How do You Fix A Relationship When Your Spouse Have Cheated?

Can It Still Work? Or Should You Just Move On To Another?How do You Fix A Relationship When Your Spouse Have Cheated?
I wouldn't even bother.


I wasted two years on my now ex-fiance after he cheated on me.


SO NOT WORTH IT.





Once you break a glass and then you try to put it back together.


You're missing parts and there are still cracks and holes.


Its never the same.


Ask yourself this; can you honestly just forgive and forget? I know I didn't.








Obviously he didn't respect you enough to care about you or your feelings.


Maybe its time you let go.How do You Fix A Relationship When Your Spouse Have Cheated?
I agree with soinlove3.


It can work, but you have to be willing. The other party will usually be willing unless otherwise said, but alot of it is up to you.


If you can trust, which is not instantaneous, then yes. It's completely understandable for it to take time for that trust to be rebuilt and if you should choose to move forward that should be established ground for both of you. Don't let him rush you to get over it, but you can't drag it on for years, because even though it was wrong and the last thing you want to think of is the cheater's feelings, it's not fair... to either of you.


But! Because this is where alot of people seem to go wrong; You need to forgive. REALLY forgive. If you can't, then move on. So many people stay in relationships when they've been cheated on and use that wrong as leverage and you CAN'T do that, ie; If you do something he feels is wrong, and you come back with, ';well, you cheated on me, so...';


To make it work, you have to be able to forgive -- not forget, because that's not going to happen -- and move past it.
Trust is easily given, but once lost almost never returned.





If you have no children with him... I'd start new, I personally could not trust anyone who has cheated on me. Once a cheater always a cheater.





Good luck. If you can escape without much lost baggage... just call it a lesson learned. If you have a lot of baggage especially children, then you may want to stick it out for the sake of the children.





good luck
it depends. if you think you could rebuild the trust that you had then you should try to work things out. it's definitely not an easy thing to do but if you both want it to work out then you should rebuild the relationship even though it takes time.
NO i never trying to cheat i have an idea to manage all those thing i never let any one in bad atmosphere i am always with my spouse i never goes to address them for any harm if the communities have better adviser in front i really obey and do better
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=At4bHklpYTk.ezmKoNSm_Ersy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20090909141350AAa30h6