Would this be considered cheating, even though you are not physically seeing anyone, just a virtual mistress?
Thanks for any feedback on this.Is having a virtual Affair on Second Life Considered Cheating on your Spouse?
Considered cheating by whom? What the **** does it matter what I, or John Sixpack two houses down considers cheating?
The one to ask is your spouse. She can define for you what she considers cheating, and that is the definition with which to live by, not some numbskulls on the Internet.Is having a virtual Affair on Second Life Considered Cheating on your Spouse?
Yes! Having an emotional affair will hurt your wife a lot! And even if you have no emotional ties to your wife, just the fact that you are playing out this fantasy will hurt her.
If you want to add in some fun, delete the current second life account you have, and have you and your wife create new profiles where you can be as mysterious as you want (or, you create hers and she creates yours) and then you can go to romantic places with her.
It sounds all a bit pathetic to be brutally honest. Could you really be that desperate that you would ';go to romantic places'; (imaginary), and have (imaginary) sex with someone you don't know??
Oh dear.
I am amazed that anyone regards it as ';emotionally cheating'; ... I cannot imagine that there would be any valid emotion of any depth involved in playing pretend with your imaginary friend. I completely get that you could become emotionally attached to someone you meet online, but not through gaming.
It's not physically cheating either, but it's certainly cheating your wife out of a proper investment of your energy, and it's cheating yourself out of a real life. How sad.
It's the feelings/intent that count. You may not be physically with her or even seeing her on webcam, but if you have feelings for her. Extra-marital feelings that is, (I assume you are married when you say ';spouse';) I would consider cheating. Just love the one you're with. Virtual relationships rarely work out anyway.
Yes. Ask yourself what you are missing from your marriage and try to seek those things within your own relationship. Perhaps if you spent more time talking, cuddling, sex, with your wife, you wouldn't be seeking it with on a virtual site. Real life is more difficult but more rewarding in the long run than anything on line. Talk to your wife and good luck! :)
YES its cheating. While it may not be physical, its emotional and you are being intimate with another person and not your spouse. Stop what you are doing now and invest the time and what you are doing with her - with your wife.
How would you feel if your wife was doing the same thing with another guy?
Chris,
If I were your wife, I would think you were avoiding me. Life is short. Put a timer on how long you are online with make believe. When you are all alone, lonely, and a widower, count those minutes that you could have used for loving words and actions towards the person you loved and married. Yes, it is cheating, cheating, and more than that!
You don't like your reality at home?
If you're virtually going to romantic spots, cuddling, and having sex, then you must be aroused when doing so.
So in essence, you are emotionally cheating.
That ';woman'; could very well be a man for all you know.
Okay..I live with a gamer. If he was doing this though, I would have a fit. To ever ';talk, cuddle, have sex'; with another woman (even in a virtual mind sucking, time wasting fake universe) is a form of cheating dude. Try this...tell your wife and ask what she thinks!
The way i see cheating is; anything that you dont want your spouse to know.
a simpler way to answer your question is to think of it like this; would you consider it cheating if it were vice versa?
Yes. you're having an emotional affair if nothing else. If you're doing anything you wouldn't want your wife to know about, then you can consider it cheating.
what would you do if the shoe was on the other foot, i'd go ballistic if it was my hubby, don't do to others what you wouldn't want done to yourself
Lol. This is a tough question to answer, but if your wife was doing this, would you be upset? Yes, you would. I don't think you should do that..
If you've kept it a secret from her, that's your answer right there. You wouldn't keep it secret unless you knew it wasn't right.
I think so. If your wife did this would you count it as cheating?
yes its called having an emotional affair. you need to stop NOW!!!!
You're the one who called it a ';virtual affair';, so...you tell us?!
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