can write scripts, so she can get help for the depression. She needs to know that she doesn't HAVE to feel this way! Be encouraging and supportive, but be FIRM that this needs to happen.
If you don't think she is clinically depressed or bipolar, maybe get to the bottom of whatever is really bothering her. If she wasn't always like this, something happened to make her feel this way. Find out what it is. And for pete's sake don't placate her. Her whining is only good if there's someone to hear it; put your foot down and tell her to knock it off already and seek therapy if all else fails.
Are you really willing to spend every night for the rest of your life in the same bed with your spouse?
wouldn't that get a little boring? I know they say when two people love eachother or are married they should spend every night together in the same bed but my god, wouldn't you get sick of it? bore of them sexually eventually? want to have an affair?
How could someone resign themselves to having sex with one person only for the rest of their lives? and how do they not get sick of them or want to stray?Are you really willing to spend every night for the rest of your life in the same bed with your spouse?
Yes!!! I want to be with someone I know who will treat me as good as the first time with love respect honesty reassurance and understanding even when we are in our 60th wedding anniversary.
Don't you?Are you really willing to spend every night for the rest of your life in the same bed with your spouse?
Divorce rates continue to climb because people can't communicate, not because they get bored. People are bored because they choose to be boring!
Take control of your time, your attitude and your relationships. They will need constant nurturing and support.
Take time to be alone.
Pursue your individuality along with your partnership.
Communicate more often.
Have a deep conversation every week.
Laugh more...a LOT more.
Above all else, don't take things too seriously and have gratitude for everything.
i adore the thought of waking up every morning to my partner's lovely face. it excites me to think that every night for the rest of my life i have the privilege of snuggling into him and falling gently to sleep in his arms. i love the thought of having sex with him every day, and playing around and joking all the time.
to spend the rest of your life with someone, you need to be best friends as well as lovers. we have that and i've never been so happy =]
We've been together 16 years and I'm not bored yet, so... nope. Because it's more than ';just sex';. It's the emotion, the love, the stability, the friendship, the comfort of knowing that there is always always ALWAYS someone there for me. The sex is just a bonus.
The beauty of it is that YOU never have to get married. No one ';makes you';. Just be sure to use protection so you don't drag an innocent child into your life, and you're free to sleep with as many people as you want.
I have been with the same person for 17yrs now and all is going well for us. Maybe if this concept of monogamy is so foreign to you, then maybe your not mature enough for a true commited relationship. When you are truly in love with someone the concept of a commited relationship will be 100% natural.
If you feel this way, then don't get married. It's really not that big of deal. Once you grow up, you will realize that there is more to life than sex.
If you have a partner that is inventive and does new and exciting things in the bedroom then it doesn't get boring.
Its okay you get use to it and when they are not there is kinda hard to go to sleep. You just need to keep things spiced up!
Not only do we sleep in the same bed... we go to sleep in each others arms or holding hands. And added to that we snore together too.
Yep and just sex is boring.
Many people get that out of their systems before they marry.
A marriage is not about sex!
been married 43 years, and will be till death do us part
If you love someone how can you get tried, of course to keep your relationship spiced up you can try new things and just always remember to keep it romantic when you can. Basically, it's your mind and feeling that make it special and want to continue that passion you both have for each other.Anybody can go out and F%26amp;*^$. it doesn't take any skills to do that, (no emotions attached) but the emotions are what makes sex feel good and sharing it with the person you love makes it all the more better.
How could someone resign themselves to having sex with one person only for the rest of their lives? and how do they not get sick of them or want to stray?Are you really willing to spend every night for the rest of your life in the same bed with your spouse?
Yes!!! I want to be with someone I know who will treat me as good as the first time with love respect honesty reassurance and understanding even when we are in our 60th wedding anniversary.
Don't you?Are you really willing to spend every night for the rest of your life in the same bed with your spouse?
Divorce rates continue to climb because people can't communicate, not because they get bored. People are bored because they choose to be boring!
Take control of your time, your attitude and your relationships. They will need constant nurturing and support.
Take time to be alone.
Pursue your individuality along with your partnership.
Communicate more often.
Have a deep conversation every week.
Laugh more...a LOT more.
Above all else, don't take things too seriously and have gratitude for everything.
i adore the thought of waking up every morning to my partner's lovely face. it excites me to think that every night for the rest of my life i have the privilege of snuggling into him and falling gently to sleep in his arms. i love the thought of having sex with him every day, and playing around and joking all the time.
to spend the rest of your life with someone, you need to be best friends as well as lovers. we have that and i've never been so happy =]
We've been together 16 years and I'm not bored yet, so... nope. Because it's more than ';just sex';. It's the emotion, the love, the stability, the friendship, the comfort of knowing that there is always always ALWAYS someone there for me. The sex is just a bonus.
