How would you bring your new spouse into mode ?

I am not married, and i was wondering that.'how people get start ';sex'; with their very new spouse without hesitation' ? .How would you bring your new spouse into mode ?
Bring him into mode? Sorry, all I can think of is pie with vanilla ice cream.How would you bring your new spouse into mode ?
With a kiss.





Then another kiss.





Then another...





That's a good way to start. Things can move naturally from there.
that is why you try the milk before you buy the cow,

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