How often do you and your spouse argue?

What do you think about couples who say they never argue?How often do you and your spouse argue?
REALLY big argument (i.e. a big fight)? Maybe once a year. Big argument (small fight)? Maybe once every month or two. Little ones (not a fight)? Couple of times a week.





I think arguing (not screaming, throwing) but just arguing is natural and needs to happen sometimes.





If a couple TRULY never argues it's one of a few possibilities:





1. They truly are a match made in heaven - a one in a million.





2. One of them completely dominates the other and it's a dictatorship.





3. Neither of them care enough to even speak their mind.How often do you and your spouse argue?
We have never actually fought or argued. We have discussed things, but never had it advance to a level that I would consider it to be fighting/arguing.





Depends on the reasoning for the couple that never argues. Are they not arguing due to the fact that are communicating well and tend to catch problems before they escalate to that level or tend to sit down and just discuss the problem and address it as adults? Or are they the couple where one person always gives into the other and that is why they never argue? Couple number one is a great couple. They will be able to have a very happy marriage. Couple number two....their marriage would eventually crumble.
My wife and I did not argue at all for the first 8 years of our marriage, now it has blown up and we are having some minor issues. I think this has been an issue that we did not argue, we kept things bottled up. We have sense started a '*****' session every other week to let things out, these are controlled and not vindictive at all, just so we know were we stand. It has helped a lot. Do not be afraid to argue, just make sure that it is not hateful and do not nag about minor issues.
we have disagreements but we don't argue.there is no screaming and yelling involved.it is mostly we say what the problem is and then try to resolve it. he is deployed alot so we don't waste the time we have together with arguing.we appreciate each other alot cause we both know what its like not to have that person there.
it's beleiveable


most cases it's a control and bow down thing and or someone keeping something bottled up! or how they handle their conflicts!


i don't have many fights with my man, we argue sometimes but even that is limited!


we talk out our issues and just because someone don't agree .. that doesn equal argue!
arguing would imply caring enough about my position and feeling the necessity to express myself. I learned a long time ago that my husband does not really listen and that a one-worded answer does not solve any problems. So, we pretty much stopped arguing and I started figuring things out on my own. It's so much easier this way.
I guess it depends on what you mean by argue. We don't have big screaming fights, we don't call each other names, we don't throw things or storm out. We bicker occasionally, but that's about it. The last big fight we had was a little over two years ago, but we've certainly had some spats since then.
honestly, we never fight.


we don't have anything to fight about.


We don't go out with ';the guys'; or ';girls'; we are not bar people.


we don't drink..


we agree on money matters.


His job is fixing things - garbage etc ... i clean the house - unless I want his help - i ask for it. we honestly never fight because we have nothing to fight about!


we are both easy going people, and we don't sweat the little things!
I shout and my wife sulks, does that count as arguing? lol





Doesn't happen often though.





I find the best thing to do is to put the kettle on and sit down at the table with a coffee and talk a problem over like adults, it usually solves the problems.
If you argue it's because you care, it's when you stop arguing you have to worry because you don't care anymore what the other person thinks or says
We argue monthly! It happens in relationships -sometimes we can go months without a fight and then all of a sudden for weeks we mad. But we communicate and try to patch things up as soon as possible.
Everyone has disagreements, but not everyone has major blowout name calling fights. People that say they don't argue are lying!
everyone argues!! no matter what they say. and if they truly dont.. its bc they never say whats pissing them off... me and my bf argue alllll the fuckn time.. its so annoying... and then we make up.. like always.