The beauty of it is that YOU never have to get married. No one ';makes you';. Just be sure to use protection so you don't drag an innocent child into your life, and you're free to sleep with as many people as you want.
I have been with the same person for 17yrs now and all is going well for us. Maybe if this concept of monogamy is so foreign to you, then maybe your not mature enough for a true commited relationship. When you are truly in love with someone the concept of a commited relationship will be 100% natural.
If you feel this way, then don't get married. It's really not that big of deal. Once you grow up, you will realize that there is more to life than sex.
If you have a partner that is inventive and does new and exciting things in the bedroom then it doesn't get boring.
Its okay you get use to it and when they are not there is kinda hard to go to sleep. You just need to keep things spiced up!
Not only do we sleep in the same bed... we go to sleep in each others arms or holding hands. And added to that we snore together too.
Yep and just sex is boring.
Many people get that out of their systems before they marry.
A marriage is not about sex!
been married 43 years, and will be till death do us part
If you love someone how can you get tried, of course to keep your relationship spiced up you can try new things and just always remember to keep it romantic when you can. Basically, it's your mind and feeling that make it special and want to continue that passion you both have for each other.Anybody can go out and F%26amp;*^$. it doesn't take any skills to do that, (no emotions attached) but the emotions are what makes sex feel good and sharing it with the person you love makes it all the more better.
How often do you and your spouse have sex a week, who usually initiates it?
how old are you and your partner. just curious.How often do you and your spouse have sex a week, who usually initiates it?
Do not want to disclose age. We have sex 3/4 times in a week. Mostly I initiate it.How often do you and your spouse have sex a week, who usually initiates it?
I'm 30 and my husband is 32 and we have sex about once a week
We have 5 kids together I have a daughter and he has a daughter too
im 18 he's 23...we have sex every day, sometimes 2-3 times a day. i'd say we're about equal on who initiates it. we seem to take turns pretty well w/o even talking about it lol..sometimes one of us will wake the other up by doing sexual things to them...we're equal i'd say. :)
once every other month, if lucky. I (try) to initiate but mostly not successful. She's initiated once this year, I think.
Mid thirties, both of us.
back in the days........me-30, him-37 and we had sex while we both awake once a month, three times while I was sleeping. I tried initiating it but he denied it. Like I said, back in the days.
As often as we can. We have 4 kids (10 %26amp; under) and my hubby works nights...so, whoever is awake %26amp; isn't too exhausted initiates it. The average is 4 times a week. I am 29 %26amp; my hubby is 33. We have been married 11 years.
We have sex every other day now.
I'm 21 and she is 22 now.
almost everyday :)
23 and 26 1-2 times a day, usually. and It is just about equal but I think I initiate it a little more often than he does
2 to 3 times a week some weeks more some weeks only 2 times :( . We both iniciate. Him 39 me 44.
We are both 24, married for 2 1/2 years, and we do it about once a week on average.
Sometime I initiate it, sometimes him. It's about equal. Usually if it is more than once a week then I am the one that initiates the second time.
My husband is 22, I am 20. Everyday, sometimes twice a day. We both initiates it :)
Do not want to disclose age. We have sex 3/4 times in a week. Mostly I initiate it.How often do you and your spouse have sex a week, who usually initiates it?
I'm 30 and my husband is 32 and we have sex about once a week
We have 5 kids together I have a daughter and he has a daughter too
im 18 he's 23...we have sex every day, sometimes 2-3 times a day. i'd say we're about equal on who initiates it. we seem to take turns pretty well w/o even talking about it lol..sometimes one of us will wake the other up by doing sexual things to them...we're equal i'd say. :)
once every other month, if lucky. I (try) to initiate but mostly not successful. She's initiated once this year, I think.
Mid thirties, both of us.
back in the days........me-30, him-37 and we had sex while we both awake once a month, three times while I was sleeping. I tried initiating it but he denied it. Like I said, back in the days.
As often as we can. We have 4 kids (10 %26amp; under) and my hubby works nights...so, whoever is awake %26amp; isn't too exhausted initiates it. The average is 4 times a week. I am 29 %26amp; my hubby is 33. We have been married 11 years.
We have sex every other day now.
I'm 21 and she is 22 now.
almost everyday :)
23 and 26 1-2 times a day, usually. and It is just about equal but I think I initiate it a little more often than he does
2 to 3 times a week some weeks more some weeks only 2 times :( . We both iniciate. Him 39 me 44.
