What do you do when your spouse doesn't agree on how many kids to have?

So before we got married we discussed it and he didn't disagree so I assumed he agreed. Now that we're actually doing it he's changed his mind and only wants 1. I was seriously crying and don't know how to handle this. What do you do when you don't agree?? Does anyone else have experience with this?? How to come up with a decision we can both live with....He doesn't seem to be budging.What do you do when your spouse doesn't agree on how many kids to have?
Well if he wants 1 and you want 3 try convincing him for 2 or something like that.What do you do when your spouse doesn't agree on how many kids to have?
Your partially to blame here, you asked but then assumed, bad decision on your part. Now that your married, it is more difficult but you have to sit him down and tell him this is a deal breaker, and if he does not concede then you will be forced to file for divorce and find someone with the same goal in life as yourself. I understand your desire and also believe that children are the biggest blessing a couple can produce. Good luck to you.
I suggest if you have a wee one already just enjoy her for the moment, then discuss it a little later down the track.


You could be deceitful and stop taking birth control but that will present a whole heap of new problems.
Best advice is not to have any kids as your marriage is headed for divorce pretty quick !
My wife wanted a 4th. I bought her a German Shepherd and all is cool.