We are both 24, married for 2 1/2 years, and we do it about once a week on average.
Sometime I initiate it, sometimes him. It's about equal. Usually if it is more than once a week then I am the one that initiates the second time.
My husband is 22, I am 20. Everyday, sometimes twice a day. We both initiates it :)
How do you deal with your spouse who has extreme obsessive compulsive disorder?
If she/he's not in treatment, get them to go. If they ARE in treatment and there is a worsening of symptoms, you may have to ask them to get a reevaluation on their treatment and/or medication. The best thing is to be understanding, honest, and tactful when telling them.How do you deal with your spouse who has extreme obsessive compulsive disorder?
If she is not seeing any help for this than I would defiently suggust to her to go and seek some proffesional help. As far as dealing with her problem I don't see how you can avoid the problem other than supporting her and looking at the good quality's that attracted you to her in the first place. I am sure that this must be hard on you but don't forget that she is the one dealing with the problem but I hope that you can focus on the good and not the bad and just show support and that's all you can do. Best of Luck.How do you deal with your spouse who has extreme obsessive compulsive disorder?
take them to a psychologist for medicine. this will help if you remind them to take the daily dose.
Tell her it is becoming a serious problem and you think she may need to take some medication. I am on Luvox for it. Works okay, I'm alot better about it than I was.
i take paxil for my ocd. suggest that your spouse see a psychiatrist.
If she is not seeing any help for this than I would defiently suggust to her to go and seek some proffesional help. As far as dealing with her problem I don't see how you can avoid the problem other than supporting her and looking at the good quality's that attracted you to her in the first place. I am sure that this must be hard on you but don't forget that she is the one dealing with the problem but I hope that you can focus on the good and not the bad and just show support and that's all you can do. Best of Luck.How do you deal with your spouse who has extreme obsessive compulsive disorder?
take them to a psychologist for medicine. this will help if you remind them to take the daily dose.
Tell her it is becoming a serious problem and you think she may need to take some medication. I am on Luvox for it. Works okay, I'm alot better about it than I was.
i take paxil for my ocd. suggest that your spouse see a psychiatrist.
How often do you think to yourself: Why oh why doesn't my spouse look like Johnny Depp or Jessica Alba?
I won't tell.How often do you think to yourself: Why oh why doesn't my spouse look like Johnny Depp or Jessica Alba?
With the lights off and with my eyes tightly shut, my wife does look like Jessica.How often do you think to yourself: Why oh why doesn't my spouse look like Johnny Depp or Jessica Alba?
Funny you should ask... While my friend's wife imagines he looks like Johnny Depp while she's ******* him, I only get to imagine ******* him.
Me, even though I'm not married. :D I luv Johnny Depp.
tell us
With the lights off and with my eyes tightly shut, my wife does look like Jessica.How often do you think to yourself: Why oh why doesn't my spouse look like Johnny Depp or Jessica Alba?
Funny you should ask... While my friend's wife imagines he looks like Johnny Depp while she's ******* him, I only get to imagine ******* him.
Me, even though I'm not married. :D I luv Johnny Depp.
tell us
What kind of attention getter can I use in the intro of my ';spouse abuse'; essay?
I'm writing a small essay about spouse abuse and I'm having trouble getting the intro going..can someone please help?What kind of attention getter can I use in the intro of my ';spouse abuse'; essay?
perhaps you can start with the excuses spouses make when they are experiencing spousal abuse.
example.
He didn't mean to do; oh i fell down the staircase: i was being clumsy again and walked into the door :I shouldn't have provoked ;she is really a good wife but she just get rattled up sometimes...these are just few of the expression we hear everyday.....
Or
you can start by describing someone or someone's experience who has been abused....
Her head hung low as she tried to forced back the tears that ran hurriedly down her battered cheeks. The blood had made little red marks that hovered over the blow she had received that very day. She recounted that she had been mistreated many times before, but today was the worst of it all. ...
hope this helpedWhat kind of attention getter can I use in the intro of my ';spouse abuse'; essay?
Not sure which direction you took, but perhaps twist it towards spouse abuse where the female is the abuser. There was a movie once that started as ';Men don't tell'; and it was from the perspective of a man being abused by his wife.
From past experience it appears more men are abused than ever reported, simple because of ego or people will not believe them. Either way no one should abuse anyone, doesn't matter if it is male or female causing the abuse.
I know I have not given you a attention getter in form, but maybe a different approach to a very important subject. Good luck.
perhaps you can start with the excuses spouses make when they are experiencing spousal abuse.
example.
He didn't mean to do; oh i fell down the staircase: i was being clumsy again and walked into the door :I shouldn't have provoked ;she is really a good wife but she just get rattled up sometimes...these are just few of the expression we hear everyday.....
Or
you can start by describing someone or someone's experience who has been abused....
Her head hung low as she tried to forced back the tears that ran hurriedly down her battered cheeks. The blood had made little red marks that hovered over the blow she had received that very day. She recounted that she had been mistreated many times before, but today was the worst of it all. ...
hope this helpedWhat kind of attention getter can I use in the intro of my ';spouse abuse'; essay?
Not sure which direction you took, but perhaps twist it towards spouse abuse where the female is the abuser. There was a movie once that started as ';Men don't tell'; and it was from the perspective of a man being abused by his wife.
From past experience it appears more men are abused than ever reported, simple because of ego or people will not believe them. Either way no one should abuse anyone, doesn't matter if it is male or female causing the abuse.
I know I have not given you a attention getter in form, but maybe a different approach to a very important subject. Good luck.
How do you know if your spouse love you?
People say that they love their boyfriend of husband how do you know if they love you?
I'm not talking only them saying it is it more then them telling you that they love you?
My husband love me because when II used to be so self conscious about everything including that he was going to leave me but he didn't because he love Me!How do you know if your spouse love you?
My spouse shows me because he goes out the way for me, when I am getting dressed he warms up my car,we serve each other food on trays sometime. I helps me do landury ( which I told him not to do) when I have a bad day he gives me foot massages, he planned a suprise birthday party for me all my friends and family really niceHow do you know if your spouse love you?
a husband who loves his wife, shows her- around the house, and in the bed. he is always sweet, and loving. he can never get enough of you.
Seriously? If you have to ask that question - you don't know what love is.
I'm not talking only them saying it is it more then them telling you that they love you?
My husband love me because when II used to be so self conscious about everything including that he was going to leave me but he didn't because he love Me!How do you know if your spouse love you?
My spouse shows me because he goes out the way for me, when I am getting dressed he warms up my car,we serve each other food on trays sometime. I helps me do landury ( which I told him not to do) when I have a bad day he gives me foot massages, he planned a suprise birthday party for me all my friends and family really niceHow do you know if your spouse love you?
a husband who loves his wife, shows her- around the house, and in the bed. he is always sweet, and loving. he can never get enough of you.
Seriously? If you have to ask that question - you don't know what love is.
How would you react if your spouse were offered the chance to go to the moon?
If he really wanted to go, I would support him with all I had. Id be worried, but if it was his dream, Id encourage it to happen.How would you react if your spouse were offered the chance to go to the moon?
I'd be pretty worried, but I wouldn't stand in the way if he wanted to because that would be a pretty amazing opportunity!
I'm just hoping he changes his mind about climbing Everest. Again, I won't try to veto it, but I hate the idea! It's extremely dangerous!! I even bought him a couple books about some tragic expeditions, but they didn't dissuade him! :(How would you react if your spouse were offered the chance to go to the moon?
Considering her health problems and my dream of concouring the moon, jealous, unless I get to come and then elated.
If this was something he wanted to do, I would support him as long as he did not expect me to take the trip as well.
I would be selfishly upset and beg him not to go, but try to act supporting at the same time.
id beat him to the shuttle. or we would find a way to go together.
lol its ok its fake... u'll end up in a studio in california...bwahahahah!!!!
Id' tell her to sing her arias.
Would this space ship be returning him ?? LOL
Fight him for it.
I want to go on the shuttle!!!!!!
ask him if I could go
please pretty please (batts eye lashes)
pack his bags for him, drive him down to cape canaveral and say my farewell to him.
I'd be pretty worried, but I wouldn't stand in the way if he wanted to because that would be a pretty amazing opportunity!
I'm just hoping he changes his mind about climbing Everest. Again, I won't try to veto it, but I hate the idea! It's extremely dangerous!! I even bought him a couple books about some tragic expeditions, but they didn't dissuade him! :(How would you react if your spouse were offered the chance to go to the moon?
Considering her health problems and my dream of concouring the moon, jealous, unless I get to come and then elated.
If this was something he wanted to do, I would support him as long as he did not expect me to take the trip as well.
I would be selfishly upset and beg him not to go, but try to act supporting at the same time.
id beat him to the shuttle. or we would find a way to go together.
lol its ok its fake... u'll end up in a studio in california...bwahahahah!!!!
Id' tell her to sing her arias.
Would this space ship be returning him ?? LOL
Fight him for it.
I want to go on the shuttle!!!!!!
ask him if I could go
please pretty please (batts eye lashes)
pack his bags for him, drive him down to cape canaveral and say my farewell to him.
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